Ok thanks for the advice. I’m a sub so would want my dog to be in charge. I don’t ever really want to say no to his desires. My hope was we would have sex before I leave for work, after I get home from work, and every night before bed. Then on weekends when ever he shows a sign I’ll just submit. I would just be worried if we are in a situation I can’t just submit he might freak out, get aggressive.you simply set up boundaries like you would with anything else, dogs aren't stupid. they also don't get "raging hard-on" or anything of the sort when they believe sex is about to happen, making it kinda easy to play unwanted behavior off as "he's just playful" before they understand said boundaries. most ppl don't seem to be very observant of "zooey" stuff, it's not like they'd immediately go with "omg you two fuck!" if he tries something at inappropriate time.
This is not the brightest idea. Sex is about 10% of what you are going to be doing with your dog. In the 90% of the rest you mostly want you to be in charge unless you accept that your dog might get hurt.I’m a sub so would want my dog to be in charge.
You do, because there are situations when you simply can not suck your dog off. Like when you have your family visiting. And refusal of sex is a normal everyday occurrence for any dog trying to mount a non interested female dog.I don’t ever really want to say no to his desires.
You can do that, I used to do that since my dog then falls asleep and that helps when you need to leave for a long time.My hope was we would have sex before I leave for work
3 times a day might be too often for some dogs.My hope was we would have sex before I leave for work, after I get home from work, and every night before bed.
Then drop the submission BS and treat your dog as an equal. Both of you having the ability to ask for or refuse sex.I would just be worried if we are in a situation I can’t just submit he might freak out, get aggressive.
Thanks for your input. I just want him to be satisfied all the time. My sexual desires aren’t as important to me as his. If I want sex I’m fine if he doesn’t I would never force him like that. It’s all about him. But if he wants sex I feel it’s my job to give it to him. I like the idea of before work because he can mark me as his before I leave. I like the idea of the second I come through the door after work he can mount me and take me as his. And before bed we can make it romantic right before we sleep. I’m satisfied if he’s satisfied. That’s what being a sub is all about. I think you might have a different opinion on that.This is not the brightest idea. Sex is about 10% of what you are going to be doing with your dog. In the 90% of the rest you mostly want you to be in charge unless you accept that your dog might get hurt.
You do, because there are situations when you simply can not suck your dog off. Like when you have your family visiting. And refusal of sex is a normal everyday occurrence for any dog trying to mount a non interested female dog.
You can do that, I used to do that since my dog then falls asleep and that helps when you need to leave for a long time.
3 times a day might be too often for some dogs.
Then drop the submission BS and treat your dog as an equal. Both of you having the ability to ask for or refuse sex.
You will see how much practical this is or is not in real life. In my opinion it is not.That’s what being a sub is all about.
Ohh ok, that’s a great idea. That way he knows when it’s on the table or not. Thanks!My bf’s pups are very pushy with me. I’m sub with my bf but it’s totally carried over to his pups. Ur better off have a certain outfit or something like a blanket that tells ur pup it’s ok.