I'm not sure where you are, what you're trying to experience, or how old you are but I would recommend working towards becoming an owner. That's what I'm working on now. I plan to move out some time soon and I'll get a dog when I do. I've wanted to meet up with someone for some time now, not for any sexual activity, but grab some food and talk. I'm really cautious though and haven't met anyone yet. I would have to be so confident that they will not expose me or get me in trouble. The best way I can think is to build a good history on here. Hundreds of messages would take a lot of dedication to fake, and that would look really good to anyone wanting to meet up.