My wife wants to fuck a horse and doesnt wanna fuck a dog unless I force her.

[zooman290]

I really wanna watch her deepthroat a dog but she's only interested in horses. She'll do it but it would be a CNC type of thing. Anyone have any thoughts or advice to turn her onto dogs more? She mostly just wants to be filled with a ton of cum.

 

[zooman290]

There's your answer.

I see your point but she's also very into CNC and forced interactions.

 

[zooman290]

Even with CNC style consent being taken/given, no still means no.

CNC is still consent, just taken more up front for ranges of things rather than for specific things.

Be really, really sure that's on the table before leveraging CNC.

Especially with a spouse. I assume you'd like your marriage to continue. Hurting a partner is a fast way to risk ending it.

Yes we've been in the BDSM community together for 10 plus years and have very deep communication, my question was more about trying to get her to enjoy the thought or action on K9 sex.

 

[saddlebum66]

Heres something to think on. If you don't own a horse, and she will not do your dog except CNC...Is it possible that she's only talking zoo to please you?
Stranger things have been known, and communication between people may not be as perfect as it seems.

 

[zooman290]

Heres something to think on. If you don't own a horse, and she will not do your dog except CNC...Is it possible that she's only talking zoo to please you?
Stranger things have been known, and communication between people may not be as perfect as it seems.

I see your point, I would think that, if I was the one that brought it up but it was her. She went as far to order a fairly anatomical correction toy to play with which was delivered the same day she broached the subject with me.

 

[zooman290]

I don't like pistachio ice cream. How would anyone force me to like it? I could be forced to eat it. But that doesn't mean I like it. Maybe I liked the forcing part. Still, not liking the pistachio ice cream part.

One has to figure out of liking the forcing part is enough, or at least okay. That's the part you and she needs to figure out ahead of time before risking damaging your relationship.

Not trying to be a party pooper. Been in the kink community since the late 80's and I've seen many a relationship blow up over the smallest things which for one partner, turned out to be a huge thing.

Not wishing that on you, which was why I commented as I have.

Idk how to like comments but you are correct in both your correlation and your analysis.

 

[bimbocunt]

Sit down and just have a legitimate talk with her about it. If she's super into CNC, then you need to find out if this is something she'd actually "enjoy" or if this is something that she's seriously, 100% not interested in. CNC kinks can have a lot of nuance to them, and it's worth revisiting real limits and limits that are meant to be "broken" in negotiated ways.

If she really wants to be forced, take it slow, and have fun. If she's truly not interested, then drop it. You can't convince someone to be into something they're not into, which you should know by now if you're the experienced kinkster you say you are.

 

[saddlebum66]

I see your point, I would think that, if I was the one that brought it up but it was her. She went as far to order a fairly anatomical correction toy to play with which was delivered the same day she broached the subject with me.

Still might not change anything....Toys are controllable; a stud, even a small stud, is not, and you can order a size via description. If its too big or small no one need be disappointed. A mfr might even swap it out for the size you want.

Even without your input, there's pressure...The pressure she might be putting on herself, fear of failure, fear of diminishing expectations.Enough patience might bring it right; its the only tool you have here....and if it doesnt happen, c'est la Vie. If she really wants this, it will happen....if not, it should not be a deal breaker.

Just noticed....if she brought that subject up the same day the toy showed up, her trying it might have been the issue. Dont push and see what happens.
to like a post, on the bottom right of that post box theres a thumb....pop that and there will be options to select from.

 

[Realaccount9]

You know her best.

If she likes massive dicks, show her videos of great danes or mastiffs breeding women. "Dog of War" is a good example.

If she likes the CNC then describe to her how helpless she is once the dog's knot expands in her, knots her. How she can't escape, and can only just lay down there, submissively forced to accept his endless stream of cum for up to 30 minutes or more.

 

[zooman290]

I don't like pistachio ice cream. How would anyone force me to like it? I could be forced to eat it. But that doesn't mean I like it. Maybe I liked the forcing part. Still, not liking the pistachio ice cream part.

One has to figure out of liking the forcing part is enough, or at least okay. That's the part you and she needs to figure out ahead of time before risking damaging your relationship.

Not trying to be a party pooper. Been in the kink community since the late 80's and I've seen many a relationship blow up over the smallest things which for one partner, turned out to be a huge thing.

Not wishing that on you, which was why I commented as I have.

Idk how to like comments but you are correct in both your correlation and your analysis

You know her best.

If she likes massive dicks, show her videos of great danes or mastiffs breeding women. "Dog of War" is a good example.

If she likes the CNC then describe to her how helpless she is once the dog's knot expands in her, knots her. How she can't escape, and can only just lay down there, submissively forced to accept his endless stream of cum for up to 30 minutes or more.

Thank you, those are great suggestions!

 

[Nugun93]

That's really interesting and hot. Hope I can help fill her up and add my cat batter to the mix

 

[danzuna]

I really wanna watch her deepthroat a dog but she's only interested in horses. She'll do it but it would be a CNC type of thing. Anyone have any thoughts or advice to turn her onto dogs more? She mostly just wants to be filled with a ton of cum.

you said yourself - she is ok doing it in a cnc scene. after she will get the dick, the pounding and the semen she would be open for it by herself