Still a virgin here, but my best orgasms are with a fleshlight, the best I've had so far was with a Bad Dragon Mary, it was pretty good I'd say, nothing insane, but pretty good. I've been trying to have a prostate orgasm for a while now but haven't had any luck, anal play just sorta feels right to me. I've been going at it for probably half a year now, but I have so few opportunities to actually practice, that I don't think it's getting enough stimulation. Does anyone have any tips? Do you have to refrain from masturbating for a while for it to be achievable?