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Pengy-gsd

Pengy-gsd

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So as above? How did you bring it up?

I am kinda in a "fun" phase.. so browsing tinder etc chatting to boys.. How do you bring it up?

I have had some luck with guys, joking about just dogs or theirs and just see... how they react to a little suggestive emojis.. Worked with some.. failed masisvly with others..

You?
 
Pengy-gsd said:
So as above? How did you bring it up?

I am kinda in a "fun" phase.. so browsing tinder etc chatting to boys.. How do you bring it up?

I have had some luck with guys, joking about just dogs or theirs and just see... how they react to a little suggestive emojis.. Worked with some.. failed masisvly with others..

You?
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I have yet to have the courage to bring it up with someone in person or how!
 
Pengy-gsd said:
So as above? How did you bring it up?

I am kinda in a "fun" phase.. so browsing tinder etc chatting to boys.. How do you bring it up?

I have had some luck with guys, joking about just dogs or theirs and just see... how they react to a little suggestive emojis.. Worked with some.. failed masisvly with others..

You?
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Mentioning this in casual conversation is fairly dangerous. Things can go from “just a chat” to “I’m being investigated by the authorities” really quickly, and unless you want the latter, I would be very careful about what you share and to whom.

You should be very certain that who you are broaching this topic with is someone you can trust, with whom you preferably have many years of history together so as to minimize the possibility of your life leaving the rails as much as possible.
 
Pengy-gsd said:
So as above? How did you bring it up?

I am kinda in a "fun" phase.. so browsing tinder etc chatting to boys.. How do you bring it up?

I have had some luck with guys, joking about just dogs or theirs and just see... how they react to a little suggestive emojis.. Worked with some.. failed masisvly with others..

You?
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I think guys handle it pretty well when a girl is a bit assertive. Even if it's a dog. Many are afraid that the secret will be revealed. It is also punished in many countries. It is incomprehensible to me that such a thing exists. Where I live, people don't make a big deal out of it either, and I'm sure that many others besides me sometimes do something like that. However, the authorities do not really care about such things.
 
I also would be cautious with revealing I am a zoosexual. In fact, I wouldn't mention it outside forums like this one. I also don't like to drop hints because those are easily misinterpreted, and you never know if/when those people are going to use this tidbit of info about you for their own gain. I like to think it's different when you approach the matter of zoosexuality in general ("what do you think about it?") but even there I cannot be sure.
 
It is definitely a slippery slope. You can hint at certain things that might lead you to further clues but it is always so dangerous to take it too far with someone you are not 100% positive you are reading them correctly and even then I'm guessing 95% of people have a hard time admitting it even if they are into it for the same fear you have of being "exposed". That's why it is so helpful to have this community where we can all feel a little more at ease and can honestly have conversations about our true feelings.
 
I am trying to do just that with someone I think might have confessed to being zoo. I plan to continue to try to make random jokes and see where it goes.
 
When you're both comfy with each other, the "what are your most taboo turn ons?" Pillow talk convo is always a fun way of finding out, especially if you make it clear, regardless of what the other says, no judgement.

You'd be amazed what people are curious about, and can admit in a safe n trusting environment.
 
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