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cyucyf

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Let me start by saying that I have a overall good relationship with my boyfriend but he said about bestiality that they should be jailed or locked up, and not all of bestiality is the bad stuff that we are more likely to see. I just don't know how to tell him that I am mildly into bestiality but only into dogs within it

Also wanna say that where I live it is also very illegal
 
cyucyf said:
Let me start by saying that I have a overall good relationship with my boyfriend but he said about bestiality that they should be jailed or locked up, and not all of bestiality is the bad stuff that we are more likely to see. I just don't know how to tell him that I am mildly into bestiality but only into dogs within it
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Just don't, for the sake of your good relationship never tell him.
 
cyucyf said:
Let me start by saying that I have a overall good relationship with my boyfriend but he said about bestiality that they should be jailed or locked up, and not all of bestiality is the bad stuff that we are more likely to see. I just don't know how to tell him that I am mildly into bestiality but only into dogs within it

Also wanna say that where I live it is also very illegal
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Wish I could chat to you in DMs because anything I comment here , I'm sure will get lambasted by someone 🙄😂
 
It's a very complex one , I do believe all relationships everything must be shared , I don't believe a person can live with a "lie" and it will damage the relationship and it's trust.

However I do understand that this is a difficult scenario, regarding the illegality, well that's true for most of us where we live , I have shared my interest in Zoo with some of my friends and my partner, but he's into the same thing so it's different.

That said I hope your partner loves you more then reporting you let alone judging you , but I don't know him so I wouldn't know.

You can very slowly just lightly touch on the subject , but don't push it and see , but if he's so disgusted in it I doubt his mind will change on the subject. Often I believe Zoos are like being Gay , you are or you aren't (mostly)

Hope this helps in some way , but yeah just stay safe x
 
How long You are with Your bf? Do You living together? From my experience - is better to stay alone than being with partner who didn't accept or support your fantasies or way of Your life.
My current partner totally accept me, my experience with K9 from the past and my wolf/dog related kinks. We were lucky because we sharing similliar fantasies and I'm sure Seb is vedy happy with me.

About relationship with blokes is one good thing - they come and they can go. Most of them are not worth attention and time tbh. I was lucky with my boyfriend so that's my point of view.
If You are not pleased what your bf saying, maybe it's time to reconsider Your relationship. Try to do more research what he really thinks. Your happiness is most important. If You feel unhappy with someone, cut it out.
 
For a little more context we were looking at ovipositors and I had told him that I am intrested in the dog sex toys and we got on the topic of the real thing and he said the first post I had mentioned that they should be jailed
 
Horselover27SA said:
It's a very complex one , I do believe all relationships everything must be shared , I don't believe a person can live with a "lie" and it will damage the relationship and it's trust.

However I do understand that this is a difficult scenario, regarding the illegality, well that's true for most of us where we live , I have shared my interest in Zoo with some of my friends and my partner, but he's into the same thing so it's different.

That said I hope your partner loves you more then reporting you let alone judging you , but I don't know him so I wouldn't know.

You can very slowly just lightly touch on the subject , but don't push it and see , but if he's so disgusted in it I doubt his mind will change on the subject. Often I believe Zoos are like being Gay , you are or you aren't (mostly)

Hope this helps in some way , but yeah just stay safe x
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I was thinking on it but I am very blunt so this wouldn't work as well but J could show him studies about this subject in how dogs aren't really harmed unless horrible people are after them
 
I do want to add that, I am trans for transgender with my boyfriend, we have been together for almost 2 months now. We have a very healthy and happy relationship and I couldn't ask for better. I was just off putted by his comment
 
Don't tell him , and don't marry him either

I'm sure he's a great guy. But if it's really something you want to do one day it's sounds like you would have to sneak around or risk destroying your life.
 
cyucyf said:
Let me start by saying that I have a overall good relationship with my boyfriend but he said about bestiality that they should be jailed or locked up, and not all of bestiality is the bad stuff that we are more likely to see. I just don't know how to tell him that I am mildly into bestiality but only into dogs within it

Also wanna say that where I live it is also very illegal
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Coming from a similar situation with my ex wife. I have to say either tell him and if y'alls relationship is strong enough then he'll understand and be willing to communicate with you instead of judge you. You could hold it in and always feel like your relationship isn't complete because you can't even be honest with someone who supposedly loves you. The option I went with was hide it, then she found out confronted me and we actually talked about it. Turned out she used to have her dog lick her when she was younger, but she wasn't willing to do it anymore because she felt guilty, but she accepted the fact i was into it and our relationship lasted 8 years because we were honest and open with one another.
 
The only way to clarify this is to talk to your boyfriend. And there are only two was. Either he will leave you or he will accepts you. If he judges you for what you are, it's a very toxic relationship.
My Bf had the same. He is divorced. I wasn't into zoophilia and after we talked about I starte to get curious. And now I am officially proud zoophile Woman.

There is no guarantee. Take all your courage and talk to him. I can't do anything else for you.

Nadine
 
I probably wouldn’t tell - I’m currently in this same situation now with my gf of 5 years - she is completely opposed to beastiality and has also made similar comments in the past. I’d be dead meat if I straight up told her. I wish you well with this 🫶
 
I think you should try a dog first to see if you like it. If you find that you can't live without dog sex afterwards, get a dog and forget about your boyfriend and all of his virtues. There is no need to complicate things.
 
Hi firstly when you say mildly into bestiality , what do you mean? If you are a full zoo girl then you should talk to him about your interests clearly , that's the only way to do it @talking to each other. If you are not a zoo girl and haven't done anything yet and you feel this guy is a keeper( this is something you need to be completely certain) you can perhaps figure out a way to talk about why you like so. Overall in my opinion, if a guy accepts you for who you are including your fantasies or potential ones is the one to keep, otherwise its not a sustainable relationship over time. The choice is ours to decide what matters to us most and where our happiness lies in the end.
 
cyucyf said:
Let me start by saying that I have a overall good relationship with my boyfriend but he said about bestiality that they should be jailed or locked up, and not all of bestiality is the bad stuff that we are more likely to see. I just don't know how to tell him that I am mildly into bestiality but only into dogs within it

Also wanna say that where I live it is also very illegal
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That sucks hopefully one day we won’t be oppressed and people will understand
 
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