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My dominant partner wants me to try his dog

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qsxftgbjikl

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So basically the title. Im a little nervous but also very scared mainly on how his behavior will change. It has always been more his dog and he takes care of it. I read here they might get more dominant when they have sex with you and he doesn't listen well to me right now anyway im scared he will also stop listening to my partner.
 
Hi, welcome to the zooville community.

If your dog has behavior and obedce problems, that is bad. You should get a trainer or train your dog to obey better. You should start slowly and analyse his behavior.

If you have difficulty controlling i=your dog at normal times, you will certainly have more difficulty controlling it during sexual impulses.
So first you should take care of the dog's behavior and then go for sex ;)
 
qsxftgbjikl said:
I dont know if what you are saying is like real or like some fantasy. Dont dogs like live in packs so isnt the alpha thing a completely made up thing?
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So friend mien has a pitbull who he has had to show domknace as alpha over , or it would take over.the house
 
bacozoo said:
Hi, welcome to the zooville community.

If your dog has behavior and obedce problems, that is bad. You should get a trainer or train your dog to obey better. You should start slowly and analyse his behavior.

If you have difficulty controlling i=your dog at normal times, you will certainly have more difficulty controlling it during sexual impulses.
So first you should take care of the dog's behavior and then go for sex ;)
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I mean he listens really well to my partner. He already had him before we got together and he is well trained he just doesn’t listen to me. Im also don’t really take care of him or walk him except for rare occasions my partner asks me too. Im more of a cat person.

My partner can be a bit immature and not look at consequences of his actions sometimes and im scared this is one of them and he will lose control of his well trained dog if it fucks me. I don’t mind that it doesn’t listen to me. I mean i didn’t put in any effort to get it to.
 
qsxftgbjikl said:
I mean he listens really well to my partner. He already had him before we got together and he is well trained he just doesn’t listen to me. Im also don’t really take care of him or walk him except for rare occasions my partner asks me too. Im more of a cat person.

My partner can be a bit immature and not look at consequences of his actions sometimes and im scared this is one of them and he will lose control of his well trained dog if it fucks me. I don’t mind that it doesn’t listen to me. I mean i didn’t put in any effort to get it to.
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The dog will continue to obey your partner after having sex with you. He will only show desire for your when he sees the signs you gave before repeat themselves.
You must improve your relationship with him, get closer, create a bond of friendship, create communication mechanisms between you and the dog.

This helps a lot.

some tips:
always have sex with the dog in the same place.
always wear the same clother;
always use the same scent;
use the same words to activate his desire;
use the same affections
pet the same parts of the dog to activate his desire

These are the signs for the dog to identify when it's time for sex.
 
bacozoo said:
The dog will continue to obey your partner after having sex with you. He will only show desire for your when he sees the signs you gave before repeat themselves.
You must improve your relationship with him, get closer, create a bond of friendship, create communication mechanisms between you and the dog.

This helps a lot.

some tips:
always have sex with the dog in the same place.
always wear the same clother;
always use the same scent;
use the same words to activate his desire;
use the same affections
pet the same parts of the dog to activate his desire

These are the signs for the dog to identify when it's time for sex.
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Thank you, im not sure if i will really work on a bond with him. Im pretty okay with the way things are going now. Im just glad im not making him into an unruly monster.

I will definitely bring up the other things with my partner. He seems pretty excited that i said i would think about it so im going to bring him the good news he will have a real bitch in his house 😜
 
Click Forums and scroll down and find porn/solo/dogs would be a likely place. Maybe on down a little Non-Zoo/Women might get some help there
 
qsxftgbjikl said:
I mean he listens really well to my partner. He already had him before we got together and he is well trained he just doesn’t listen to me. Im also don’t really take care of him or walk him except for rare occasions my partner asks me too. Im more of a cat person.

My partner can be a bit immature and not look at consequences of his actions sometimes and im scared this is one of them and he will lose control of his well trained dog if it fucks me. I don’t mind that it doesn’t listen to me. I mean i didn’t put in any effort to get it to.
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you have to make the dog listen to you. that goes for any dog. if you let them be dominant over you you will have a dangerous dog. you can be dominant over him and make him obey your commands and still let him breed you.
 
Maybe its not the correct dog for this? You could always suggest to your partner that you find a different dog, or find someone with a well trained dog to help you both learn before jumping into it with a dog you don't feel confident with

I know he may be excited to move forward but if he's requesting so much from you he should be accommodating of your fears and concerns. This isn't something you should explore unless your partner is willing to be understanding and considerate. I don't believe people should be partners at all! If they can't first accomplish those basic understandings in a relationship
 
qsxftgbjikl said:
So basically the title. Im a little nervous but also very scared mainly on how his behavior will change. It has always been more his dog and he takes care of it. I read here they might get more dominant when they have sex with you and he doesn't listen well to me right now anyway im scared he will also stop listening to my partner.
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The dog seems to have not been properly "Socialized". You might suggest to your Guy that the dog is a good candidate for obedience training. Not because of the sex....That may or may NOT happen, even if you wish it. Not all dogs are interested...but because if you can't trust the dog to behave in public, sooner or later its going to be a problem. Many dogs pay a price for their owner's mistakes....and first among those mistakes is not raising good doggy citizens. They need to know the rules, and where they fit in the family. They need to know that you lead. Many people seem to think the dog is just born knowing....we take them from mom far too soon for that to work out well....I had an entire litter of 12 puppies that were sitting on command at ten weeks....not because I taught them, but because they watched mom do it. It was actually a point when it came to homing them....I kept one, but my neighbors and friends wanted the pups...just because they were "smart"....

If you don't feel comfortable, don't get pushed into this...once the step is taken, it cannot be taken back. And there is mire than once person now knowing what you did....and it aint the Dog.

Obedience first. Then see where it leads.
 
saddlebum66 said:
The dog seems to have not been properly "Socialized". You might suggest to your Guy that the dog is a good candidate for obedience training. Not because of the sex....That may or may NOT happen, even if you wish it. Not all dogs are interested...but because if you can't trust the dog to behave in public, sooner or later its going to be a problem. Many dogs pay a price for their owner's mistakes....and first among those mistakes is not raising good doggy citizens. They need to know the rules, and where they fit in the family. They need to know that you lead. Many people seem to think the dog is just born knowing....we take them from mom far too soon for that to work out well....I had an entire litter of 12 puppies that were sitting on command at ten weeks....not because I taught them, but because they watched mom do it. It was actually a point when it came to homing them....I kept one, but my neighbors and friends wanted the pups...just because they were "smart"....

If you don't feel comfortable, don't get pushed into this...once the step is taken, it cannot be taken back. And there is mire than once person now knowing what you did....and it aint the Dog.

Obedience first. Then see where it leads.
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Im comfortable enough i think. I have had similar experiences like this with my partner where he wanted me to do things and wanted to try things. I have done more humiliating things than this.

Also i told my concerns to my boyfriend. I got a whole show of the dog sitting, rolling and waiting before his command before he was allowed to retrieve the ball. Im not sure he gets my point. The dog listens to him and like i said in a comment above here, i get that because i havent made any real effort to get it to obey me. Im just scared he will lose control of the dog too.
 
qsxftgbjikl said:
Im comfortable enough i think. I have had similar experiences like this with my partner where he wanted me to do things and wanted to try things. I have done more humiliating things than this.

Also i told my concerns to my boyfriend. I got a whole show of the dog sitting, rolling and waiting before his command before he was allowed to retrieve the ball. Im not sure he gets my point. The dog listens to him and like i said in a comment above here, i get that because i havent made any real effort to get it to obey me. Im just scared he will lose control of the dog too.
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not as long as he keeps control and dominance over him
 
I suggest you have a look in the "How To..." threads on here. They are excellent guides about behaviours and ways to do things. However, the overarching factor is you. Do you want to do this? You need to absolutely certain this is something you wish to try, and don't be forced into doing something you do not wish to do. That is abusive, whether you are submissive or not. Speaking as a Domme, I would never force you into something you were either uncomfortable with or just, plain were dead set against.
 
qsxftgbjikl said:
Im comfortable enough i think. I have had similar experiences like this with my partner where he wanted me to do things and wanted to try things. I have done more humiliating things than this.

Also i told my concerns to my boyfriend. I got a whole show of the dog sitting, rolling and waiting before his command before he was allowed to retrieve the ball. Im not sure he gets my point. The dog listens to him and like i said in a comment above here, i get that because i havent made any real effort to get it to obey me. Im just scared he will lose control of the dog too.
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Have it your way. Dont say you werent told. This little hobby gets people jailed. Humiliating? Get caught and thats the least of your worries. Split up? Thats a whole different set. Think before you jump
 
Miss_Rachel said:
I suggest you have a look in the "How To..." threads on here. They are excellent guides about behaviours and ways to do things. However, the overarching factor is you. Do you want to do this? You need to absolutely certain this is something you wish to try, and don't be forced into doing something you do not wish to do. That is abusive, whether you are submissive or not. Speaking as a Domme, I would never force you into something you were either uncomfortable with or just, plain were dead set against.
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Im not 100% certain on it but im not against it either. But that has been with more things in our relationship. I couldn't find a situation like mine on there which is why i posted my situation here.
 
saddlebum66 said:
Have it your way. Dont say you werent told. This little hobby gets people jailed. Humiliating? Get caught and thats the least of your worries. Split up? Thats a whole different set. Think before you jump
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I don’t think i will get caught and i know him enough to know he won’t do something like that if we would ever split up. But this is making me worry a lot. Also you didn’t answer my question. Will the dog not become disobedient towards my partner?
 
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