How to tell or find out if other people are zoos ?

[Bczoo]

How do u find out in life if others are in the life style as well or are accepting

 

[Shep Lover]

This is something I've been struggling with for a long time. I'm still not even sure I've ever talked to another zoo in person before. But i also have no simple way to verify without outing myself x.x

 

[Shadow69]

Fact of the matter, there is no easy way to do so. In attempting it, you are pretty much forced to out yourself.

 

[swedane]

Once a girl was interested in me. We hang out in bars every weekend and just had fun. After a while she was hiting on me but i told her that I'm to pervert for her which made her more interested and for some time she tried to figure out what it was. She asked and asked until she got it right. Then I just looked her in the eyes and smiled, then she knew but was not a 100%. So let it brew for awhile until she mentioned again and said she thought it was hot to look at. So we watched clips and pics together but. For us at that time it was just a nasty secret and a fantasy and it never happened IRL