On A Scale of 1-10, How Social Are You Irl?

On a scale of 1-10, how social are you irl?

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I’m mostly curious to see what we got goin on here. I’m more of an introvert, so I do socialize, but mostly with people I already know or that have been introduced to me. What about y’all?
 
I consider myself ambiverted. Which means I exhibit both traits of an extrovert and an introvert. I'm pretty damn social, and usually I try to make everyone's day by telling jokes and just being good company. Usually I have no problems talking to just anybody, friend or stranger. I don't care if someone pumps gas or is a CFO on a multimillion dollar company, I'm always down for a friendly chat.

But with all things I do have my limits, there are definitely times where I need to be by myself to collect my thoughts and be introspective. I definitely do need to have time where I can watch videos, create music, and read information. Sometimes if I'm talking for too long with too many people, I get burned out.

So I guess a 7 works for me.
 
FloofyNewfie said:
I consider myself ambiverted. Which means I exhibit both traits of an extrovert and an introvert. I'm pretty damn social, and usually I try to make everyone's day by telling jokes and just being good company. Usually I have no problems talking to just anybody, friend or stranger. I don't care if someone pumps gas or is a CFO on a multibillion dollar company, I'm always down for a friendly chat.

But with all things I do have my limits, there are definitely times where I need to be by myself to collect my thoughts and be introspective. I definitely do need to have time where I can watch videos, create music, and read information. Sometimes if I'm talking for to long with too many people, I get burned out.

So I guess a 7 works for me.
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That actually best describes me too...
 
FloofyNewfie said:
I try to make everyone's day by telling jokes
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Tell me a joke senpai!

I tend to lean more antisocial, but not because I'm afraid of it. I just don't like most people so I tend to avoid them. I can play the social games of being outgoing, being the centerpiece of a conversation, etc. I just get exhausted by the end of the day, I'd much rather be at home or do something by myself than be involved with others. I do change though when I'm around one person I love being around, being social one on one is my preference, I really light up then and become myself. So...5? In the middle
 
How social I am? 10.
How much interaction do I get? 0.

I'm really extrovert, I love talking to people, but I don't get to interact with anyone besides my parents. I have 0 friends.
 
shadow5473 said:
Tell me a joke senpai!
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shadow5473 said:
Still waiting on my joke, I think I'm disappointed in this lack of staff interaction 🤔
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Well, most of the time my jokes are situational and spur the moment.

But sure...

What do you get when you cross human DNA with goat DNA?

You get kicked the hell out of the petting zoo, that's for sure!
 
I love to socialize. To an extent; not a big club or party person. However, I love to host events and I can easily talk to people. I enjoy being a friendly and nice person so if I can have a conversation and make a friend out if it then I'm always down.
 
It depends very much on my mood 🙈 at work i have to be social, meeting a lot of customers and talk with them on Phone and such 😁 So have to be social for a living,
But when im free it depends, sometimes i feel like Im social and hell and talk to everyone, and some days i just want to be alone and don't talk to anyone 😅
But I like writing with people, like on here 🤗
 
1-10 doesn't do it for me. Being "sociable" is *VERY* situation-specific for me. I can, have, and do go to concerts, for example. And have often worked a crowd estimated to number in the mid 30K people as a snack vendor with little difficulty. I *CAN* be around/amongst/part of a crowd. By preference, though, I'm happiest as a solo, or a "two or three to one" situation.

Where does that put me on that 1-10 scale? Beats the bejeebers outta me...
 
Not counting family, I'll socialize for about 5 minutes (at most) when I'm at the store getting groceries. I only see my friends once, maybe twice a year because they all are married and have kids so getting to see them is nigh impossible.
I don't care, honestly. I prefer to remain alone. I'll never understand why people get so hung-up on relationships.
 
AloneOnPhobos said:
7-8 here but not extrovert. Only exception which comes to my mind is talking to drunk people at partys - I just hate it and have a short fuse in this situations.
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That's why I only go to parties where I know everyone. That way. if anyone becomes a drunk asshole, we can just beat each-other up and laugh about it one drink later. Whereas with people you don't know, it's like.. "Hmmmmm"
 
CaptainK9 said:
That's why I only go to parties where I know everyone. That way. if anyone becomes a drunk asshole, we can just beat each-other up and laugh about it one drink later. Whereas with people you don't know, it's like.. "Hmmmmm"
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Oh man, that brings me back to my college days, 5 years back. I had a group of regular friends I'd hang with once a week. We'd all get drunk and high and sometimes wrestle each other for fun. We'd also sometimes box each other by wrapping our fists in towels. You can probably imagine what that looked like with 5-7 drunken and stoned college boys! Lol. We also did beer pong, beer chugging, and biggest/longest bong rip contests. I used to be a bit of a wild motherfucker years back.

Ah, good times. I miss those days sometimes, but I had to knock all that shit off when I graduated, got a good job, and had to actually worry about life and responsibilities. Still, you only live once! You might as well make the most of it while taking an involuntary ride on this giant clump of mud and water we call earth.
 
I answered 2 but if I'd been asked a few years back I'd have been a 7 or 8. My wife developed spirit crushing anxiety then I got MND so between the two of us socialising is really hard work.
 
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