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New users looking to meet immediately? Confused.

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moproblem

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Maybe it's just me, but I don't understand joining and immediately looking to meet up. Seems... Dangerous? Sketchy? Meeting up seems like a big deal to me, and I'd want to have a lot of trust with someone before it would happen. Yet I see lots and lots of brand-new accounts saying they want to meet RIGHT NOW! but they can't even DM yet.

I mean, to each their own, but either I'm being excessively cautious or they are a bit sus.
 
I agree, seems foolish for either a new person to do or for someone to meet such a new person.
Are plenty of ways of reducing risks, but most of those take time.

Then there are the piles of new people who make it clear they're really only interested in sex, which seems quite cringe to me; so much more than sex.
 
I am one of those people and it’s because it’s such a huge fantasy of mine that I just want to do it now post nut clarity might help too
 
joeman321 said:
I am one of those people and it’s because it’s such a huge fantasy of mine that I just want to do it now post nut clarity might help too
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LOL perhaps.

I was more thinking of the "hi I'm a barely legal girl, and I want to meet you and your dog now!" Seems to be more than a few of those in the past few days. They make me eyeroll.
 
moproblem said:
LOL perhaps.

I was more thinking of the "hi I'm a barely legal girl, and I want to meet you and your dog now!" Seems to be more than a few of those in the past few days. They make me eyeroll.
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Oh yeah definitely more dangerous for a woman
 
Ted Danson Machine said:
Those are most likely fake accounts. See them come and go constantly. Be very cautious of responding to anything like that.
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Oh I had no plans to. A) not a guy and B) don't have a dog so I am clearly not the target audience. :) Each one seems to generate about 50 replies, split between "can I watch" and "I'm an owner, DM me". It makes me think "what are these people thinking/doing?!?!"
 
My opinion on this. Users who are active on websites and post often can be hesitant to meet because they have a reputation so they dont want their name linked to them personally. having a new more anonymous account is harder for stalkers to find access to their target
 
widget46 said:
My opinion on this. Users who are active on websites and post often can be hesitant to meet because they have a reputation so they dont want their name linked to them personally. having a new more anonymous account is harder for stalkers to find access to their target
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But who wants to meet some rando? When I meet someone it's because we've established a rapport and there's a hope that meeting can further that friendship. With some rando there's little hope that they might even be worth one's time, could as easily be some anti or just a garden variety asshole.
 
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egoldstein said:
But who wants to meet some rando? When I meet someone it's because we've established a rapport and there's a hope that meeting can further that friendship. With some rando there's little hope that they might even be worth one's time, could as easily be some anti or just a garden variety asshole.
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A random user is no different than the user who may take their time to waste our time. any user is random until they are really real.
A neurotic enough anti may take their time because they want their victims inhibitions lowered. common anti behavior is degrading towards other users choices especially other users attractions to animals, although they might not make it obvious until things get real.
Cant really blame users who are attracted to animals for wanting to know the animals better. they are not really stupid for the antis beliefs and choices.
 
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PonyTrot said:
Don't forget, that police agencies, notably the notorious fellow in AZ, trolled for meetups in BF, and made a few catches. It wouldn't be a shocker to find out they are here too.
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Which is why I think anyone plotting a meetup for sex with a non-human with someone they don't know exceptionally well is absolutely foolish.
I think a more likely threat would be antis looking for someone to blackmail/harass/whatever. Which is why I think it's prudent to get to know someone beforehand and why I'd never even consider a meet with some random person. LEO isn't going to waste a couple of years getting to know you and I don't think an anti is either, there are easier people to catch/entrap.

I don't produce evidence of crimes and thus have none to share, I also don't meet up with people for the purpuse of having sex with non-humans, so my legal risk is effectively zero, which I suspect also makes me not very interesting to an anti or someone who's just looking for a hookup. The times I've met people it's purely social, just an opportunity to spend some time with a like-minded individual and share some conversation, perhaps a meal, and enjoy the day.
 
I'd say there are 3 basic group that do this:
A. They are just that stupid/oblivious to danger
B. They are trying some sort of scam or trap
C. They just jerk off to the idea of writing and meeting someone that has sex with animals and they have no intention to actually meet.
 
moproblem said:
Maybe it's just me, but I don't understand joining and immediately looking to meet up. Seems... Dangerous? Sketchy? Meeting up seems like a big deal to me, and I'd want to have a lot of trust with someone before it would happen. Yet I see lots and lots of brand-new accounts saying they want to meet RIGHT NOW! but they can't even DM yet.

I mean, to each their own, but either I'm being excessively cautious or they are a bit sus.
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I don't know I think I'm the same way. Though I am very open honest to a fault and no who and what I like without question. I would hope that most people here are adult enough to meet up with people and no whether they're uncomfortable or something is wrong. But I've been around the world so I'm very open-minded and tolerant of different views and feelings. Little background just lived in 19 countries. Definitely would like to discuss this further with anyone that is up to give me a different side. Please don't be afraid I'm not judgmental and I'm just curious how other people think.
 
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