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How to ease the obsession

stuck2gether

stuck2gether

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I’ve been into zoo from very young and it’s an off and on thing with me.

Whenever I am actively watching or reading/learning I get so swept away to where it affects my body on a physical level

I become faint weak and clamy and especially if there is a zoo p*rn video that really wows me or shows me something new
it’s like I become actually feral I’ve noticed my heart beats entirely to fast I feel overcome with all my emotions and I have no balance it will become all I think about I never want to think about anything else and I never get like this with normal p*rn.

How do I chill tf out is there like zoo therapy ?
 
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stuck2gether said:
I’ve been into zoo from very young and it’s and off and on thing with me.

Whenever I am actively watching or reading/learning I get so swept away to where it affects my body on a physical level

I became faint weak and clamy and especially if there is a zoo p*rn video that really wows me or shows me something new
it’s like I become actually feral I’ve noticed my heart beats entirely to fast I feel overcome with all my emotions and I have no balance it will become all I think about I never want to think about anything else and I never get like this with normal p*rn.

How do I chill tf out is there like zoo therapy ?
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Try things a little more regularly. I got that when I first dived in and that was mostly the feeling of the risk factor.

For example, even if you're not in one of your moods for it, dabble a little and chat around like I am here. You'll grow more accustomed and it'll feel less... different.
 
pes said:
Get your own dog. A horny one. It will become a mundane cock sucking grind every day, many times a day, again, again and again. To the point it begins to annoy you. :D
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I just know I would never get bored or annoyed , but it’s so hard to tell which ones will be hornier what are good tips to look for before adopting

Yaboiwut said:
Try things a little more regularly. I got that when I first dived in and that was mostly the feeling of the risk factor.

For example, even if you're not in one of your moods for it, dabble a little and chat around like I am here. You'll grow more accustomed and it'll feel less... different.
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I like that! I have been trying to read more and accept it into my life to make it feel more natural but the feelings are SO intense
 
Hi !

If it doesn't affect your life, like creating distress, then it's not a problem.

However, it seems like your zoo attraction is strong, which isn't a problem per se. You just have to know for yourself if it becomes to much of an issue. In that case if I had an advice to give it would be to try to get to know yourself. Are those urges less strong if you don't watch porn ? In that case, maybe just watch porn on fridays so if you're horny the hole week end then it ain't no problem.
 
Junior22 said:
Hi !

If it doesn't affect your life, like creating distress, then it's not a problem.

However, it seems like your zoo attraction is strong, which isn't a problem per se. You just have to know for yourself if it becomes to much of an issue. In that case if I had an advice to give it would be to try to get to know yourself. Are those urges less strong if you don't watch porn ? In that case, maybe just watch porn on fridays so if you're horny the hole week end then it ain't no problem.
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It definitely does cause distress , I have pretty full life and a lot going on I can’t be as active as I want with this and because I don’t own I think it just makes it’s worse for me.

It makes me sad I don’t own just every feeling I feel pertaining to zoo is intense. I recently lost a close friend by telling them about this part of me and it’s a lot but I still feel like this is all I want at the end of the day and I will do whatever I have to to achieve it
 
stuck2gether said:
It definitely does cause distress , I have pretty full life and a lot going on I can’t be as active as I want with this and because I don’t own I think it just makes it’s worse for me.

It makes me sad I don’t own just every feeling I feel pertaining to zoo is intense. I recently lost a close friend by telling them about this part of me and it’s a lot but I still feel like this is all I want at the end of the day and I will do whatever I have to to achieve it
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Oh I am sorry to hear about the loss of your close friend. Trying to be open about it requieres lot's of bravery and you did it, it's a shame that it was to much for her.

Do you like horses ? Maybe you could try to get some riding lessons. Thoses won't be very interesting but at least you can have some time with the horse. Do not expect sex but spending time with horses may calm you down (or turn you on... you won't know if you haven't tried).

If it becomes too much you can try to see if some situation help you think about something else. For instance If have a hard time working at home because all you think about is zoosex then you could try to work at the library.

If it's really problematic you could try an AASECT therapist. However, don't expect it to be easy to find a good therapist, some might try to tell you that your problem is your zoophilia. Just change if you feel unconfortable, you should never feel ashamed about your zoosexuality, this would cause much more distress.
 
stuck2gether said:
Haha I feel like that will get me turned away as I viable adopting parent but I’m sure I will charm any pup ☺️
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Your emotions will be intense for a while.. Give it a month of daily reading, maybe 1-2 hrs a day and your heart won't race. Reliability is the key. It's like driving. The only thing that'll cure the nervousness in being a new driver is experience on the road.

In regards to getting a partner...

1.) Get a dog you'd love to have without anything sexual. They're your partner first and if they're not the type, that's fine. Don't pressure them or bait them with food.

2.) Ensure they aren't fixed and make sure you only get ONE sex, unless you're prepared for handling puppies. (ex. 2 boys is okay. 2 girls is okay, but 1 boy and girl is risky unless you're careful)

3.) Get a toy. It'll help you figure out your limits, from there, don't plan anything unless you're reasonably able to take the breed of partner you have. If you're knotted, it's quite painful for it to grow past what you can handle.
4.) Take your partner's needs in line. Be it male or female. This one is particularly important. If you have a bitch in heat... don't let her suffer just because you're not quite in the mood for a few days. Put an effort to please. If they're male, Libidos can vary wildly. Some will be insatiable and need you more than 2-3x a day. Some will want it every few days or weeks. If you can't take him then, quickly let him get off somewhere safe when you can. But... never insist on them. Treat them how you would a human sexually. Just as you wouldn't pressure a human for sex, you shouldn't your partner.
 
Yaboiwut said:
Your emotions will be intense for a while.. Give it a month of daily reading, maybe 1-2 hrs a day and your heart won't race. Reliability is the key. It's like driving. The only thing that'll cure the nervousness in being a new driver is experience on the road.

In regards to getting a partner...

1.) Get a dog you'd love to have without anything sexual. They're your partner first and if they're not the type, that's fine. Don't pressure them or bait them with food.

2.) Ensure they aren't fixed and make sure you only get ONE sex, unless you're prepared for handling puppies. (ex. 2 boys is okay. 2 girls is okay, but 1 boy and girl is risky unless you're careful)

3.) Get a toy. It'll help you figure out your limits, from there, don't plan anything unless you're reasonably able to take the breed of partner you have. If you're knotted, it's quite painful for it to grow past what you can handle.
4.) Take your partner's needs in line. Be it male or female. This one is particularly important. If you have a bitch in heat... don't let her suffer just because you're not quite in the mood for a few days. Put an effort to please. If they're male, Libidos can vary wildly. Some will be insatiable and need you more than 2-3x a day. Some will want it every few days or weeks. If you can't take him then, quickly let him get off somewhere safe when you can. But... never insist on them. Treat them how you would a human sexually. Just as you wouldn't pressure a human for sex, you shouldn't your partner.
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That is very good advice! I really appreciate that I do believe immersing myself in this more will make it easier to handle. When I eventually do own I will take things very slow I’m not ready for any type of penetration just yet but getting used to them and loving them will make it easier on me
 
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Junior22 said:
Oh I am sorry to hear about the loss of your close friend. Trying to be open about it requieres lot's of bravery and you did it, it's a shame that it was to much for her.

Do you like horses ? Maybe you could try to get some riding lessons. Thoses won't be very interesting but at least you can have some time with the horse. Do not expect sex but spending time with horses may calm you down (or turn you on... you won't know if you haven't tried).

If it becomes too much you can try to see if some situation help you think about something else. For instance If have a hard time working at home because all you think about is zoosex then you could try to work at the library.

If it's really problematic you could try an AASECT therapist. However, don't expect it to be easy to find a good therapist, some might try to tell you that your problem is your zoophilia. Just change if you feel unconfortable, you should never feel ashamed about your zoosexuality, this would cause much more distress.
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I would love to go horse riding that would be fun ! I have done it befor a few times on my aunts ranch.
But I think I may get more turned on the obsessive feeling are quite bad it also doesn’t help that I have borderline personality disorder. So just riding the horse will make me go crazy ? BUT I think reading more and getting more knowledge until I own will help the feelings subside and if that doesn’t work I will take you up on the AASECT therapy!
 
stuck2gether said:
I would love to go horse riding that would be fun ! I have done it befor a few times on my aunts ranch.
But I think I may get more turned on the obsessive feeling are quite bad it also doesn’t help that I have borderline personality disorder. So just riding the horse will make me go crazy ? BUT I think reading more and getting more knowledge until I own will help the feelings subside and if that doesn’t work I will take you up on the AASECT therapy!
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Because you got turned on when you tried it at your aunts ranch ? Well, most of the times the males have some parts missing between their legs so... It's not going to be the stallion of your dream everytime.
But I understand, I am sorry but I don't know anything about borderline personalities but if it makes it impossible to ride then I'll have to trust you on this.
 
Junior22 said:
Because you got turned on when you tried it at your aunts ranch ? Well, most of the times the males have some parts missing between their legs so... It's not going to be the stallion of your dream everytime.
But I understand, I am sorry but I don't know anything about borderline personalities but if it makes it impossible to ride then I'll have to trust you on this.
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Yes there is a chance I would try to rub myself while riding and possibly out myself doing so ?
 
I understand. Do not hesitate if you need anything.

Edit : for those who may read this thread later, there is a really good episode of Zooier than Thou about therapy for zoos, https://zoo.wtf/s3e3-get-help/ (I really recommand it, especially the Hani Miletiski interview at 1 h 55'
 
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Why don't you stop looking at unrealistic porn and find yourself a beautiful canine companion with whom to share you life? It does not need to be sexual, you can have a deeply involved, platonic relationship, if you so choose. I think your listlessness and tidal emotions are because you watch porn, to which it is become immune. Were you to have your own companion you might find things change for you.
 
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