Practicing abstinence.

[iLikeWolves]

I have always been a very meek person, and I hesitate to enact my desires on other people or animals. I have always seen my own personal sexual desires as selfish. I fantasize about being with an animal, but I always use porn to satiate those desires.

Even when I have been presented with situations where I could have sexual experiences with my family dog, I didn’t out of respect for its own well-being (and fear that my parents would find out).

Are there zoos who abstain from their desires, even when they have them? Is there anything to be gained from suppressing these urges when they arise?

 

[FloofyNewfie]

As for what I've seen on here, you might be in a bit of a unique situation, but it's hard to say for certain. As I myself cannot answer for anyone else.

I'm not 100% sure why you'd see your own sexual desires as selfish? As long as both parties are enjoying the sexual contact I don't see anything wrong with it. Then again I haven't walked in your shoes and don't know if there is any other underlying reasons to why you feel this way? I don't know if it's due to it being, for example, illegal or taboo, or if it is due to other reasons?

I know I've done things in my past with family pets, that I felt guilty about shortly after. This was because I didn't except my zoosexual feelings until the age of 17 roughly. But before 17 years of age I thought of bestiality as morally wrong. I was too week to actually physically abstain from it. Which led to a lot of guilt on my part.

 

[SigmaTheZeta]

I have always been a very meek person, and I hesitate to enact my desires on other people or animals. I have always seen my own personal sexual desires as selfish. I fantasize about being with an animal, but I always use porn to satiate those desires.

Even when I have been presented with situations where I could have sexual experiences with my family dog, I didn’t out of respect for its own well-being (and fear that my parents would find out).

Are there zoos who abstain from their desires, even when they have them? Is there anything to be gained from suppressing these urges when they arise?

You should not feel under pressure to have sex with your animal.

It will happen...if it happens...when the moment is right and when you know that your animal is just as interested as you are. You may go your entire life and never have an animal that really wanted to meet you halfway. It won't change the fact that you were just as much of a zoo as I.

For now, it is okay to just enjoy your animal in ordinary ways.

 

[timmythetooth]

You should not feel under pressure to have sex with your animal.

It will happen...if it happens...when the moment is right and when you know that your animal is just as interested as you are. You may go your entire life and never have an animal that really wanted to meet you halfway. It won't change the fact that you were just as much of a zoo as I.

For now, it is okay to just enjoy your animal in ordinary ways.

its true, not only does it apply for that, but humans as well. things will come together when the time is right and with the person/companion that is right. do not feel discouraged or that you are "behind the curve" in any respect. enjoy life as it is right now and dont force anything. we have so many years ahead of us to create new experiences.

 

[PuppyPumper]

I tried but it just led to me feeling guilty when I wasn't able to resist. Eventually I just stopped trying. I figure I may as well do what I want

 

[SigmaTheZeta]

I tried but it just led to me feeling guilty when I wasn't able to resist. Eventually I just stopped trying. I figure I may as well do what I want

I do the same, what I want...but a large part of what I want is for the animals in my care to be happy and healthy and to live for many more years to come.

You fuck them and fuck them, and their tails just keep wagging, though. They are blissfully oblivious to human moral hang-ups over it, and I have a feeling that, even if you could explain those hang-ups to them, they could not bring themselves to care a flying purple two-dicked rat's ass about those hang-ups.

However, the dog is also not going to care very much if you never have sex with them at all because, quite frankly, they would probably be just as happy with you if you just threw a bouncy rubber ball for them. It means the same to a dog. It's something fun they can do with someone they love. They are uncomplicated. That is why I like them a lot more than I do humans. If more humans were that uncomplicated, I would be a lot more sexually interested in them.

 

[Pillar]

I do the same, what I want...but a large part of what I want is for the animals in my care to be happy and healthy and to live for many more years to come.

You fuck them and fuck them, and their tails just keep wagging, though. They are blissfully oblivious to human moral hang-ups over it, and I have a feeling that, even if you could explain those hang-ups to them, they could not bring themselves to care a flying purple two-dicked rat's ass about those hang-ups.

However, the dog is also not going to care very much if you never have sex with them at all because, quite frankly, they would probably be just as happy with you if you just threw a bouncy rubber ball for them. It means the same to a dog. It's something fun they can do with someone they love. They are uncomplicated. That is why I like them a lot more than I do humans. If more humans were that uncomplicated, I would be a lot more sexually interested in them.

That's quite ironic - things don't always work out that way. As an uncomplicated person I've been met with a lot of hate for that. "Oh look, what an uncomplicated and foolish person this is. There's no class to a simpleton like this." Nowadays it's just the silent treatment and underhanded "compliments".

 

[Austral]

Well, even though I have never been very active anyway (dogs or humans), I've been practicing abstinence in the last 5 years, because I promised not to touch my dog again if she lived after an awful urgent surgery she got. I got guilty and I even deleted all the zoo porn I collected for a decade. I still have my dog luckily, though she is pretty old.

I think being a furry for more than 10 years helped me to canalize my sexual desires. At first it was mostly anthro (well, by that time feral wasn't very popular as now, not even anatomically correct genitalia, specially in females), and then I moved more into feral (that was like the best of two worlds), and also some clop.

Now in the last months I cut down on yiff, because it's not very healthy for the brain (like all porn, or even worse, since it's further away from reality), and suddenly my repressed zoo feelings came back. (Just like those guys that stop watching porn stars and they become interested again in real life girls... ). I still want to keep my promise, so I'll have to wait until she is gone and eventually got another partner.

 

[Zetaman40]

To the OP:

As other people have said it'll happen when you and a future partner are both ready, as for a psychological point of view: suppressing your sexuality can be detrimental in the long run, it can lead to insecurities/anxieties in relationships due to prolonged avoidance and depression from feelings of loneliness or fear of inadequacy: put simply, sex is a natural bodily function and lack of it can be bad for your well being (notice I say can, nothing is 100% and some people can go without sex for a lifetime and be fine with it) I really do recommend that if you have a willing partner to take a chance! Go beyond your fears, if the partner is a dog you may be surprised just how receptive they can be, trust me! As long as they are visibly willing and enthusiastic about the stimuli you're giving them, you are doing nothing wrong and its not selfish. At the end of the day its your decision, just think what Ive said through

(I've had many zoo experiences being an exclusive cynosexual and I can say that 9 out of 10 dogs normally consent to sexual advances and may even persistently beg you for it after expierencing it (especially males although I've meet a couple "nympho" females even out of heat, very few intact dogs want nothing to do with sexual advances, in other words, the odds are your canine partner will be receptive, don't let the normies who have zero expierence in a canines sexual drive {due to excessive neutering and spaying} tell you zoosex is wrong, or influence your feelings about your attractions! With time and expierence you'll see just how wrong the majority is if you make the leap too being an active zoosexual)

PS: feel free to pm me if you ever need to chat about stuff