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Meeting other zoo in person.

Wonderingcowboy

Wonderingcowboy

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So I've been looking to meet other Zoo's in person, " Not for sex" and posted on the site to meet other in my area, I'm looking to be able to have open conversation and build a friendship. However I know that the stigma of those who opposed to the Zoo lifestyle this can be tricky and down right dangerous. Any advice?
 
I would add if there are others that have met with them that can vouch for authenticity that is a big plus. Meet in a public place where outbursts would be seen as rude - like a Barnes & Noble or a library, scope out the meeting place and have a clear exit plan if what they say does not align with who they are. Do not accept any excuses for first time meeting misses - at that point they can meet someone else who can vouch for them in my book the trust has been breached.
 
well good luck in doing so. The most difficult part is "getting in touch" obv. - the rest is a breeze. Just take the time in getting to know the other person in chat

But the most reliant prove of zoo-being would be a picture of zoo-related sex-picture with the other person^^
 

Meetup safety

Generally how safe is it to arrange meetups on these forums? And what are things one can do to increase their safety if they were to proceed with the meetup? This could be for as a casual meetup or like hosting scenarios. im very curious and would like to have these tips as id like to actually...
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General tips and guidelines for meet-up safety.

As some of you are probably aware, I've decided to post some general guidelines for meet-up safety in the personals section. Does this cover every single aspect? It does not. But for the sake of length and general human attention span considerations, I've gone ahead and posted what I believe are...
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From my personal experience there is nothing wrong with taking all necessary precautions so that you feel safe. If you do not feel comfortable meeting then don't do it. It can take a long time to gain trust and especially with our community. Always make the meet up location somewhere public and do not be afraid to leave of you feel uncomfortable at any point. Maintaining your safety is number one. If they say they have been around a while see if they have some one that can vouch for them. Oh and never make the first meet up about sex or any sexual interaction.
 
Sarta said:
But the most reliant prove of zoo-being would be a picture of zoo-related sex-picture with the other person^^
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Um.
Would YOU send a sex picture of yourself to someone you still not have confidence? :)

Also, if someone sent me one, I'd think he/she was quite careless and expect that person keeping my information no better than he keeps his.

Actually, even when you'd rely your life to another zoo, it is better to agree not keeping sensible material of the other party.
You never know what can happen. They may change minds, or just have a computer breach. Do not take unnecesary risks.
 
Meaty_19 said:
From my personal experience there is nothing wrong with taking all necessary precautions so that you feel safe. If you do not feel comfortable meeting then don't do it. It can take a long time to gain trust and especially with our community. Always make the meet up location somewhere public and do not be afraid to leave of you feel uncomfortable at any point. Maintaining your safety is number one. If they say they have been around a while see if they have some one that can vouch for them. Oh and never make the first meet up about sex or any sexual interaction.
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Even if it’s only with each other?
 
Goattobeloved said:
Um.
Would YOU send a sex picture of yourself to someone you still not have confidence? :)

Also, if someone sent me one, I'd think he/she was quite careless and expect that person keeping my information no better than he keeps his.

Actually, even when you'd rely your life to another zoo, it is better to agree not keeping sensible material of the other party.
You never know what can happen. They may change minds, or just have a computer breach. Do not take unnecesary risks.
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I can’t tell you how many other zoos partners “saw our phone history”. It never went truly sideways, but it completely broke trust between me and that person. Thankfully it was just convo and media sharing (nothing personal of us)
 
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