Missing friends horse

[Sharterlleb37]

You know you're super attached to your friends horse when you start getting actually UPSET you haven't seen her for over a month. Anybody else have this problem with any of their animals or friends animals?

 

[pes]

I know someone who has. You should stop your attachment. Loving animals that are not yours does not lead to happiness.

 

[nekdoneco123]

my first crush was a boy of my friend's parents. there was a time when i went there almost daily "to chat" just to see him. it was the worst.

I know someone who has. You should stop your attachment. Loving animals that are not yours does not lead to happiness.

it's not like one can choose who they fall for....

 

[pes]

it's not like one can choose who they fall for....

I think you can if you are aware of this mistake in advance.

 

[nekdoneco123]

I think you can if you are aware of this mistake in advance.

i'm not sure you're actually aware when you're falling for someone (i wasn't, it just happened)... at least until it's too late.
i also don't really see having feelings for someone as "mistake" if that's what you ment.

 

[pes]

i'm not sure you're actually aware when you're falling for someone (i wasn't, it just happened)... at least until it's too late.
i also don't really see having feelings for someone as "mistake" if that's what you ment.

The mistake I see is falling in love with an animal that is not yours. Because that will almost inevitably lead to pain as you will be forced to hide your feelings, move away, not being able to influence choices about that animal...
If you know that in advance, you can prevent yourself from forming a too deep relationship.

 

[Sharterlleb37]

I know someone who has. You should stop your attachment. Loving animals that are not yours does not lead to happiness.

Well I go over to their house everyday and I'm not going to stop being friends with em, the horse is just at training