puppyboy88
Zooville Settler
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In a human relationship, but attracted to animals, spouse not interested?
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KuriousK_9Kouple
Tourist
You might be pushing to hard. There are phases of acceptance and it sounds like she is in the quilt phase about it. Slow down is my advice.
knottybarbie
Tourist
It's quite common to hear this but as with anything in this world, patience plays a big role and pays off in the long run x
puppyboy88
Zooville Settler
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I am driven mad by thoughts of her playing with herself to beastiality porn like uncontrollable hard ons if I remotely think about it, but was extremely turned off by what she said. To where I just wanna play with myself. I know that sounds very selfish, but since she has gotten more kinky ournl relationship has gotten better. She's very "vanilla" in the sack, and it was driving me mad cause I'm a MAJOR FREAK in the sack.
Yeah great idea.
What about not forcing someone into something they do not like and respecting their opinion? Stop creating "zoos" out of normal people because of your kinks. This sounds like emotional blackmailing, pushing someone into zoo over time hoping that one day they finally give up because they love you.She has an equal right to demand you stop being into watching zoo porn. Why dont you consider that then?
Roxxi
Zooville Settler
Thank you for admitting you're selfish, saves me the trouble of having to explain that to you. While I will admit that I typically think that two people must be compatible for relationships to work( which is what I am always bitching at my cousin about) you are now willing to leave a woman that you have now burdened with your seed because she wont service just your needs ? That goes beyond selfish and skews right into dick head territory. I mean you said you have been together for 5 years? that has been plenty of time to sort out what you want. I am not saying she is blameless either as I imagine she knew you were a "freak" before this long too ? I hate to tell you, that you are "stuck" in that you can't take that kid back to the store. So I would suggest you and she come to some compromise.
nekdoneco123
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
he won't consider it, mainly because (as it goes in all threads of this type) he'd be repeatedly told she's to blame or that he should condition her.. or that she will totally come around with time (even if she didn't over a 5 year period), because every woman actually wants to get a dog dick, obviously.
and you (me possibly too) will get called an asshole or something, you can't show any negativity towards "zoo wife" seekers
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TonyUK
Guest
I've seen alot of these comments about recret lives or partners not interested. I find it mind boggling. Im straight but my married male friend is bi and keeps it a secret which is tearing him apart. My point is the world is full of people so why do people try and coerse their partner into it if its not their thing? I believe be open amd talk ur turn ons to them but if its really not their thing well its probably better for both parties to move on and have a chance to find someone they both truly click with. If u find someone on ur level u can bounce of each other and enjoy things more than ever. Id rather be single and happy than with someone who doesn't really know me.
Roxxi
Zooville Settler
Well said. I typically ignore most of these posts and chalk them up to "dumb human relationship stuff" Like if you can't figure out that you and your partner being turned on by wildly different things is a giant red flag...Then there is nothing I can say to make you see that. The part that compelled me to respond was the mentioning of their child. I would agree a couple should split amicably if they are not compatible. abandoning her and his offspring for something as selfish as " she wont fuck dogs" really rubs me the wrong way. * yes I do have abandonment issues *
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TonyUK
Guest
Thanks for the comment. I apologise if my response implied any abandonment or selfishness. I just meant that sometimes people can be happier by moving on and both may end up happier. Sometimes a parents breakup can be beneficial to all. My parents are still together but I lived through their violent relationship and to this day I still say that it wasn't healthy and should have Split. All people involve deserve to have a happy life and should not allow anyone to impact that.
Reconscope
Supreme Citizen of ZV
Since you knew this individual for 5 years why did you have a kid with her if she wasnt interested in zoo at all? The very fact she mentioning "sin" means shes heavily religious. Thats like a vampire who willingly drinks holy water right there with a pinch of garlic.
The instant you get turned off by her refusal is the moment i ask "why trap yourself with a child if your not gonna follow through with it."
The instant you get turned off by her refusal is the moment i ask "why trap yourself with a child if your not gonna follow through with it."
puppyboy88
Zooville Settler
Well for 1) we had our child very early in our relationship like a few months. 2) I'm not forcing her to do anything, I'm in no way giving her an ultimatum. 3)I was asking if anyone was living a double life. 4) It's not like our life is super perfect and I'm like join the Dark Side or else. I'm not forcing her. 5) There are lots of things she isn't into and that bugs me. 6) It's just recently that I've accepted my beastiality fetish and stopped hating myself and treating it like some kinda drug addiction.
puppyboy88
Zooville Settler
Also I'm religious so yea, there's that.
Reconscope
Supreme Citizen of ZV
What happened to marriage before sex is sacred if your religious? I personally wouldnt have to live a double life if my single life was either pure zoo only or or open infomation relationship where each other is open. having a double life is pure masochism.
(On number 4) "Ahhh yes young one give in to the doggy cock you will"
6. Thats great you accepted yourself there.
puppyboy88
Zooville Settler
Somethings were added and to/from thr bible by certain groups. And somethings don't add up. But we'll see how God judges me.
But yea I agree on the masochism part.
puppyboy88
Zooville Settler
I didn't wanna use my Jedi powers for evil. ??
Reconscope
Supreme Citizen of ZV
KuriousK_9Kouple
Tourist
Assume much? People can have an interest in a subject and have second thoughts/guilt about it. From what I understand he came out to her and presented the idea to her and she at first showed an interest but is now having second thoughts/guilty feelings about it. Being that is so taboo in society many have those same struggles with the issue. I'm just saying it's on the table now let her take it from there you can not force the situation she will either get past the guilty phase or she will reject it. But pushing her will not help her get through her feelings on the subject.Yeah great idea.
puppyboy88
Zooville Settler
I don't want to push her away. I was asking for some guidance and what people have done in situation. I'm just confused, lost, and seeking guidance. I didn't mean to come off in a certain way.
puppyboy88
Zooville Settler
Thanks for being positive and helpful.
The issue here is that it was open to misinterpretation (and did read kinda like something a jerk would say, but you're honest and I like that
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BishiBashiSpecial
Zooville Settler
I'm sorry but it really doesn't sound like your partner is going to be interested. There is a very big step between dildos and videos etc but this may just be too big a step. In saying that though, giving up on your life would be a bad idea. Like it or not your kid needs you, as does your partner.
Papasmerf21
Tourist
I can't offer you unequivocal truths or that my advice will be best, I will just simply say what I would do for encouraging her
You can't just show her any old videos or pics you need to take your time finding the best single one or few that encapsulates what or why you like zoo and beast love. talking about it in ways others than trying to sexualize everything would probably help too
But you just can't expect her to instantly turn a switch on and she's green light all go
Maybe if she actually tried it herself someday and she felt for herself what the people in the vids are feeling and talking about she might be intrigued enough to try! but that's not going to happen if you keep pestering her about it! I wouldn't think the outcome would be hey I'm going to do it just to get him to shut up about it lol...and honestly it might go the other way and cause friction or tension between the two of you!
I would feel some type of way if as a woman my man basically is saying to me that im not good enough or attractive or sexy enough to have sex with and would rather see me do a dog instead? Is that not easy to see where you look bad in the light?
Not saying that's the case but she could easily see or feel it as that way!
Try telling her she's sexy and you love her either way but damn how it would be so sexy and a fantasy come true to see her be pleasured by man's best friend! And that if women are being truthful in any of those vids or in stories on here that you just want that pleasure for her as well. As if you don't want her to miss out on that opportunity or something like that
That would be called honesty lol
And honestly I hope it works out for you in the long run! Take your time and be patient with your wife and mother of child!
You stated she's not as kinky or a freak as yourself so instead of expecting her to become one for you..
Try to think of it another way such as if she was a drinker and you weren't!
You might go with her to the bar or pub together, but that doesn't mean your going to pound them down like she might
If she's willing to accept you and what your into that's a start man, but she got what most people want out a relationship in family and children
If you wanted to be with her for kinky sexual reasons only then should have probably been discussed earlier in the beginning stages of getting together and not suppressing those feelings if you can't handle it!
I'm sorry but I don't think it's reasonable to expect your spouse to indulge you in your own personal fantasies!
Even if she were to try it and do it for you out of pure love for you, you couldn't and shouldn't expect her to enjoy it as much as you do!
You can't just show her any old videos or pics you need to take your time finding the best single one or few that encapsulates what or why you like zoo and beast love. talking about it in ways others than trying to sexualize everything would probably help too
But you just can't expect her to instantly turn a switch on and she's green light all go
Maybe if she actually tried it herself someday and she felt for herself what the people in the vids are feeling and talking about she might be intrigued enough to try! but that's not going to happen if you keep pestering her about it! I wouldn't think the outcome would be hey I'm going to do it just to get him to shut up about it lol...and honestly it might go the other way and cause friction or tension between the two of you!
I would feel some type of way if as a woman my man basically is saying to me that im not good enough or attractive or sexy enough to have sex with and would rather see me do a dog instead? Is that not easy to see where you look bad in the light?
Not saying that's the case but she could easily see or feel it as that way!
Try telling her she's sexy and you love her either way but damn how it would be so sexy and a fantasy come true to see her be pleasured by man's best friend! And that if women are being truthful in any of those vids or in stories on here that you just want that pleasure for her as well. As if you don't want her to miss out on that opportunity or something like that
That would be called honesty lol
And honestly I hope it works out for you in the long run! Take your time and be patient with your wife and mother of child!
You stated she's not as kinky or a freak as yourself so instead of expecting her to become one for you..
Try to think of it another way such as if she was a drinker and you weren't!
You might go with her to the bar or pub together, but that doesn't mean your going to pound them down like she might
If she's willing to accept you and what your into that's a start man, but she got what most people want out a relationship in family and children
If you wanted to be with her for kinky sexual reasons only then should have probably been discussed earlier in the beginning stages of getting together and not suppressing those feelings if you can't handle it!
I'm sorry but I don't think it's reasonable to expect your spouse to indulge you in your own personal fantasies!
Even if she were to try it and do it for you out of pure love for you, you couldn't and shouldn't expect her to enjoy it as much as you do!
puppyboy88
Zooville Settler
Well yeah it's not just beast porn, it's any porn. Which I don't understand why cause she said she has watched porn with other guys, but won't watch it with me. And the thing is she is frequently expressed she wants me to move out(long before this), I go to pack up, and she then says the opposite. So it just felt like a straw that broke the camel's back kinda thing. If sex isn't amazing, and she keeps saying she wants me to leave then saying never mind, why am I staying.
It honestly just feels like a toxic relationship. she frequently accuses me of cheating. She badgers me about putting in my fair share of $$$ but I barely have enough money to pay my Bill's with a little extra because she is the bread winner and the only hours I can work are for a dead end job with barely any money.
So we definitely have issues. But when said she was ok with the doggy toys I felt some kinda renewal of attraction, but then when she said what she said it was an instant downer.
It honestly just feels like a toxic relationship. she frequently accuses me of cheating. She badgers me about putting in my fair share of $$$ but I barely have enough money to pay my Bill's with a little extra because she is the bread winner and the only hours I can work are for a dead end job with barely any money.
So we definitely have issues. But when said she was ok with the doggy toys I felt some kinda renewal of attraction, but then when she said what she said it was an instant downer.
Reconscope
Supreme Citizen of ZV
thats why you should take control of your life instead of anyone else dictating it for you. to avoid someone saying "i do more then you".
Reconscope
Supreme Citizen of ZV
Just noticed your thread title spelled anmals not animals lol