How do you find fellow lifestyle friends?!?!

[rydersup]

Question to the community on how you all have had success (or embarrassing failures), in wanting to find fellow lifestyle playmates?
Would love to hear your approaches!

Also does this lifestyle have a subtle but universal symbol to identify our fetish?
Like the pineapple for swingers
Queen of spade for girls loving bbc
Anklet for the hotwife
Etc

 

[Yuri1944]

1. Be an interesting person someone would like to meet
2. Be nice and helpful on the forum
3. Get to know some people on the forum from your area

 

[Estafantom]

Also for most zoophiles it's not a fetish nor a lifestyle, it's a sexuality