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Married but still zoo, I don't wanna cheat

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IdosoDgnrd

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Long story short, I've been married for almost two years now, I still have some intense zoo thoughts and I'd really like to have sex with a female dog.

I don't feel like cheating since I love my wife so much and I intend on being with her for the rest of my life, so it's kind of a bummer that I'll never again* feel the sweetness that only a dog pussy has.
 
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I feel ya. I'm more for males, but I can relate to having to turn that side off while in a relationship
 
I’ve been married since 2009 and my wife has no idea I’m a Zoo, we have 2 dogs that are both adopted rescue dogs witch have to be spayed and neutered by law where I live. It sucks yes I know, but the idea of getting a dog from a breeder or elsewhere when there are so many who have had tough lives and need a loving family doesn’t sit right with me. I still fool around with both my fur babies but obviously their sex drive is quite low and I would never make them do anything they are uncomfortable with. Anyway, I’ve often thought about trying to find owners with intact dogs, but 2 things get in the way. First of all it just wouldn’t seem intermit and feels a bit seedy and secondly, witch is where I find myself in a similar situation, is I would never risk my wife knowing about this side of me. If I was caught, I risk losing it all
 
IdosoDgnrd said:
Long story short, I've been married for almost two years now, I still have some intense zoo thoughts and I'd really like to have sex with a female dog.

I don't feel like cheating since I love my wife so much and I intend on being with her for the rest of my life, so it's kind of a bummer that I'll never again* feel the sweetness that only a dog pussy has.
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Even if you consider it cheating it's not like a dog would tell your wife your having an affair ? I understand it's more of a you love her and don't want to feel the guilt of doing this behind her back but trust me holding this part of yourself at bay for the rest of your life is not only gonna be very difficult to do but will do nothing but make you feel unfulfilled. Sounds like you may already feel that way? Eventually you may give in to the thoughts because let's be honest zoo sex feels leaps and bounds better...
 
I guess it get depends on your train of thought but to me sex with non human animals is not cheating but that me. It wouldn't bother me if my wife was having sex with a non human animal. That is If I was still married.
 
I feel you. I have a partner and although I'm open to him about my zoo feelings, he said he would feel weird if we got a doggie for me to have sex with. Hopefully one day he loosens up about it
 
Almost 21 years now and my husband knows about my zoo side. I’ve gotten permission to get a dog to sleep with or setup a play date with a local who has one but I have the same confliction. I don’t want to cheat. Like, I genuinely don’t want too which makes me feel like a hypocrite of sorts because I know if we had a bitch I’d be having fun while he’s at work and not consider it cheating. He wouldn’t either. But there’s still some part of me that is apprehensive about it. I think primarily because if he knows it’s happening and it changes the relationship I’d feel like I lost the world. So for now I just stick with the fantasies and porn. I live vicariously through those brave and generous enough to share their experiences.
 
thecuriousslut said:
this is the same reason I’m here too except he doesn’t know this side of me exists ?
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I’m sorry about that. It would be easy for me to say “well let him know, if he loves you…” but everyone is different and everyone reacts differently. My husbands interests are vanilla as hell. The most provocative thing he jacks off too is public play videos though most of his excitement is solo videos. I can say, with his safe generic interests in mind I thought he’d be super uncomfortable about it. I could tell he was a little uncomfortable about the idea that I wanted to have fun with something that wasn’t him, but he’s warmed up to the idea a ton.

Do you think your partner would accept you, or do you think he’d freak out and run?
 
UpInKnots said:
Almost 21 years now and my husband knows about my zoo side. I’ve gotten permission to get a dog to sleep with or setup a play date with a local who has one but I have the same confliction. I don’t want to cheat. Like, I genuinely don’t want too which makes me feel like a hypocrite of sorts because I know if we had a bitch I’d be having fun while he’s at work and not consider it cheating. He wouldn’t either. But there’s still some part of me that is apprehensive about it. I think primarily because if he knows it’s happening and it changes the relationship I’d feel like I lost the world. So for now I just stick with the fantasies and porn. I live vicariously through those brave and generous enough to share their experiences.
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First off, thank you for sharing your experience. This is an incredibly intricate and nuanced situation. On the one hand you got the golden ticket to go and do everything you want and live your best Zoo experiences. On the other you genuinely love and have an emotional bond with someone who clearly cares so much for you that they are okay with this side. If only they liked it as much as you did. Also it’s very real to have major hesitancy over stepping up and being knotted. Not just the question of legality and secrecy. But, you have built this so much up in your mind that what if it was all a lie and you actually hate it.

Those are very tough questions to answer. I hope that you find a little solace that you’re not alone and many of us feel the same way.
 
thecuriousslut said:
he’s very vanilla too so I’m afraid it would be too much for him. I envy ppl with supportive partners tho and in my dreams I’ll find his profile here and know everything is ok ?
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I always find myself fantasizing that he likes all the same messed up stuff that I do, and then feel guilt about it. Have you ever throw out coded hints to see if he picks up? That’s always been my strategy and it’s worked out for me, but I know not everyone is the same. For example I’ve been open to my friend group about enjoying a zoo podcast because I find it interesting. Which is not a lie. I think Zoophiles are amazing people living amazing lives and I love hearing about it. This gives them the space to wonder, while giving me the wiggle room for an out if it’s needed. I know they suspect and when/if they’re ready for an answer I know they’ll ask the question.
 
caboose said:
First off, thank you for sharing your experience. This is an incredibly intricate and nuanced situation. On the one hand you got the golden ticket to go and do everything you want and live your best Zoo experiences. On the other you genuinely love and have an emotional bond with someone who clearly cares so much for you that they are okay with this side. If only they liked it as much as you did. Also it’s very real to have major hesitancy over stepping up and being knotted. Not just the question of legality and secrecy. But, you have built this so much up in your mind that what if it was all a lie and you actually hate it.

Those are very tough questions to answer. I hope that you find a little solace that you’re not alone and many of us feel the same way.
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Thank you so much for the kind response. I’ve had experience in my youth and have been open to him about it. It was especially difficult trying to explain to him about how I liked cookies over knots but I’m still a gay man. Hell, it was hard for me to figure that one out too. I think part of my hesitancy stems from the fact that he’s the kind of person that puts everyone’s needs before his own, and so taking him up on the offer would feel like me taking advantage of him. That the offer is one of those offers he secretly hopes I never cash in on. I figured I’d meet him in the middle though and today spoke with him about if something ever did happen I’d want him in the room to watch. That way if he does get uncomfortable I can hit the estop on it. I told him I never want to do a play date with an owner and their dog. I’d feel too much that the situation would cross a line I can’t come back from. However if we did one day get a female dog I’d definitely consider, based off the dogs interest, doing something.
 
thecuriousslut said:
I actually never thought about dropping hints.. but my biggest worry has been letting him in to this side of me and having him be completely turned off or upset.

As for telling a friend.. maybe I’ll try your podcast idea? Is there one u recommend or are they easy to find?
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They have a Zoo podcast Zooier than Thou. Its pretty good I have flipped through a few episodes. I have dropped hints before just to gauge the situation those have been hit and miss. I don't take those sorts of risks anymore.
 
Sheppermutt said:
Some people in here really encouraging cheating or think it's not cheating. Of course you wouldn't mind, you're a zoo.

For nonzoos, your partner catching you with a dog will destroy and disgust them. People run through all the stages of grief in seconds. Throw up. Get angry or depressed. It raises so many questions about the relationship, about trust that was placed, and it often permanently damages the partner.

You're right that holding it back will be difficult and unfulfilling. But in many cases you can't have everything. Unfortunately being zoo is not socially acceptable. So a choice has to be made.

For the OP, I would be concerned about starting to resent your wife after years of holding those feelings back. If I was going to get married, zoo would be a discussion I'd have well before that. But that doesn't help you now. With the way you describe 'dog pussy' I think this will be a huge problem going forward. Can you forget about dogs like that for the rest of your life? If not, you need to find out if it's something she'd be ok with you doing, or, unfortunately, free her to find a different partner. The sooner you figure it out the better.
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This ?? you said it all
 
IdosoDgnrd said:
Long story short, I've been married for almost two years now, I still have some intense zoo thoughts and I'd really like to have sex with a female dog.

I don't feel like cheating since I love my wife so much and I intend on being with her for the rest of my life, so it's kind of a bummer that I'll never again* feel the sweetness that only a dog pussy has.
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Congratulations on your loving marriage. :)
It is good that you don't want to cheat.
 
It's funny to read all these comments from men not wanting to cheat. Dear, you feel horny for an animal, betrayal is the least of it in your life. You love to complicate everything, you get frustrated and stop doing things you want out of nonsense. No one will know that you stayed with another person or an animal. I thought that people who feel a desire for animals would be less strict with social impositions
 
miinisstriieshagee said:
No one will know that you stayed with another person or an animal.
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Technically not true – at least all who are involved in the cheating know it. But it's also not unheard of that the information leaks through sooner or later to the one being cheated, is it?

miinisstriieshagee said:
I thought that people who feel a desire for animals would be less strict with social impositions
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You can very well forget about social impositions, but you should care about your spouse. Is she okay with being cheated on? No? Then that is relevant.
 
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