How to safely approach a mare?

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So, my family is getting a mare at our cabin. I'm not crazy about mares, but I'm considering exploring with the mare eventually. I am not too familiar with them, I don't want to rush anything. She's coming here in about a week, and I don't want to rush into too much beforehand, any advice for a potential first timer?
 
Not an expert on horses myself, but I'd think you should get acquainted with her before you go sticking your dick in her.
Yeah, obviously, why is why I said I don't want to rush anything. I'm in no hurry. I just wanted some advise from other people more familiar with mares on how to get comfortably acquainted with one and bond with one first, since I'm more familiar with dogs.
 
for a long time nothing sexual, have to build the trust and comfort. if you are nervous they will sense it, if you are overly confident they will also sense that so have to build a true relaxed hanging out grooming the mare comfort level.

spend a lot of time grooming: brushing & currying as well as just petting, when giving the horse a bath does she like her udder being cleaned, when brushing and you are beside her back leg brushing a bit towards the tailhead does she move her tail aside so you can scratch her a bit better.... just small signs that you can try small advances just brushing your hand over things to see the reception but like i said make sure everyone is comfortable and knows the other first to reduce your risks of a very painful "no" from the mare
 
for a long time nothing sexual, have to build the trust and comfort. if you are nervous they will sense it, if you are overly confident they will also sense that so have to build a true relaxed hanging out grooming the mare comfort level.

spend a lot of time grooming: brushing & currying as well as just petting, when giving the horse a bath does she like her udder being cleaned, when brushing and you are beside her back leg brushing a bit towards the tailhead does she move her tail aside so you can scratch her a bit better.... just small signs that you can try small advances just brushing your hand over things to see the reception but like i said make sure everyone is comfortable and knows the other first to reduce your risks of a very painful "no" from the mare
Exactly... TAKE YOUR TIME. Build trust. Don't be focused on sex until she's totally comfortable with you. And then, don't push it. If she is receptive to your gentle exploration under her tail, make sure you have a quiet, safe place to explore further. Nervous energy/ fear of being discovered/ etc. will be an immediate buzz kill. Above all else, make sure you prioritize HER PLEASURE over yours. Once she understands your encounters are about her pleasure, you can reap the benefits.

Don't ever forget she is a living, feeling, emotional creature -- not your sex toy!
 
Tie her back legs to her front legs or you could be killed.
No! Absolutely and positively NO! That's very bad advice. If a mare is comfortable around you and also wants sex from you, you should not need to tie her legs up. If you fear that she'll kick you it's either because she doesn't know you or she doesn't want sex from you, or both. A mare that wants sex from you will generally not kick you. If you eliminate her ability to say "no" by tying up her legs and you fuck her whether or not she wants you to is called rape. There's no other way of putting that lightly.
 
So, my family is getting a mare at our cabin. I'm not crazy about mares, but I'm considering exploring with the mare eventually. I am not too familiar with them, I don't want to rush anything. She's coming here in about a week, and I don't want to rush into too much beforehand, any advice for a potential first timer?
Not to put too fine a point on it, but if you need to ask, you're about 17.3 light-years away from being qualified to even TRY.
Tie her back legs to her front legs or you could be killed.
And as for you, go crawl back under whatever slime-covered rock you came from. You aren't fit to be FED to pigs, never mind associate with another living creature.
 
I've been around horses all my life.
So, my family is getting a mare at our cabin. I'm not crazy about mares, but I'm considering exploring with the mare eventually. I am not too familiar with them, I don't want to rush anything. She's coming here in about a week, and I don't want to rush into too much beforehand, any advice for a potential first timer?
If this guy is planning on "exploring her" I suggest doing it safely. Just google what happens if a mare kicks you.
 
No! Absolutely and positively NO! That's very bad advice. If a mare is comfortable around you and also wants sex from you, you should not need to tie her legs up. If you fear that she'll kick you it's either because she doesn't know you or she doesn't want sex from you, or both. A mare that wants sex from you will generally not kick you. If you eliminate her ability to say "no" by tying up her legs and you fuck her whether or not she wants you to is called rape. There's no other way of putting that lightly.
I agree. No matter what sex or species - to tie one up, so you can have sex, is rape.
It is like him non-zoos imagine we are.
My recommendation to ‘Cindylouwho’ is to buy a masturbator and stay at home.
 
I've been around horses all my life.

If this guy is planning on "exploring her" I suggest doing it safely. Just google what happens if a mare kicks you.
I think most of us know....Broken Ribs, busted spleen, ruptured kidney, among other things.... But cross-tying a horse is not for beginners....your better advice to a noob would be..." back out of the stall, back out of the barn and walk away."

Exploration such as he wishes can be done with one of those plastic things they flog here. Its as close as most of the wannas will ever get.
Edit: one more thing....the fella who asked the question sounds like a kid. His parents are getting a horse, he's perving on it already, and you just gave him advice thats going to get both the animal and his dumbass self hurt. He knows nothing, and for someone who's " been around horses all my life"....your advice is foolish....Obviously, the horses youve been around weren't yours.
 
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So, my family is getting a mare at our cabin. I'm not crazy about mares, but I'm considering exploring with the mare eventually. I am not too familiar with them, I don't want to rush anything. She's coming here in about a week, and I don't want to rush into too much beforehand, any advice for a potential first timer?
Nope...let the mare alone. She's not yours, and if you have to ask, youre not ready. She won't be adjusted to her new home for a good while. The last thing SHE needs at that point is someone "Exploring"....leave her be.

Do some research instead of taking the easy way out. The search engine, top right, opens up a world, and....if you are at all perceptive, you will soon see who knows what theyre talking about and who does not. Pay attention.
 
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So, my family is getting a mare at our cabin. I'm not crazy about mares, but I'm considering exploring with the mare eventually. I am not too familiar with them, I don't want to rush anything. She's coming here in about a week, and I don't want to rush into too much beforehand, any advice for a potential first timer?
If nothing else and just in case your exploring might take in learning how to ride her, for your health and well being, please take a crash course in "Horse Body Langauge and Approach Angles"

Note: She may never like or accept you - Knowing, ornery horses abound!
 
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So, my family is getting a mare at our cabin. I'm not crazy about mares, but I'm considering exploring with the mare eventually. I am not too familiar with them, I don't want to rush anything. She's coming here in about a week, and I don't want to rush into too much beforehand, any advice for a potential first timer?
Don't mistake them for fools. They love as a good woman would love you. Not just sexually but mentally. Emotion, passion, with actual thoughts and care for you. It's not a sex toy, object or escort. Amazing things start with a true meeting of basically in my opinion to hearts capable of that ever so hard to find love, most people die before finding kind of relationship and that starts with becoming a friend. So dont be pushy, learn her ways what she likes enjoys not sexual but in general. When she trusts you and you gain it. Trust me youl be shown. When she loves you and cares you will know she wants you she will become sexually active and for life to so a good heart good Lovins caring and passionate pretty good deal I'd say. So Be cool respect her for the love of God respect her, and have patient's.
 
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Don't mistake them for fools. They love as a good woman would love you. Not just sexually but mentally. Emotion, passion, with actual thoughts and care for you. It's not a sex toy, object or escort. Amazing things start with a true meeting of basically in my opinion to hearts capable of that ever so hard to find love, most people die before finding kind of relationship and that starts with becoming a friend. So dont be pushy, learn her ways what she likes enjoys not sexual but in general. When she trusts you and you gain it. Trust me youl be shown. When she loves you and cares you will know she wants you she will become sexually active and for life to so a good heart good Lovins caring and passionate pretty good deal I'd say. So Be cool respect her for the love of God respect her, and have patient's.
It takes a while to establish a good bond, but Lot depends upon how the mare you are getting was treated before she arrives, in fact a very lot depends upon it. If she came from a loving home, chances are she will show general friendship and basic trusts to most humans. If she was mistreated or just locked away in a stall with minimal human contact, you may have to take your time and be patient. And of course age is a big factor. The more experience the mare has around humans, the more she will disply what she learned, but generally, young ones are learning, so best to start them out on the right hoof.
 
It takes a while to establish a good bond, but Lot depends upon how the mare you are getting was treated before she arrives, in fact a very lot depends upon it. If she came from a loving home, chances are she will show general friendship and basic trusts to most humans. If she was mistreated or just locked away in a stall with minimal human contact, you may have to take your time and be patient. And of course age is a big factor. The more experience the mare has around humans, the more she will disply what she learned, but generally, young ones are learning, so best to start them out on the right hoof.
What can tell you is she has been loved by humans and has had good life.

Thinking about it more, I don't know if I ever actually could go through with anything with a horse. I was curious, because I know horses are highly intelligent animals capable of sharing that love with a human. Partially, my heart/preference is for a K9 girl. However, I know I will treat with horse with love when I meet her, the meaning of Zoophilia is not always a sexual one for me, I am just happy to share love with animals of all kinds
 
What can tell you is she has been loved by humans and has had good life.

Thinking about it more, I don't know if I ever actually could go through with anything with a horse. I was curious, because I know horses are highly intelligent animals capable of sharing that love with a human. Partially, my heart/preference is for a K9 girl. However, I know I will treat with horse with love when I meet her, the meaning of Zoophilia is not always a sexual one for me, I am just happy to share love with animals of all kinds
The relationship dynamics between man and horse and man and canine are different, but both equally rewarding.
 
Any man not out to get their rocks off and has a brain like any female new to anyone meeting should be respected and thought of as a first meeting to understand and learn each other without thinking one bit about fucking. Mares are not a female to be taken lightly. Respect and space are big no rushing through. I wouldn't look at it as a one night stand if that says anything.
 
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