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Ferallover
Guest
My wife and I are zoos and polysexual we are interested in looking for partners but we are afraid because we won't know how to approach the subject or if there are zoo friendly dating sites
nekdoneco123
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
seems like plenty of folk try to use this forum as a "zoo friendly dating site".... go announce you're a female in the introductions and see what happens to your inbox...
or you can try the personal ads section, which this thread feels like belongs over there anyway
or you can try the personal ads section, which this thread feels like belongs over there anyway
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Ferallover
Guest
I can't tell if this is a attack or not but what I am looking for is advice on how to bring up to possible future partners that we are zoophiles
SouthEastDude
Tourist
It's risky to tell anyone you're a zoo, you'd ideally need to build up a solid bond with a person before you do anything like that. I came out to my bf about it, but only after 2 years, and even though we're poly and open, we're unlikely to tell anyone unless we're sure they could also be legit.
Zoosbook exists, but I don't trust the idea of a relatively open-access dating site, it no doubt has plenty of vigilante types on there.
Best approach is befriend somebody, if they're a sexual partner then just do a lot of kinky stuff with them and help expand their mind to the idea of trying new things out. Once you become solid friends then you could mention, but you need to just leave the occasional hint or make the odd zoo joke and see their reaction. If they are shocked and disgusted by you jokingly saying about dogs being hot, then imagine what they'd think if you come out and say you're sexually attracted to them.
Zoosbook exists, but I don't trust the idea of a relatively open-access dating site, it no doubt has plenty of vigilante types on there.
Best approach is befriend somebody, if they're a sexual partner then just do a lot of kinky stuff with them and help expand their mind to the idea of trying new things out. Once you become solid friends then you could mention, but you need to just leave the occasional hint or make the odd zoo joke and see their reaction. If they are shocked and disgusted by you jokingly saying about dogs being hot, then imagine what they'd think if you come out and say you're sexually attracted to them.
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Ferallover
Guest
Thanks that is good advice my wife and myself could not think of trying to abandon our love for our future mates
