Let's Talk Sexual "Aggression" vs. Abuse

[Chris_Topher]

I had an interesting conversation with another user about this topic. I am curious: when it comes to sexual interactions with an animal, where do you draw the line between sexual aggression (non-violent) and abuse? Or do you consider sexual aggression (non-violent) to BE abusive? All viewpoints welcomed.

NOTE: I'm defining sexual aggression as vigorous, sexual interaction/penetration with your zoo-partner with no evident signs of discomfort.

 

[Panda Chen]

I'm not sure that is the best term for it however.
Animals tend to let you know if something is not feeling good. You have to pay attention to their body language and behavior. In general though most are okay with fairly vigorous activity. Think about how a male of a particular species reacts. Males dogs are strong and can really give a pounding and a stallion grabbing and thrusting is quite something.
Like people, some like slow and gentle and others like it strong and fast. They will let you know what they like if you pay attention.

 

[Chris_Topher]

I'm not sure that is the best term for it however.
Animals tend to let you know if something is not feeling good. You have to pay attention to their body language and behavior. In general though most are okay with fairly vigorous activity. Think about how a male of a particular species reacts. Males dogs are strong and can really give a pounding and a stallion grabbing and thrusting is quite something.
Like people, some like slow and gentle and others like it strong and fast. They will let you know what they like if you pay attention.

No, "sexual aggression" is not the best term. It was the term I used when I first had the conversation initially and I reused it for continuity's sake, hence why I needed to define the term. And I'm glad you mentioned the males of some species. Some seem to regard any vigorous sexual interactions as borderline abusive which I can appreciate. But when compared to how actively animals can mate with each other, I wonder if those who tend toward total caution take that into account as well. Either way, both perspectives are important. Just curious to see others'.

 

[amorousdog5]

As long as your partner consents and enjoys themself.