Please be weary of this dude

[rosethedoglover2000]

Early this morning I woke up to a number of different notifications and messages from this (what I assume is a man, just from the profile and stuff.) saying that he was a fan of a story I wrote, cool! I love when people like them. Then he goes into saying a little more of a sexual comment, thats fine. I dont mind that, but then proceeds to ask for pictures of my body, he didnt demand or anything so I just said “no sorry” and went on with my day. Then I get a few more messages. “?”. “Come on lol”. “ I wont judge you, I swear, i’ll even send too.”

This is what NOT to do , it shouldn’t be a topic or debate after anyone says no, male , woman, or whatever. You shouldn’t have to emphasize that you don’t consent to sending something. So just a PSA to other members to steer clear of dming with this dude. So if you’re seeing this, yes i’m posting you. And yes i’m warning others of your gross behavior. If you’re willing to beg and guilt you’re willing to demand and threaten others.

 

[JazzyPaws]

These creeps will never learn

 

[nekdoneco123]

welcome to zooville, where magical things happen to your inbox once you disclose you're a woman.... it's just sad.

 

[rosethedoglover2000]

Seriously.. surprisingly this is my only incident so far where i’ve been asked for nudes. This one was just extra brave and egotistical ?‍

 

[The Elusive H-C]

??‍ unfortunately some people will never learn, kudos for posting it tho, it may deter some others from doing the same!

 

[JazzyPaws]

??‍ unfortunately some people will never learn, kudos for posting it tho, it may deter some others from doing the same!

Lol, it won't. But it's still nice to call their stupid asses out and shame them

 

[Akkala]

That screams creepy.

 

[The Elusive H-C]

Lol, it won't. But it's still nice to call their stupid asses out and shame them

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Im all for a good name and shame. It can work wonders with some people. Id like to think it would prevent some from doing the same but there is definitely some thirsty mofos that will just move onto another victim and harass them

 

[saddlebum66]

Early this morning I woke up to a number of different notifications and messages from this (what I assume is a man, just from the profile and stuff.) saying that he was a fan of a story I wrote, cool! I love when people like them. Then he goes into saying a little more of a sexual comment, thats fine. I dont mind that, but then proceeds to ask for pictures of my body, he didnt demand or anything so I just said “no sorry” and went on with my day. Then I get a few more messages. “?”. “Come on lol”. “ I wont judge you, I swear, i’ll even send too.”

This is what NOT to do , it shouldn’t be a topic or debate after anyone says no, male , woman, or whatever. You shouldn’t have to emphasize that you don’t consent to sending something. So just a PSA to other members to steer clear of dming with this dude. So if you’re seeing this, yes i’m posting you. And yes i’m warning others of your gross behavior. If you’re willing to beg and guilt you’re willing to demand and threaten others.

You might try reporting him officially...its probably harassment. If nothing else it will put him on a watch list. Looking at his post history, harassment and trolling seem to be his style

 

[The Elusive H-C]

You might try reporting him officially...its probably harassment. If nothing else it will put him on a watch list. Looking at his post history, harassment and trolling seem to be his style

Good shout @saddlebum66 , im sure the moderator team will keep an eye on them.

 

[saddlebum66]

Good shout @saddlebum66 , im sure the moderator team will keep an eye on them.

Not unless he's reported

 

[pes]

The solution here is to click the Leave conversation and Ignore future messages option.
Being an idiot is not against the rules in this case.
You can ask for nudes and you can be weird about it. But the receiving end can ignore that or call you out.

 

[rosethedoglover2000]

The solution here is to click the Leave conversation and Ignore future messages option.
Being an idiot is not against the rules in this case.
You can ask for nudes and you can be weird about it. But the receiving end can ignore that or call you out.

Got it, thanks so much

 

[saddlebum66]

The solution here is to click the Leave conversation and Ignore future messages option.
Being an idiot is not against the rules in this case.
You can ask for nudes and you can be weird about it. But the receiving end can ignore that or call you out.

His post history suggests his idiocy will continue.

 

[dogluver101]

He certainly doesn't know how to actually talk outside of DMs... It's all just emojis.. Now he has to post them again since I deleted them. lol

 

[NewCaineFluf]

There is sadly always people like this regardless of the community, it sucks so much. Imagine if they used that effort for something better, maybe they'd learn to be respectful human beings

 

[Chiara2003]

I jus stop any communication an put these on ignore?‍…

 

[rosethedoglover2000]

I jus stop any communication an put these on ignore?‍…

I always like to amuse the situation until I can give them the what for, then I ignore it. Letting them show their true colors first allows me to have the receipts and to warn other people if its on a platform with a community I care about.

 

[Kristy]

One of the very few benefits of the ignore button: if you use it, you don't even know the sender has sent you a PM.
No notification of it at all.

 

[pes]

One of the very few benefits of the ignore button: if you use it, you don't even know the sender has sent you a PM.
No notification of it at all.

I do not use it. Ridicule the idiot to the point they want to give up.

 

[Kristy]

I do not use it. Ridicule the idiot to the point they want to give up.

I've done that a few times in PMs, if their initial approach was bad. I've said some cruel and ugly stuff. (which a few deserved) Now, I just don't answer them. I rarely hear from them again.
I appreciate your reply to my comment.

 

[Anol321]

Early this morning I woke up to a number of different notifications and messages from this (what I assume is a man, just from the profile and stuff.) saying that he was a fan of a story I wrote, cool! I love when people like them. Then he goes into saying a little more of a sexual comment, thats fine. I dont mind that, but then proceeds to ask for pictures of my body, he didnt demand or anything so I just said “no sorry” and went on with my day. Then I get a few more messages. “?”. “Come on lol”. “ I wont judge you, I swear, i’ll even send too.”

This is what NOT to do , it shouldn’t be a topic or debate after anyone says no, male , woman, or whatever. You shouldn’t have to emphasize that you don’t consent to sending something. So just a PSA to other members to steer clear of dming with this dude. So if you’re seeing this, yes i’m posting you. And yes i’m warning others of your gross behavior. If you’re willing to beg and guilt you’re willing to demand and threaten others.

I really don't care about what you think about me.i do what i feel it's right .I'm not that fucking monster idk why I'm trying to explain and i did nothing so dont try to be a victim. I feel like you're Mia khalifa telling us to stop watching her x videos .its an example. You did that to your self you post your dog dick and you speak about everything going between you and pup*** don't blame me if i asks for nudes .i feel like i raped you. so fuck you for making me feel like that and i was sorry .now I'm not .and next time post everything i said to u. Do what make you happy b i t c h. Sorry everyone??

 

[rosethedoglover2000]

Hahaha omg I'm famuse ????????????thx rose ???you're inside my heart forever

You have infact been spamming and begging in my dms all day yesterday and today, just leave it alone dude ?‍

 

[Anol321]

Early this morning I woke up to a number of different notifications and messages from this (what I assume is a man, just from the profile and stuff.) saying that he was a fan of a story I wrote, cool! I love when people like them. Then he goes into saying a little more of a sexual comment, thats fine. I dont mind that, but then proceeds to ask for pictures of my body, he didnt demand or anything so I just said “no sorry” and went on with my day. Then I get a few more messages. “?”. “Come on lol”. “ I wont judge you, I swear, i’ll even send too.”

This is what NOT to do , it shouldn’t be a topic or debate after anyone says no, male , woman, or whatever. You shouldn’t have to emphasize that you don’t consent to sending something. So just a PSA to other members to steer clear of dming with this dude. So if you’re seeing this, yes i’m posting you. And yes i’m warning others of your gross behavior. If you’re willing to beg and guilt you’re willing to demand and threaten others.

I really don't care about what you think about me.i do what i feel it's right .I'm not that fucking monster idk why I'm trying to explain and i did nothing so dont try to be a victim. I feel like you're Mia khalifa telling us to stop watching her x videos .its an example. You did that to your self you post your dog dick and you speak about everything going between you and pup*** don't blame me if i asks for nudes .i feel like i raped you. so fuck you for making me feel like that and i was sorry .now I'm not .and next time post everything i said to u. Do what make you happy b i t c h. Sorry everyone

You have infact been spamming and begging in my dms all day yesterday and today, just leave it

You have infact been spamming and begging in my dms all day yesterday and today, just leave it alone dude ?‍

I'm not begging for you .i already told you there's Google ????????

 

[rosethedoglover2000]

I really don't care about what you think about me.i do what i feel it's right .I'm not that fucking monster idk why I'm trying to explain and i did nothing so dont try to be a victim. I feel like you're Mia khalifa telling us to stop watching her x videos .its an example. You did that to your self you post your dog dick and you speak about everything going between you and pup*** don't blame me if i asks for nudes .i feel like i raped you. so fuck you for making me feel like that and i was sorry .now I'm not .and next time post everything i said to u. Do what make you happy b i t c h. Sorry everyone??

 

[rosethedoglover2000]

Heres all those images you requested, please learn to respect others. Have a amazing day.

 

[rosethedoglover2000]

I really don't care about what you think about me.i do what i feel it's right .I'm not that fucking monster idk why I'm trying to explain and i did nothing so dont try to be a victim. I feel like you're Mia khalifa telling us to stop watching her x videos .its an example. You did that to your self you post your dog dick and you speak about everything going between you and pup*** don't blame me if i asks for nudes .i feel like i raped you. so fuck you for making me feel like that and i was sorry .now I'm not .and next time post everything i said to u. Do what make you happy b i t c h. Sorry everyone



I'm not begging for you .i already told you there's Google ????????

@pes so sorry for the ping, what can be done about this?

 

[pes]

@pes so sorry for the ping, what can be done about this?

Ignore.
The only reason this discussion is still happening is that it is not being ignored.

 

[Anol321]

I cant understand why you told them to be weary from me . I'm not a killer I'm not a rapest .and some ppl that i really like they said I'm a creepy .so wow thx for having such a big heart

 

[rosethedoglover2000]

Yeah of course, i’ve just ignored him. But even so, as a moderator , surely theres got to be some form of action or consequence that can be held towards him?? I mean the harassment, intimidation, downright disrespect. Is there not something that mods can do, not even like a timeout? Suspension? Flagging him? Or is banning the only thing the forum has?