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xsonicx

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While I love being a man, one of the biggest difficulties I’ve had is the sexuality of a man. I love being turned on. I love my cock, I love fucking pussy (and ass). That said, the amount of effort it takes to get with someone is awfully disappointing. Being on “kik”, I see all of these chat rooms filled with men that scare off women. I can’t say I’ve helped either. I don’t know the mind of a woman, but I can feel the pressure of our sexuality, which tends to turn off the women.

Another way of putting it, I see that if I had a pussy, I could basically ask for someone to let me get fucked by their dog, it wouldn’t take long. However, being a guy, I have to really work at it, and “maybe” get lucky. But it would take a lot of time and effort to get a mild result.

Even getting laid is quite difficult. Men are so much straight forward in a lot of ways, often to our disadvantage.
 
xsonicx said:
That said, the amount of effort it takes to get with someone is awfully disappointing.
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While I can understand you're point of view... there's an evolutionary reason women are the way we are. A bad sexual decision for a man means a bad hour or two... a bad sexual decision for a woman means 9 months of pregnancy and a child to take care of. Also, then being looked down on by every other possible male who we might want to have other children with and who we will want to take care of us. We didn't evolve with birth control and the pill. Historically when a woman got pregnant she had the baby and relied on that man for as long as possible for food and resources.

There's a reason women are hard wired to be very sexually selective.
 
allyfitz said:
While I can understand you're point of view... there's an evolutionary reason women are the way we are. A bad sexual decision for a man means a bad hour or two... a bad sexual decision for a woman means 9 months of pregnancy and a child to take care of. Also, then being looked down on by every other possible male who we might want to have other children with and who we will want to take care of us. We didn't evolve with birth control and the pill. Historically when a woman got pregnant she had the baby and relied on that man for as long as possible for food and resources.

There's a reason women are hard wired to be very sexually selective.
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That makes a lot of sense. I wonder how long it’ll be until it’s no longer hardwired into them though
 
ausar99 said:
That makes a lot of sense. I wonder how long it’ll be until it’s no longer hardwired into them though
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How many hundreds of million of years went by for female mammals to evolve to be selective.... it'll probably take about that long. :ROFLMAO:

This isn't just a human thing, you see the same selective process in virtually all animal species that exist today. There are a few where it's the opposite, but overwhelmingly... the female are the selective sex.
 
xsonicx said:
While I love being a man, one of the biggest difficulties I’ve had is the sexuality of a man. I love being turned on. I love my cock, I love fucking pussy (and ass). That said, the amount of effort it takes to get with someone is awfully disappointing. Being on “kik”, I see all of these chat rooms filled with men that scare off women. I can’t say I’ve helped either. I don’t know the mind of a woman, but I can feel the pressure of our sexuality, which tends to turn off the women.

Another way of putting it, I see that if I had a pussy, I could basically ask for someone to let me get fucked by their dog, it wouldn’t take long. However, being a guy, I have to really work at it, and “maybe” get lucky. But it would take a lot of time and effort to get a mild result.

Even getting laid is quite difficult. Men are so much straight forward in a lot of ways, often to our disadvantage.
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Well said my friend.
 
allyfitz said:
While I can understand you're point of view... there's an evolutionary reason women are the way we are. A bad sexual decision for a man means a bad hour or two... a bad sexual decision for a woman means 9 months of pregnancy and a child to take care of. Also, then being looked down on by every other possible male who we might want to have other children with and who we will want to take care of us. We didn't evolve with birth control and the pill. Historically when a woman got pregnant she had the baby and relied on that man for as long as possible for food and resources.

There's a reason women are hard wired to be very sexually selective.
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Very true.
 
xsonicx said:
Another way of putting it, I see that if I had a pussy, I could basically ask for someone to let me get fucked by their dog, it wouldn’t take long.
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Another thing to think about... if you had a pussy and wanted to get fucked by a dog... why wouldn't you get your own and cut out the middle man? Then you ccould be doing it in complete and total privacy and not have to worry about what another human might say or try to do to you.
 
Unless you are married to a spouse who is opposed to having pets, much less a dog to breed me !
 
allyfitz said:
Another thing to think about... if you had a pussy and wanted to get fucked by a dog... why wouldn't you get your own and cut out the middle man? Then you ccould be doing it in complete and total privacy and not have to worry about what another human might say or try to do to you.
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just having a dog of their own isn't ever an option for fetishists... just begging here, on telegram/kik/whateverotherplatformsthereare.
 
allyfitz said:
While I can understand you're point of view... there's an evolutionary reason women are the way we are. A bad sexual decision for a man means a bad hour or two... a bad sexual decision for a woman means 9 months of pregnancy and a child to take care of. Also, then being looked down on by every other possible male who we might want to have other children with and who we will want to take care of us. We didn't evolve with birth control and the pill. Historically when a woman got pregnant she had the baby and relied on that man for as long as possible for food and resources.

There's a reason women are hard wired to be very sexually selective.
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I completely understand your point here. Additionally I could mention the damage men have done and STD’s.

I do have another point here too. Now days, with pharmaceuticals at the least, pregnancy is now more of an option than before. There are also natural remedies for “Plan B”. I don’t personally know of them, but some witchy people who know herbs do. Granted, in an era of Chirstianity, these kinds of approaches would get a woman burned at the stake.

I do feel largely disappointed for how men have behaved as a social construct over history, I still am affected in a way that nature and karma doesn’t help.
 
xsonicx said:
While I love being a man, one of the biggest difficulties I’ve had is the sexuality of a man. I love being turned on. I love my cock, I love fucking pussy (and ass). That said, the amount of effort it takes to get with someone is awfully disappointing. Being on “kik”, I see all of these chat rooms filled with men that scare off women. I can’t say I’ve helped either. I don’t know the mind of a woman, but I can feel the pressure of our sexuality, which tends to turn off the women.

Another way of putting it, I see that if I had a pussy, I could basically ask for someone to let me get fucked by their dog, it wouldn’t take long. However, being a guy, I have to really work at it, and “maybe” get lucky. But it would take a lot of time and effort to get a mild result.

Even getting laid is quite difficult. Men are so much straight forward in a lot of ways, often to our disadvantage.
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cope. quit being blackpill, sure men are bad according to feminists, too bad just pay for it
 
xsonicx said:
I completely understand your point here. Additionally I could mention the damage men have done and STD’s.

I do have another point here too. Now days, with pharmaceuticals at the least, pregnancy is now more of an option than before. There are also natural remedies for “Plan B”. I don’t personally know of them, but some witchy people who know herbs do. Granted, in an era of Chirstianity, these kinds of approaches would get a woman burned at the stake.

I do feel largely disappointed for how men have behaved as a social construct over history, I still am affected in a way that nature and karma doesn’t help.
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well theres always light for some people
 
allyfitz said:
While I can understand you're point of view... there's an evolutionary reason women are the way we are. A bad sexual decision for a man means a bad hour or two... a bad sexual decision for a woman means 9 months of pregnancy and a child to take care of. Also, then being looked down on by every other possible male who we might want to have other children with and who we will want to take care of us. We didn't evolve with birth control and the pill. Historically when a woman got pregnant she had the baby and relied on that man for as long as possible for food and resources.

There's a reason women are hard wired to be very sexually selective.
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these guys never have talked to women lololol
 
I figured some people would consider this an incl situation. Quite far from the truth really. But I don’t need to convince anyone. I was more interested in starting a conversation that could lead to something interesting. But if people want to throw insults into this, it becomes yet another reason why some parts of the internet is disgusting.

For example, how bad has our sexuality become distorted due to porn?
 
xsonicx said:
I figured some people would consider this an incl situation. Quite far from the truth really. But I don’t need to convince anyone. I was more interested in starting a conversation that could lead to something interesting. But if people want to throw insults into this, it becomes yet another reason why some parts of the internet is disgusting.

For example, how bad has our sexuality become distorted due to porn?
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im willing to talk about gender/initmate dynamics about straight people.

its just with your few lines of text. i can only guess where you come from.

so if you come from benevolent or ambivent view ,then i do apologize for my actions.
 
This one guy is yell INCEL.... but I agree that its much much easier to get action from men than it is to find a female date, let alone nsa hookup/fwb. Plenty of times I've either hit a dry spell or ignored the entire gender since I can spend 10 minutes on grindr and have a friendship, date, or hookup. It might seem rude, but as a bi man, sometimes women aren't worth the effort. I've been in several LTRs and hookups with males/females and are just vast differences in both that I chalk up to biology. Ease of sex being the major one ITT.

Females in nature can be as picky as their desires and biology wants them to be. I don't think you can blame anyone for being this way since that's just how animals are.....you see it all the time in nature, pretty/desired males get the mates, and many males don't, humans aint no different! It doesn't help that some people aren't able to make bonds with their partner and only see the other gender (or same) as living sex toys....oh how horrible that's become!
 
dixon_zeta said:
This one guy is yell INCEL.... but I agree that its much much easier to get action from men than it is to find a female date, let alone nsa hookup/fwb. Plenty of times I've either hit a dry spell or ignored the entire gender since I can spend 10 minutes on grindr and have a friendship, date, or hookup. It might seem rude, but as a bi man, sometimes women aren't worth the effort. I've been in several LTRs and hookups with males/females and are just vast differences in both that I chalk up to biology. Ease of sex being the major one ITT.

Females in nature can be as picky as their desires and biology wants them to be. I don't think you can blame anyone for being this way since that's just how animals are.....you see it all the time in nature, pretty/desired males get the mates, and many males don't, humans aint no different! It doesn't help that some people aren't able to make bonds with their partner and only see the other gender (or same) as living sex toys....oh how horrible that's become!
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so you lean more towards men.
 
dixon_zeta said:
This one guy is yell INCEL.... but I agree that its much much easier to get action from men than it is to find a female date, let alone nsa hookup/fwb. Plenty of times I've either hit a dry spell or ignored the entire gender since I can spend 10 minutes on grindr and have a friendship, date, or hookup. It might seem rude, but as a bi man, sometimes women aren't worth the effort. I've been in several LTRs and hookups with males/females and are just vast differences in both that I chalk up to biology. Ease of sex being the major one ITT.

Females in nature can be as picky as their desires and biology wants them to be. I don't think you can blame anyone for being this way since that's just how animals are.....you see it all the time in nature, pretty/desired males get the mates, and many males don't, humans aint no different! It doesn't help that some people aren't able to make bonds with their partner and only see the other gender (or same) as living sex toys....oh how horrible that's become!
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you also seem to have a good head into this stuff.
 
ijustlikewatchinglol said:
cope. quit being blackpill, sure men are bad according to feminists, too bad just pay for it
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I'd just like to point out that 'men are bad' is only a belief according to some forms of feminism. Feminism is not a uniform set of beliefs that everyone calling themselves a feminist is obligated to follow. It is also worth reading some feminist literature that actually isn't anti-male at all, but does point out issues in (predominantly Western) society's male behaviors. I can recommend bell hooks - the will to change & Liz Plank - for the love of men for starters.
And from there I'll say that men have fucked things up for themselves largely. As allyfitz points out a 'nature' aspect of the whole issue, there is also plenty of 'nurture' to consider. Men have given men a bad rap, so we're already behind in the eyes of many women, and tbh I can't blame women for it. The only way to fix it though is to make sure that as men we don't behave in bad ways, and in doing so we can rebuild a reputation of trust, care and love. Which is ultimately what all human beings really want. But when people don't believe others are capable of giving them that, why would they open themselves up? So work on yourself, make sure you turn yourself into someone worth being with, look at stuff beyond just sexuality... (that's one thing that porn has done - diminishing our idea of ourselves into just sex machines...) and get your shit together as much as you can given the societal status you have to work with (I recognize plenty/most people are fucked by the system and face a daily uphill battle). Take care, and apologies for the rambly nature of this post, I mean well.
 
Furblez said:
I'd just like to point out that 'men are bad' is only a belief according to some forms of feminism. Feminism is not a uniform set of beliefs that everyone calling themselves a feminist is obligated to follow. It is also worth reading some feminist literature that actually isn't anti-male at all, but does point out issues in (predominantly Western) society's male behaviors. I can recommend bell hooks - the will to change & Liz Plank - for the love of men for starters.
And from there I'll say that men have fucked things up for themselves largely. As allyfitz points out a 'nature' aspect of the whole issue, there is also plenty of 'nurture' to consider. Men have given men a bad rap, so we're already behind in the eyes of many women, and tbh I can't blame women for it. The only way to fix it though is to make sure that as men we don't behave in bad ways, and in doing so we can rebuild a reputation of trust, care and love. Which is ultimately what all human beings really want. But when people don't believe others are capable of giving them that, why would they open themselves up? So work on yourself, make sure you turn yourself into someone worth being with, look at stuff beyond just sexuality... (that's one thing that porn has done - diminishing our idea of ourselves into just sex machines...) and get your shit together as much as you can given the societal status you have to work with (I recognize plenty/most people are fucked by the system and face a daily uphill battle). Take care, and apologies for the rambly nature of this post, I mean well.
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i agree. i mean well too. its just the lack of context by op kinda looked whack so i gave my opinion. he stated he comes from a good place in the debate so i apologized.

and yes you are right. people generalize feminism. yeah there are good parts about it. im not denying that. yes, men are our worst enemy. i agree.

just saying that op needs to be descriptive for things in this debate.
 
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