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My Akita stops humping my girlfriend…

LeChiffre6666

LeChiffre6666

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Hello Community,

I am new to this Forum and I am from germany.
I have a 2 1/2 years old male akita inu boy.
For arround 5 weeks my girlfriend started to have fun with him and we all loved it.
He was always ready and was excited all the time in licking and mounting her with success in Penetration and getting tied with the knot to my gf.
After 3 weeks he suddenly stopped mounting her.
He is still excited in licking her but he acted Like he dont know what to do next (mounting and humping).
Do you have an Idea what can be the reason?
My gf started to think its her fault ?
We also looking for Contacts/open minded people in our area in Germany (NRW Ruhrgebiet) :)

Thanks in advance for your Support.

Cheers
 
omniscientfluffer said:
I know a dog that has periods of being horny and then trailing off and coming back again. It's possible that there was a dog in heat in the area that has now went out of heat. It's possible that it's something your girlfriend did or did not do, and not necessarily anything that upset the dog. I don't know what happened so I can't really help there. Try having sex when he has a lot of energy like after you've been gone from home for a few hours and came home. Don't keep trying after it doesn't work after one or two requests. Dogs are creatures of habit. If he keeps saying no because he gets asked repeatedly, he'll start saying no by force of habit too even after his reason is resolved. Ask him only occasionally. If you're jacking him off in your attempts to ask him for sex, stop doing that for a few days so he can get to full libido.
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Thx for your reply…
I always thought that dogs always want to fuck and you dont have to convince them for Sex but the more I dived deeper into this whole topic I realised that this is Not that easy…alot of people Said that also dogs have a Libido and have ups and downs regarding their Sex Drive…
So the best is to keep him away from her for a longer period so that he can somehow reset/regenerate and After that we can restart right?
So nothing sexual for a longer time ?
Thank you for your time ????
And sorry for my english…unfortunately its Not my mother language ?
 
LeChiffre6666 said:
Thx for your reply…
I always thought that dogs always want to fuck and you dont have to convince them for Sex but the more I dived deeper into this whole topic I realised that this is Not that easy…alot of people Said that also dogs have a Libido and have ups and downs regarding their Sex Drive…
So the best is to keep him away from her for a longer period so that he can somehow reset/regenerate and After that we can restart right?
So nothing sexual for a longer time ?
Thank you for your time ????
And sorry for my english…unfortunately its Not my mother language ?
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I hope he is happy with her again very soon
 
First you know your boy knows how to do it. So, as it was said just let him have his times. Sometimes your dog knows how to ask when he wants sex. So this can be a step to be aware of his needs and desires. Then as it was said maybe you can wait and not doing it every day just to make "exceptional" this time with your girl. Good luck and keep courage
 
Ich denke auch das dein Hund mal eine pause braucht zum regenerieren. Ist bei meinem nicht anders. Zuviel Sex schlaucht irgendwann. Manchmal musst du ihm halt ein paar Wochen auszeit gönnen. In der Zeit kannst Du ja für ihn übernehmen ?
Aber streng dich an, es ist nicht leicht sein Pensum zu erfüllen ?


I also think that your dog needs a break to regenerate. It's no different with mine. Too much sex gets tiring at some point. Sometimes you just have to give him a few weeks off. During that time you can take over for him ?

But make an effort, it's not easy to fulfill his workload ?
 
Syncronia1213 said:
First you know your boy knows how to do it. So, as it was said just let him have his times. Sometimes your dog knows how to ask when he wants sex. So this can be a step to be aware of his needs and desires. Then as it was said maybe you can wait and not doing it every day just to make "exceptional" this time with your girl. Good luck and keep courage
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Thx ?
I Hope everything will be fine soon ??????
 
McDane1 said:
Ich denke auch das dein Hund mal eine pause braucht zum regenerieren. Ist bei meinem nicht anders. Zuviel Sex schlaucht irgendwann. Manchmal musst du ihm halt ein paar Wochen auszeit gönnen. In der Zeit kannst Du ja für ihn übernehmen ?
Aber streng dich an, es ist nicht leicht sein Pensum zu erfüllen ?


I also think that your dog needs a break to regenerate. It's no different with mine. Too much sex gets tiring at some point. Sometimes you just have to give him a few weeks off. During that time you can take over for him ?

But make an effort, it's not easy to fulfill his workload ?
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Hey its nice to find someone from the Same Country with experience…
We also thought about trying another dog so that she can feel a difference between the dog breeds…but very difficult to find people Like us which the same kink and also Open minded…
Maybe thats worth another thread…im very glad about finding this forum ?
Thank you all for the support.
 
LeChiffre6666 said:
Hey its nice to find someone from the Same Country with experience…
We also thought about trying another dog so that she can feel a difference between the dog breeds…but very difficult to find people Like us which the same kink and also Open minded…
Maybe thats worth another thread…im very glad about finding this forum ?
Thank you all for the support.
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Yes, you help where you can. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that he recovers.
In general, try not to do it too often with him. It could happen that he loses interest completely.
A woman is not the same as a bitch in heat.

The Ruhr area is big, you will definitely find someone ?
 
I know the feeling its hard hopefully with patience, training and not pushing to much and just encourage him and make feel safe like they said above so its on his terms.
Also tell her to like head buff him and then look away and submit
 
I wouldn't worry about it too much. But you haven't provided a lot of information on it either. If you've been manually trying to stimulate him a lot you may have injured him and it may be a little painful for him. again, not really enough info to make any judgement call really. give it time and never try to force anything.
 
LeChiffre6666 said:
Hello Community,

I am new to this Forum and I am from germany.
I have a 2 1/2 years old male akita inu boy.
For arround 5 weeks my girlfriend started to have fun with him and we all loved it.
He was always ready and was excited all the time in licking and mounting her with success in Penetration and getting tied with the knot to my gf.
After 3 weeks he suddenly stopped mounting her.
He is still excited in licking her but he acted Like he dont know what to do next (mounting and humping).
Do you have an Idea what can be the reason?
My gf started to think its her fault ?
We also looking for Contacts/open minded people in our area in Germany (NRW Ruhrgebiet) :)

Thanks in advance for your Support.

Cheers
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Oh, I just remembered, you have an Akita, they are very stubborn and have their own minds. That should be taken into account.

Maybe you could decorate the lady with a few bows and treats so that he feels comfortable (that was fun, of course ??)
 
I'll give you a tip too: play with him, pet him, roll around on the floor playing, give him a little handjob, play some more, see his reaction, give him another handjob... no one can resist... lol... but everything in due time, if he rejects something, stop. If nothing works, eat your girlfriend in front of him so he can learn... lol... just kidding... lol
 
McDane1 said:
Oh, I just remembered, you have an Akita, they are very stubborn and have their own minds. That should be taken into account.

Maybe you could decorate the lady with a few bows and treats so that he feels comfortable (that was fun, of course ??)
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phanton400 said:
I'll give you a tip too: play with him, pet him, roll around on the floor playing, give him a little handjob, play some more, see his reaction, give him another handjob... no one can resist... lol... but everything in due time, if he rejects something, stop. If nothing works, eat your girlfriend in front of him so he can learn... lol... just kidding... lol
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omniscientfluffer said:
I've heard this too. That means sex might be inconsistent and not when asked for it, but instead in the situations that works best for him. That's generally when he gets excited over something like you coming home or after some play.
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Thats actually a good idea.
I will give it a try cause when my gf comes to me (we Are Not living together) he is very excited und wild and jumps all the time…we should use this Momentum for Sex ?
 
TheRealDaisyDee said:
I know the feeling its hard hopefully with patience, training and not pushing to much and just encourage him and make feel safe like they said above so its on his terms.
Also tell her to like head buff him and then look away and submit
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Great advice, tease him a bit it's natural for male dogs to have to work for it, if you have even seen how a bitch in heat is with a male dog before he mounts her she doesn't just give it up straight away. If she can figure out how to emulate that he will perform better i have no doubt ?
 
McDane1 said:
Yes, you help where you can. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that he recovers.
In general, try not to do it too often with him. It could happen that he loses interest completely.
A woman is not the same as a bitch in heat.

The Ruhr area is big, you will definitely find someone ?
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Does it make sense to open another thread for this?
That my gf can meet another dog?
 
Ozguy49 said:
Great advice, tease him a bit it's natural for male dogs to have to work for it, if you have even seen how a bitch in heat is with a male dog before he mounts her she doesn't just give it up straight away. If she can figure out how to emulate that he will perform better i have no doubt ?
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Thank you ???
 
LeChiffre6666 said:
Does it make sense to open another thread for this?
That my gf can meet another dog?
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In principle it is a completely different topic, which is why it makes sense. Otherwise everything will get mixed up here.

But be careful with such requests, especially here in Germany it can quickly become dangerous.
 
McDane1 said:
In principle it is a completely different topic, which is why it makes sense. Otherwise everything will get mixed up here.

But be careful with such requests, especially here in Germany it can quickly become dangerous.
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Yes you mean the problem of Legal or unlegal ?
 
LeChiffre6666 said:
Yes you mean the problem of Legal or unlegal ?
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The problem is more that of being blackmailed by others. Once your identity is known, it is difficult to get out of it again. There are many fakes on the internet that are just waiting to get their victim. Whether it is the car license plate, a third unknown person following you home or a quick photo being taken of you to out you as an animal abuser in the media, the repertoire is huge! Safety, extreme caution, listening to your gut feeling and keeping your common sense on is important!
 
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