I just told a friend of mine

mine definitely didn't go well. i told a furry friend of mine, in confidence, not even that i was interested in bestiality but that i was considering purchasing a BD hazel. she told... of all people... my landlord who had a dog and I was immediately kicked out.

And once again, we see an illustration of why the best move is to *KEEP YOUR FUCKING MOUTH SHUT!*

But the pinheads that want to play the "let's be activists and force the world to accept us for what we are just like the gays did" will never be able to comprehend that basic concept.
 
That ducked sucks, that’s not fair. Where are you staying at now? Sorry to hear of your bad luck.
still flatting, no pets. probably won't have any for a few years until i can afford my own spit of land. all in all it didn't affect my life much financially, but it did make me feel alone for a while. i lost some zoo friends in the process too, they no longer saw it as safe to hang out. something i probably deserved
 
mine definitely didn't go well. i told a furry friend of mine, in confidence, not even that i was interested in bestiality but that i was considering purchasing a BD hazel. she told... of all people... my landlord who had a dog and I was immediately kicked out.
I don't understand this. Don't furries usually look at animalistic pornography? Why would they mind an animalistic sex toy then? It's not a real animal in either case.

I'm sorry to hear that zoo friends avoided you afterwards.
 
She is just 18, why do you people pay too much attention?, 😂 she probably doesn't knows how to clean up her ass-hole well yet
 
i know her well enough that she wont ever use it against me, if only for the fact that i now all her kinks too and have text to prove it,
Did you tell her that you actually do engage in zoo sex, or just that it turns you on? (Rhetorical question, not meant to be answered here.)

If you actually own a dog and are letting him knot you, it's dangerous because (at least in the U.S., maybe less so in Deutschland) there are always plenty of prosecutors and police who love to ruin lives, and bestiality is either explicitly illegal by statute or is lumped in under "animal abuse" laws for prosecution, unlike most other "kinks".

If all you told her is that you like the idea, that at least can't be used to throw you in prison.
 
This post escalated well, i know her well enough that she wont ever use it against me, if only for the fact that i now all her kinks too and have text to prove it, and im less of an out of control drunk person, i just have more courage, i was kind of hoping she was into it as well, thats why i told her, as we did thing together in the past ;) and that may have been a good opportunity in my opinion, thanks for everyone trying to help (i guess)
Well this aged well lmao

Also for the record if you have to say they would never do anything cause we're the closest of friends plus I can possibly blackmail them you're probably not the closest of friends
 
I gotta reiterate the fact that you can't afford the risk of telling anybody. Having someone irl that supports you sounds nice, but man does getting stabbed in the back feel 100x worse.
 
Yes getting stabbed in the back is 100x worse I understand and know that it’s hard not being able to tell your partner of your secret. I know my kids, wife wouldn’t understand or except it. But what does one do any suggestions
 
Yes getting stabbed in the back is 100x worse I understand and know that it’s hard not being able to tell your partner of your secret. I know my kids, wife wouldn’t understand or except it. But what does one do any suggestions

You mean, aside from keeping your mouth shut on the topic, thereby avoiding any worries about getting clobbered as a result of deciding that you desperately need to be blabbing the details of who/what you fuck/get fucked by? Not very much to do but suck it up - It's called a "self-inflicted wound", same as it would be if you splashed gasoline around your living room, then sat down in the middle of the rug and started flinging lit matches toward the puddles. As such, zero sympathy from me. Any bad result is of your own making, and well deserved. Don't forget that I'm a solid believer in the idea that "stupidity should be painful in direct proportion to the level of stupid involved - up to and including death for a stupid enough act."
 
But the pinheads that want to play the "let's be activists and force the world to accept us for what we are just like the gays did" will never be able to comprehend that basic concept.

Activism will bring only even stricter laws and worse situations for all of us. I don't understand how people don't realize that.
 
This post escalated well, i know her well enough that she wont ever use it against me, if only for the fact that i now all her kinks too and have text to prove it, and im less of an out of control drunk person, i just have more courage, i was kind of hoping she was into it as well, thats why i told her, as we did thing together in the past ;) and that may have been a good opportunity in my opinion, thanks for everyone trying to help (i guess)
I think you did what you felt. I'm completely comfortable with my friends and if I care to share my beasty sexuality with someone that I can trust .why not? It reliefs alot of tension and they could be curious about it themselves. 😊
 
No it is not. Now you have a person who knows you are into animals and does not exactly feel right about it. If you ever make an enemy of this person, you can expect her to use it against you.
This is one of the reasons why I do not drink alcohol in addition to the fact that alcohol abuse is in my eyes mental weakness.
While I hope for a day where I can tell someone about this side of me and having something good come from it....I also understand it's more or less wishful thinking as the laundry list of things that can go wrong with having the secret out is through the roof. As pes stated, just make sure you never make enemies of that person because you won't live it down. Or let's hope the indifferent tone isn't used as a point of gossip to maybe their best friend because a big chain of shit will be created.

Granted I drink....and I really enjoy drinking (and bartending) and I have gotten drunk and still ensure my secret stays safe with me. I do not think that you should never drink if you have a secret because people can drink for leasure and not to lose control. Some drinks just taste damn good.
 
In high school, people would send people porn to watch and some of those videos where south American zoo videos.

A little weird but it's Catholic school.
 
No it is not. Now you have a person who knows you are into animals and does not exactly feel right about it. If you ever make an enemy of this person, you can expect her to use it against you.
This is one of the reasons why I do not drink alcohol in addition to the fact that alcohol abuse is in my eyes mental weakness.
Yeah this isn't exactly like coming out as gay or bi or anything you're exactly right....this shit is nuclear fissile material and it's not something I would even mention to even the closest people in my life
 
Yeah this isn't exactly like coming out as gay or bi or anything you're exactly right....this shit is nuclear fissile material and it's not something I would even mention to even the closest people in my life
Horrific would be the only word that I could use to describe what it would be like if people knew in real.

I am in the keep my mouth shut side of this discussion. It’s great that some people have people they can confide in and all that. I don’t know people in real I could trust with something like this.

For those of you who like to share or want to share. Good luck. My advice is to be quiet about it and enjoy it on your own and only talk about it here
 
No it is not. Now you have a person who knows you are into animals and does not exactly feel right about it. If you ever make an enemy of this person, you can expect her to use it against you.
This is one of the reasons why I do not drink alcohol in addition to the fact that alcohol abuse is in my eyes mental weakness.
Big ups on the whole no alcohol thing. It's a large reason that I decided to stop drinking myself.
 
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