GlimmeringGreen
Tourist
Aloha, friends!
As we meet more people who share our common interests we feel more and more empowered and comfortable.
As we said in a previous post, we admitted to one another that we both enjoy this about a year ago (super stoked since it was terrifying actually admitting it) and since have been watching videos and role playing a bit. She's so into it and it's probably the most exciting thing ever. She's been talking about the next step, but that's still a ways out.
We eventually want to find someone we can trust, establish a connection with, and maybe someone to watch first and talk to before going all the way. I know having an experienced mentor would help her a lot, especially if they understand aftercare. <3
That said, after speaking with her tonight, we decided that it's time to get our first toy! Woohoo!
We got a beginner toy and some realistic lubricant. No pump or anything, but hope this helps with our comfort. She's really excited.
Just sharing this thread for those interested and offering a place to talk to about introducing toys, trying new things, and the baby steps into possibly going all the way.
As we meet more people who share our common interests we feel more and more empowered and comfortable.
As we said in a previous post, we admitted to one another that we both enjoy this about a year ago (super stoked since it was terrifying actually admitting it) and since have been watching videos and role playing a bit. She's so into it and it's probably the most exciting thing ever. She's been talking about the next step, but that's still a ways out.
We eventually want to find someone we can trust, establish a connection with, and maybe someone to watch first and talk to before going all the way. I know having an experienced mentor would help her a lot, especially if they understand aftercare. <3
That said, after speaking with her tonight, we decided that it's time to get our first toy! Woohoo!
We got a beginner toy and some realistic lubricant. No pump or anything, but hope this helps with our comfort. She's really excited.
Just sharing this thread for those interested and offering a place to talk to about introducing toys, trying new things, and the baby steps into possibly going all the way.
