Being the reason for an orgasm is an ego-boost natural high for someone of any gender in any sexual situation.
And please, everyone, no matter who or what they are, is desired by someone.
I shit you not, In the entirety of my life no one has ever approached me or found me attractive.
No compliments, light flirting, comfortable prolonged eye contact, "you're lookin good today!", none of that.
Every love I've had has been because they got to know my personality and I talked to them online first.
I suppose that's why I always find it a bit humorous when women complain about being surrounded by men who constantly desire them. Yes I see the annoyance and danger, but I also see the comedy.
In the real world It's like I'm Nny, The bodies are piling up in plain sight yet still I walk free as if no one notices.
(Easy there FBI, It's just a comic reference, nothing more. I'm American, not maga.)
In the end, it really doesn't matter. Everyone has their challenges in life.