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Opening up to S/O

Veebs

Veebs

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Hi all,

Im quite new here but its so wonderful to see such a flourishing community around the topic.

Ive been with my partner for 3 years now and we have a fantastic relationship with excellent communication.

Im wanting to open up to her about this side of my life but am struggling to find how or when (or if I even should).
She is incredibly open minded and understanding of others and their sexuality/sexual interests, so I do believe she wouldn't flip out or anything.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated

Thank you in advance

I should probably just read through other threads for an 'answer' to this actually ?

This is never something I would want to pressure anyone into or expect them to partake in, its more about opening up to my partner about an aspect of my life I guess
 
Hey buddy,

I see a lot of posts that say try introducing her to toys in the bedroom that are very similar to your interests.

This can be a subtle way to say something, without just coming out like a steam train on full chug.

Just be careful, I came out to an ex once and ended up being reported to the cops.
 
Johnny-Flame said:
Hey buddy,

I see a lot of posts that say try introducing her to toys in the bedroom that are very similar to your interests.

This can be a subtle way to say something, without just coming out like a steam train on full chug.

Just be careful, I came out to an ex once and ended up being reported to the cops.
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Thank you for the reply

Yeah I definitely would just drop that bomb on here straight up haha
We are both each others safe space and talk very openly, and I do beleive she would reciprocate well if I told her.
But yes, maybe something like that would be a gently was to step into it.

She does already want tentacle dildos and alternative ones similar to that, so id imagine it wouldnt be to much of a stride to consider K9 shaped ones.

Im so sorry you had to experience that though
 
I just did it this weekend and it was not well received. I said I was watching porn which I do often and video came up of a woman with an animal and how incredible she moaned and really enjoyed it and how nice the cock looked and how much cum there was for the creampie and immediately he said he would never want me to do that…..
 
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