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Looking for my first dog

dogsox

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Hello everyone, I am 23 years old (M) and currently thinking about getting a female dog. Unfortunately, I know very little about sexuality with animals, even though I have the desire to do it with my dog then. Therefore, the question now to the community, what is your experience and what risks are there, what vaccinations need my dog, etc.?


Thanks in advance,
drawn DS
 
What I’d do first is evaluate your life and make 100% sure that you’re ready for a dog. Because a relationship with an animal is a completely different ball game than a relationship with a human.

Having an animal partner is more than just the sex. You’ve gotta be prepared for the costs, the responsibilities, the love, the time and attention, etc. I’ve grown up with animals my whole life, so it comes to me naturally. However, for others, the responsibility can be overwhelming. There’s giving your pup the proper diet, making sure she’s fit and well-behaved, making sure she’s mentally and emotionally stable, providing her the affection and attention she needs, proper socialization with other people and animals, making sure she’s well-groomed and up to date on vet appointments and vaccines, making sure she has a stable home, etc.

If you feel even the slightest bit of doubt in your ability to take care of her, I’d wait a bit. This is an entirely different being that will depend on you to live her best life. If you can’t provide her her best life, it would probably be better for you to hold off on getting her.

If you feel that you’re ready, however, here are a few of my personal tips and tricks:

Veterinary offices usually offer plans that allow you to schedule appointments and vaccinations annually, so while costly, it won’t be as hard to remember what needs to be done and most of it is taken care of.

Avoid foods with excessive grains and fillers. It’s more expensive, but giving your girl a crappy diet with result in a shorter lifespan, a long list of health issues, and general unhappiness. Feed her the best you have to offer. She deserves a good diet.

Research on different breeds and temperaments is key. For example, I know I would be a terrible Husky owner because they require tons of excercise, and I’m only a moderately active person. For me, a more lax dog is more my type. Look for dogs that are best suited to your way of life, that way life is easier for the both of you.

As for sex, admittedly, I don’t have too much experience in that department (I don’t really have the parts to do so with a female), so all I can say is this: Make sure you’re both clean, avoid getting her spayed, make sure she’s 100% comfortable with it (Ie. if she looks uncomfortable, don’t force anything on her). Her well-being should be of upmost importance. It’s your responsibility to listen to the things she’s trying to tell you. I cannot emphasize this enough, but make sure you’re clean! While uncommon, zoonotic diseases from bestiality are still a thing. Be very careful. You wouldn’t want to explain to a doctor how you got sick from having sex with a dog, and the same goes for your girl. You could very well get her taken away from you, and that would cause a world of pain for the both of you.

I wish you luck.
 
What I’d do first is evaluate your life and make 100% sure that you’re ready for a dog. Because a relationship with an animal is a completely different ball game than a relationship with a human.

Having an animal partner is more than just the sex. You’ve gotta be prepared for the costs, the responsibilities, the love, the time and attention, etc. I’ve grown up with animals my whole life, so it comes to me naturally. However, for others, the responsibility can be overwhelming. There’s giving your pup the proper diet, making sure she’s fit and well-behaved, making sure she’s mentally and emotionally stable, providing her the affection and attention she needs, proper socialization with other people and animals, making sure she’s well-groomed and up to date on vet appointments and vaccines, making sure she has a stable home, etc.

If you feel even the slightest bit of doubt in your ability to take care of her, I’d wait a bit. This is an entirely different being that will depend on you to live her best life. If you can’t provide her her best life, it would probably be better for you to hold off on getting her.

If you feel that you’re ready, however, here are a few of my personal tips and tricks:

Veterinary offices usually offer plans that allow you to schedule appointments and vaccinations annually, so while costly, it won’t be as hard to remember what needs to be done and most of it is taken care of.

Avoid foods with excessive grains and fillers. It’s more expensive, but giving your girl a crappy diet with result in a shorter lifespan, a long list of health issues, and general unhappiness. Feed her the best you have to offer. She deserves a good diet.

Research on different breeds and temperaments is key. For example, I know I would be a terrible Husky owner because they require tons of excercise, and I’m only a moderately active person. For me, a more lax dog is more my type. Look for dogs that are best suited to your way of life, that way life is easier for the both of you.

As for sex, admittedly, I don’t have too much experience in that department (I don’t really have the parts to do so with a female), so all I can say is this: Make sure you’re both clean, avoid getting her spayed, make sure she’s 100% comfortable with it (Ie. if she looks uncomfortable, don’t force anything on her). Her well-being should be of upmost importance. It’s your responsibility to listen to the things she’s trying to tell you. I cannot emphasize this enough, but make sure you’re clean! While uncommon, zoonotic diseases from bestiality are still a thing. Be very careful. You wouldn’t want to explain to a doctor how you got sick from having sex with a dog, and the same goes for your girl. You could very well get her taken away from you, and that would cause a world of pain for the both of you.

I wish you luck.

Hey I could just read this I just had problems with my proxy. Thanks for all the tips, I am aware that it is definitely not just about sex and a dog is not an object. Nevertheless I want to make sure that the animal has it well, that with the doctor is also a good tip, I will look that I will take something in claim. I have the time and the money, I work in IT security in the home office (permanently not only because of CoVid-19), I had already picked out a few breeds that could fit me and I also "like" the body stature but also the character. Currently I tend to a Dalmatina mix.

I wanted to get me first one from the shelter have that but quickly discarded because there the animals are castrated / sterilized from the beginning what neither me nor the animal in certain situations would come to use.

Thanks again I will take it to heart. (y)
 
Female dogs are a bit more tricky than males. I am quite sure one of the veterans here will give you more information sooner or later. But from what I have read, not all female dogs are into sex out of heat, some are not into sex at all. Getting discovered by a vet is practically impossible when you have a male dog unless you do something obviously stupid, with females it is more risky. You should be looking for dogs with wider hip.
When it comes to sex, build a relationship first then have sex. You will need to wait for even years.

A shelter dog is probably not a good idea for your first dog. These dogs usually have a not so nice history and may need more experienced owners to handle them and repair the psychological damage done to them.

Unfortunately, I know very little about sexuality with animals, even though I have the desire to do it with my dog then.
Go trough the how to section and the articles there.

Therefore, the question now to the community, what is your experience and what risks are there, what vaccinations need my dog, etc.?
Any vet will give you advice on what vaccinations you should have.

The life with a dog is about 10% sex and 90% other issues. Before you get a puppy, find a good dog school and talk to them so you will be able to attend as soon as it becomes possible. They might even let you observe a few lectures so you can decide. Dog socialization with other dogs and people is very important for your later life and the sooner you begin the better. Find a school that focuses more on raising the dogs rather than exhibition training. Of course it is nice when your dog can perform tricks, jump over obstacles and runs well through a tunnel, but obedience, socialization, street training and real world useful things are in my opinion more important.

When it comes to health, start training the important stuff you can do yourself soon. Tooth brushing and nail clipping... Both these things can be done without stressing the dog too much and with the dog letting you do it for a reward. A vet will do this for you too, but it will cost you a little and it will stress your dog a lot more. And keeping your dog's teeth in good shape will reward you with a healthy dog and amazing kissing experience. :p Veterinary teeth cleaning is done under anesthesia. You may never need it if you brush your dog's teeth daily. Dental plaque in dogs solidifies in 48h, so you should do it daily.
Buy a small box of the powder that stops bleeding from deep cut nails. Trust me, if your dog has black nails, you will need it. Even my vet cuts too deep and uses it.

Read a book or two about raising a dog, it will tell you the basics in a concentrated easy to understand way.
Prepare yourself that you will need a lot of patience and never get mad at your dog for not understanding something. (it may get hard sometimes :D)
Prepare yourself for a lot of sleepless nights and stress. Just recently my dog was sick and it really hurts to see your dog suffer.
Prepare your home for a puppy, hide cables, shoes... anything you do not want to be chewed.
Once you get a puppy stock up on rice, carrots and chicken meat a little. Young dogs often suffer from diarrhea and boiled rice with chicken and carrot helps a lot. I also always have some dog Probiotic paste or pills from my vet in case my dog feels sick. Your vet will tell you more about how to use it. My dog used to get diarrhea a lot in the beginning.

Always keep some money reserve for emergency vet care.
Save a phone number for the nearest 24h vet emergency in your phone.
Depending on your area learn how to deal with poisoning and how to make your dog vomit. In my area people sometimes poison dogs with poison bait.

That is about all I can think of now.
 
One more thing:
Training animals for sex is wrong. The act must be consensual and ideally initiated by the animal, you must never use any treats, peanut butter, commands, or training methods to make an animal have sex with you or anyone else.
The reasoning behind that is simple, you can teach a dog to let a vet take his blood or trim his nails, clean ears... a clearly unpleasant possibly painful procedure that the dog will endure because there will be a reward in the end.
Bringing this to sex would completely rob you of any valuable feedback and you may end up doing something against the dog's will unknowingly or even worse, knowingly and the dog will withstand that for the reward.
Do not teach animals to have sex with people.
 
Also depending on where you live, you may need to deal with spay and neuter propaganda. Here are some hints (disregard the title):

Some more tips:
Use meat for training rewards. If you can get chicken hearts or something like this cheaply and boil it to sterilize, it works the best, cheap, irresistible, easily digestible even when your dog feels sick, does not cause obesity.

You should probably go through the forum and read the titles, there are some interesting ones out there.






I think @FloofyNewfie had spme good tips somewhere on the female dog hygiene.
 
Ty all so much :D
Also depending on where you live, you may need to deal with spay and neuter propaganda. Here are some hints (disregard the title):

Some more tips:
Use meat for training rewards. If you can get chicken hearts or something like this cheaply and boil it to sterilize, it works the best, cheap, irresistible, easily digestible even when your dog feels sick, does not cause obesity.

You should probably go through the forum and read the titles, there are some interesting ones out there.






I think @FloofyNewfie had spme good tips somewhere on the female dog hygiene.
The biggest advice I can give you about playing with females. Don't start until after the second heat. Always thoroughly wash your hands and genitals before playing and let her out to urinate immediately after play, or they can get urinary tract infections easily. When selecting a bitch, find a breed that suits your lifestyle well but is also large enough to accommodate you. Length isn't much of an issue, but if you're fairly girthy, you are going to need a much larger breed to comfortably accommodate you. As a general idea, if you're 5" in girth, anything lab sized or larger should be fine. 5 1/2" or more in girth, you're going to be more limited towards giant breeds or you can hurt them.
 
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