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Stutensindwunderbar

Stutensindwunderbar

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I've been having some problems with my mare recently. She usually just lets me come over and brush or pat her, then after a bit she lets me move to her genitals and begin to pleasure her. I want her to have pleasure before me so I usually give her oral for a while. Lately shes been very apprehensive toward me even brushing near her thighs. Normally she is very calm and affectionate toward me. But she's seemingly almost wanting nothing to do with me lately. She even pinned her ears and raised a hoof when I stood behind her to brush her legs where she normally loves to be brushed. I have only recently begun being intimate with her. So I think I was moving in too strong and she either got tired of humoring me, or she just got bored with me. I'm wondering if anyone with experience could give me some advice in regards to how to proceed. I love her very much and normally I wouldn't think anything of it, but I'm kind of a sensitive guy and feel like I may have done something wrong
 
Just in case anyone wonders. Yes I have been laying off, and only grooming and being with her with no sexual intent. I'm trying to get her warmed back up to me if that's the right thing to do
 
There could be some kinda stressor or a health problem. Do you suspect any fence hoppers?

Maybe have a vet check her out. Of course say something like "her behavior has been strange during grooming, and that ur concerned something may be wrong health wise.
 
Mickflare said:
There could be some kinda stressor or a health problem. Do you suspect any fence hoppers?

Maybe have a vet check her out. Of course say something like "her behavior has been strange during grooming, and that ur concerned something may be wrong health wise.
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No, I don't think it would be fence hoppers. I live in an old folks neighborhood, wit no other younger folks around. I really don't think it could be anything medically related because I am out there frequently with her (I just got fired from my job and I have more time to be with her now) but I will definitely keep an eye on her , and if this continues and is not just an "I don't just like you right now." kind of thing I will keep that in mind
Thank you for the advise
 
Stutensindwunderbar said:
No, I don't think it would be fence hoppers. I live in an old folks neighborhood, wit no other younger folks around. I really don't think it could be anything medically related because I am out there frequently with her (I just got fired from my job and I have more time to be with her now) but I will definitely keep an eye on her , and if this continues and is not just an "I don't just like you right now." kind of thing I will keep that in mind
Thank you for the advise
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Nods,

Good deal!
Could she be jealous of another mare?
 
It is possible, but not likely in my opinion. I only have one other horse but she is 21 And I don't "mess around" with her. My girl in question is 6, and my only "mare friend." Although, the other mare does like to watch us have "fun times" lol. Still a valid theory though.
 
Stutensindwunderbar said:
It is possible, but not likely in my opinion. I only have one other horse but she is 21 And I don't "mess around" with her. My girl in question is 6, and my only "mare friend." Although, the other mare does like to watch us have "fun times" lol. Still a valid theory though.
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The older one mare is probably like "yeah you teach that naught young girl" while watching.
 
Mickflare said:
Go to general chat, fun and games. You can rack up lot of posts that way.
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Actually "fun and games" doesn't count towards your post count anymore. It was disabled shortly after the "Count to 10,000" post was made. It'll still count towards your reaction score if someone likes your post. The only two areas where post counts are not counted is Fun and Games and user's profile walls. Anything else counts.
 
FloofyNewfie said:
Actually "fun and games" doesn't count towards your post count anymore. It was disabled shortly after the "Count to 10,000" post was made. It'll still count towards your reaction score if someone likes your post. The only two areas where post counts are not counted is Fun and Games and user's profile walls. Anything else counts.
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Well... dammit
 
FloofyNewfie said:
Actually "fun and games" doesn't count towards your post count anymore. It was disabled shortly after the "Count to 10,000" post was made. It'll still count towards your reaction score if someone likes your post. The only two areas where post counts are not counted is Fun and Games and user's profile walls. Anything else counts.
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Would it count if I were to make a Spam thread? Like just find somebody on here that would help me out and just Spam the thread full of nonsense
 
Stutensindwunderbar said:
Would it count if I were to make a Spam thread? Like just find somebody on here that would help me out and just Spam the thread full of nonsense
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A thread with spam in it would be removed along with any posts made in it. The easiest way you can gain more posts is by posting. But if you want to you can go the porn section and post "That's hawt, me likey!" on all videos you find even mildly appealing. Or just post in the dumpster fire.
 
FloofyNewfie said:
A thread with spam in it would be removed along with any posts made in it. The easiest way you can gain more posts is by posting. But if you want to you can go the porn section and post "That's hawt, me likey!" on all videos you find even mildly appealing. Or just post in the dumpster fire.
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I'll try that
btw thanks for helping out a tourist nobody
 
Stutensindwunderbar said:
Either that or She s just too far out if estrus, and we haven't really bonded enough yet for that
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This is most likely the scenario. Some mares just aren't interested when they are out of thier heat cycles. When she comes into season, try acting like a stallion. Get naked, let her sniff you, do all the grunting a stud does if you can. She may get it into her mind that YOU are her stallion. Repetition is the key. My draft mare was 25 and it worked for her.
 
FireShire said:
This is most likely the scenario. Some mares just aren't interested when they are out of thier heat cycles. When she comes into season, try acting like a stallion. Get naked, let her sniff you, do all the grunting a stud does if you can. She may get it into her mind that YOU are her stallion. Repetition is the key. My draft mare was 25 and it worked for her.
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I will definitely do that. Thank you
 
FireShire said:
This is most likely the scenario. Some mares just aren't interested when they are out of thier heat cycles. When she comes into season, try acting like a stallion. Get naked, let her sniff you, do all the grunting a stud does if you can. She may get it into her mind that YOU are her stallion. Repetition is the key. My draft mare was 25 and it worked for her.
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That may also be part of the problem, I'm acting too human-like, i.e. talking to her, hugging her. I should try being more stallion like
 
Well gentlemen, idk what happened, but last night went out to make sure there were coyotes gong to eat my chickens. Whilst I was out there my girl basically forced herself on me. I guess she just wasn't in the mood before
 
That's awesome...I'm glad she came back around to you.

I can relate, the same thing has happened occasionally with my marefriends, some more so than others. Love, patience, and persistent kindness have always worked for me and my equine friends...:)
 
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