I had a crush once with the intentions to take it to another level. She turned out to be one of my best friends. You can't just push things. Well you could, but it's not the same. Just ask yourself, if you push things beyond your own and his comfort, will you ever feel the same about him after doing so? Or will it feel like you just gave into your urges leaving you disappointed? I closed a lot of tabs in the end wondering why I ever even opened them in the first place. Lust is a powerful instinct but it focuses more on physical pleasure and gratification rather than emotional bonding or long-term connectionI finally got a dog. 50+ lb intact male. I got him with intentions of activity. However, in the time it took him to mature, we developed such a beautiful father/son relationship that I am reluctant to bring other things into it.
Thoughts?
"I would go to town". What is it really you are seeking with your companion?No plans to start. No plans to refrain forever. Is this an unusual thing? I mean if I had your dog and your permission and some privacy, I would go to town.
Your reply holds the answer you were looking for imhoHe is my best friend/companion. That is why I have not moved forward.
well said. The difference between a loving relationship with your pet and viewing your pet as a sex object is pretty obvious in some of these replies"I would go to town". What is it really you are seeking with your companion?