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Jdoggy

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I have met many good people here and several that have wanted to meet up but does anyone else notice how fast the chats about meeting goes cold? The attention span cannot be more than 1 week or it's out the window.

They approach you on FIRE then want you to travel to them with doggo (LOL), do not want to have any personal chat, then are in disbelief when they realize you're not desperate for sex. They are actually offended by that last one.

The doosie though is the desperation to bring the dog on the first meet, like in the truck desperate, and without knowing them from the neighbors house cat. Like my partner is a warm sex toy ?

A few things I've learned as a 25 year zoo and never having been open about it until a few years ago are

1. It is rarely worth meeting strangers because personal connection is barely worthy of a 3 day snapchat binge then being GHOSTED

2. Due to being happily content with my personal, private life, I can see that if there were an absolute need to reach out, it would likely be the suicide of personal image via being exposed because of the absence of all intelligence

3. This is a Taboo for 99% and nothing else.
 
Sounds about right.
But it's not just here, and it's not just zoo.
I'm 31 and frankly, I don't care too much for most people because the average encounter with one is that they're an uncaring asshole with no interest in connection, which is counterintuitive to the idea of forming a community around an interest that you can keep coming back to.
But alas...
 
bigeorge91 said:
Sounds about right.
But it's not just here, and it's not just zoo.
I'm 31 and frankly, I don't care too much for most people because the average encounter with one is that they're an uncaring asshole with no interest in connection, which is counterintuitive to the idea of forming a community around an interest that you can keep coming back to.
But alas...
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true, you get ghosted
 
as much as i think its just horny people in the moment....the small paranoid part of me is saying "its the cops" so i get wary of eager messages like that....
 
If someone wants to meet me it's going to take much more than half a dozen messages over a couple of days to build up some kind of confidence to encourage me to want to meet anyone. I've long-since come to the conclusion that many men are well aware of the fact that only one in a thousand of these "mail attacks" will ever lead to anything so they are quite happy to piss off 999 other people as long as they find the one that they want.
And that's the reason why sites like this eventually die the death because people lose interest in coming here day after day and doing nothing but heaving a pile of spam out of their mail boxes
 
Caroline_UKmum said:
Si alguien quiere conocerme, se necesitará mucho más de media docena de mensajes durante un par de días para generar algún tipo de confianza que me anime a querer conocer a alguien. Hace tiempo que llegué a la conclusión de que muchos hombres son muy conscientes del hecho de que solo uno de cada mil de estos "ataques por correo" conducirá a algo, por lo que están felices de molestar a otras 999 personas mientras encuentran el que quieren.
Y esa es la razón por la que los sitios como este finalmente mueren porque las personas pierden interés en venir aquí día tras día y no hacen nada más que sacar una pila de spam de sus buzones de correo.
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agree
 
I think, with how this lifestyle goes, it's for the best that way? Anyone who's serious about meet ups would at least try to build a reputation before trying to reach out.
 
Caroline_UKmum said:
If someone wants to meet me it's going to take much more than half a dozen messages over a couple of days to build up some kind of confidence to encourage me to want to meet anyone. I've long-since come to the conclusion that many men are well aware of the fact that only one in a thousand of these "mail attacks" will ever lead to anything so they are quite happy to piss off 999 other people as long as they find the one that they want.
And that's the reason why sites like this eventually die the death because people lose interest in coming here day after day and doing nothing but heaving a pile of spam out of their mail boxes
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Trust must be earned and built.
 
Jdoggy said:
I have met many good people here and several that have wanted to meet up but does anyone else notice how fast the chats about meeting goes cold? The attention span cannot be more than 1 week or it's out the window.

They approach you on FIRE then want you to travel to them with doggo (LOL), do not want to have any personal chat, then are in disbelief when they realize you're not desperate for sex. They are actually offended by that last one.

The doosie though is the desperation to bring the dog on the first meet, like in the truck desperate, and without knowing them from the neighbors house cat. Like my partner is a warm sex toy ?

A few things I've learned as a 25 year zoo and never having been open about it until a few years ago are

1. It is rarely worth meeting strangers because personal connection is barely worthy of a 3 day snapchat binge then being GHOSTED

2. Due to being happily content with my personal, private life, I can see that if there were an absolute need to reach out, it would likely be the suicide of personal image via being exposed because of the absence of all intelligence

3. This is a Taboo for 99% and nothing else.
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Ive heard a lot about the risk of reaching out. Thank you for sharing and warning what type to not to give more personal with and conduct myself ad well.
 
People aren't really thinking when they're hard up and horny, especially when they're talking to a dog owner.

Frankly, getting to be with my dog on the first meet is pretty standard (the rare occasions that it does), since he's a horny pup and that's what he likes. But there's a lot a person can discern from the way a person communicates leading up to any potential meeting, that's for sure.
 
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Jdoggy said:
I have met many good people here and several that have wanted to meet up but does anyone else notice how fast the chats about meeting goes cold? The attention span cannot be more than 1 week or it's out the window.

They approach you on FIRE then want you to travel to them with doggo (LOL), do not want to have any personal chat, then are in disbelief when they realize you're not desperate for sex. They are actually offended by that last one.

The doosie though is the desperation to bring the dog on the first meet, like in the truck desperate, and without knowing them from the neighbors house cat. Like my partner is a warm sex toy ?

A few things I've learned as a 25 year zoo and never having been open about it until a few years ago are

1. It is rarely worth meeting strangers because personal connection is barely worthy of a 3 day snapchat binge then being GHOSTED

2. Due to being happily content with my personal, private life, I can see that if there were an absolute need to reach out, it would likely be the suicide of personal image via being exposed because of the absence of all intelligence

3. This is a Taboo for 99% and nothing else.
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You nailed it.
 
Seems like people with only one thing in mind..... I find it strange, but that's because i'm here to meet new people who have the same interests and with whom you can safely talk about zoo interests. If things turn sexual, then that's a fun thing, but it isn't my biggest reason. I have no problems with things getting sexual, but i'm also someone who like to have a type of chemistry and just a friendly relationship.
 
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