My human partner refuses to accept my zoo sexuality, I dont know what to do.

[KnotSocket]

I've been with my human partner for nearly 4 years, and recently I've discovered my zoosexuality, I've tried having him talk to a zoo of 22 years and educating him on the topic. However he's a repressed zoo himself and is strong in the belief that being zoo is wrong, Using all the typical antizoo arguments, i.e. dogs are pack animals who have the intelligence of a toddler, animals can't consent, and that animals are trained and can't think for themselves. He's said I can't change his mind. And at this point I don't know what to do, I'm backed into a corner. He pays for everything, food,and shelter. I don't wanna be put on the street as I'm poor as dirt, and I don't wanna repress my sexuality. I really don't know what to do.. any advice is welcome as are kind words.. I just.. I'm scared.

 

[KnotSocket]

How do you know that.

He's told me.

 

[Steven Raccoon]

You know exactly what you have to do. Just do it. Other than that, I'm not going to say anything more because I don't have anything nice to say.

 

[JazzyPaws]

This is, unfortunately, a situation many zoos find themselves in when partnered with nonzoo humans.

Sadly I don't have any kind words to say, you're effectively screwed, and you have a choice to make. All I can do is wish you luck with whatever decision you take.

 

[bigeorge91]

Dating genuinely scares me because I don't want to repress my sexuality. But I also repress my sexuality to everyone already.
I definitely feel like being a self-repressed zoophile is probably pretty torturous and I can't really fathom that. He still thinks that about women letting the dog be the dom even if he doesn't want to take part?

 

[saddlebum66]

Get a job and work toward independence, because from the sound of things its coming. If he's that convinced Zoo is wrong, youre not going to change him. He may have a different reckoning coming, but no epiphany forseeable on what facts you've laid out includes a happy ending.You want to get out now, before the crash comes and you have no options. This isnt what you want to hear, but its what is. Buena Fortuna, ma'am

 

[sam2266]

Get a job and work toward independence, because from the sound of things its coming. If he's that convinced Zoo is wrong, youre not going to change him. He may have a different reckoning coming, but no epiphany forseeable on what facts you've laid out includes a happy ending.You want to get out now, before the crash comes and you have no options. This isnt what you want to hear, but its what is. Buena Fortuna,

I think you’re right. I could see this being a huge deal breaker and a situation where you’ve effectively already ended things.

 

[Puhp]

It SOUNDS like you're angling for "how do I change my partner's stance on this (especially since he's really a repressed zoo?" And that's a bad place to be. Try taking Zoophilia out of the equation: "My partner and I are sexually incompatible" (period, full stop). "I don't want to be kicked out (am dirt poor) and also don't want to repress my sexuality."

The answer is in the question and right in front of you.

Get a job and work toward independence, because from the sound of things its coming. If he's that convinced Zoo is wrong, youre not going to change him. He may have a different reckoning coming, but no epiphany forseeable on what facts you've laid out includes a happy ending.You want to get out now, before the crash comes and you have no options. This isnt what you want to hear, but its what is. Buena Fortuna, ma'am

Easy (and common sense) answer to a simple question.

Get busy livin.