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dirtbikeguy

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Hello,
I’m new here and maybe there has been some discussion in the past so I apologize if I missed something.
My question is this:
How do I meet woman in my area that are interested in this and want to connect?

I have been fascinated by this lifestyle for many years and I want to meet some women that share my enthusiasm. My long time girlfriend was willing to try but changed her mind and now I’m even more desperate to experience this. I would love to talk to some women and make some connections. I wish there was something like Tinder for people like us.
 
how does your girlfriend no longer wanting to try relate to you wanting to experience "this"? would she simply not approve of you trying or is "this" actually just watching her get railed by an animal (effectively making you nothing like "us")?
and why are you looking to meet a woman into "this"? are you looking to dump your "long-time girlfriend" over "this"? go behind her back maybe?
 
I want to experience this lifestyle with her. We were both interested and started to play with it but then she said no more and I still wanted us to keep going. Now we are not together anymore because I want a different lifestyle than she does.
 
dirtbikeguy said:
Hello,
I’m new here and maybe there has been some discussion in the past so I apologize if I missed something.
My question is this:
How do I meet woman in my area that are interested in this and want to connect?

I have been fascinated by this lifestyle for many years and I want to meet some women that share my enthusiasm. My long time girlfriend was willing to try but changed her mind and now I’m even more desperate to experience this. I would love to talk to some women and make some connections. I wish there was something like Tinder for people like us.
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Certainly, you've posted in the personals section of this site, right?
I am sorry about this, but other than that, prepare to spend the rest of your life without such a lady. Concentrate on finding a nice non-zoo. You'll be happier, and free to experience zoo on your own.
 
dirtbikeguy said:
Thank you for your honesty. It’s definitely a difficult desire to chase. I think it’s one of those situations that has to organically happen by chance, but does not 99.9% of the time.
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You nailed it down right there very well. I wish more people realized that. It hurts my heart to see people so unhappy over that.
 
Ok so I'm going to just be straight forward with you and give you what's worked for me and let me just say that what I have to say has worked for me almost flawlessly and I've had great success with it. However just because it has worked for me does in no way mean it will work for you but if you want a woman in your life that's open to it or who does it this is how I've gone about it and 80% of women I have dated were either into it already or I got them into it. This might be long so I apologize in advance. Here's the steps...
1) Be honest with yourself in regards to what you actually want. How often you really want it and a huge key is does the desire come from you or is it inspired by porn? If it's porn inspired then just stick to porn because you already have a picture in your head of what you want or expect and it's not right to hold another human being to your fantasy and want them to live up to your expectations. It's not healthy it's not loving and it's not going to work. However if it's of the former move on to step two.

2) Be brave and be humble and be confident. Come right out of the gate and be honest. Here's an example. ( I really like you a lot I think you are absolutely wonderful and I have enjoyed my time with you I'd like to see where things can go between us but I need to be honest with you as to not waste your time or mine. I have a kink that is very important to me and if I'm going to be with somebody I'd want to feel safe in sharing with them who I am and what I like so there are no secrets and we can start from a place of openness and honesty) then comes step 3 the hardest step you will ever take.

3) you tell her. You be honest and open and venerable but remain confident and you tell her you enjoy watching that kind of porn that it's amazing to you how it makes you feel and that you hope she will be understanding. She will do one of three things. Run, tell you she's fine with it just don't expect her to watch it with you or do it, or she will say ok thank you for telling me and that will be it. In two of those reactions you have your answer already. The third shows that she wants you for you which is more important then your desire to have her do it and hold on to her because thats rare in itself.

4) and now comes step 4 introducing it to her or asking her if she's ever done anything like it. Start with videos explain what you like what you don't and be encouraging but most importantly be her safe person. No woman will ever put herself in a extremely taboo situation if she doesn't feel she can trust you or trust the relationship is going to last.
 
BeastOmatix said:
Ok so I'm going to just be straight forward with you and give you what's worked for me and let me just say that what I have to say has worked for me almost flawlessly and I've had great success with it. However just because it has worked for me does in no way mean it will work for you but if you want a woman in your life that's open to it or who does it this is how I've gone about it and 80% of women I have dated were either into it already or I got them into it. This might be long so I apologize in advance. Here's the steps...
1) Be honest with yourself in regards to what you actually want. How often you really want it and a huge key is does the desire come from you or is it inspired by porn? If it's porn inspired then just stick to porn because you already have a picture in your head of what you want or expect and it's not right to hold another human being to your fantasy and want them to live up to your expectations. It's not healthy it's not loving and it's not going to work. However if it's of the former move on to step two.

2) Be brave and be humble and be confident. Come right out of the gate and be honest. Here's an example. ( I really like you a lot I think you are absolutely wonderful and I have enjoyed my time with you I'd like to see where things can go between us but I need to be honest with you as to not waste your time or mine. I have a kink that is very important to me and if I'm going to be with somebody I'd want to feel safe in sharing with them who I am and what I like so there are no secrets and we can start from a place of openness and honesty) then comes step 3 the hardest step you will ever take.

3) you tell her. You be honest and open and venerable but remain confident and you tell her you enjoy watching that kind of porn that it's amazing to you how it makes you feel and that you hope she will be understanding. She will do one of three things. Run, tell you she's fine with it just don't expect her to watch it with you or do it, or she will say ok thank you for telling me and that will be it. In two of those reactions you have your answer already. The third shows that she wants you for you which is more important then your desire to have her do it and hold on to her because thats rare in itself.

4) and now comes step 4 introducing it to her or asking her if she's ever done anything like it. Start with videos explain what you like what you don't and be encouraging but most importantly be her safe person. No woman will ever put herself in a extremely taboo situation if she doesn't feel she can trust you or trust the relationship is going to last.
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This should be in a sticky and not leave the top of the board.

It is hard explaining this to someone who is newly into it or young because it has taken 2+ decades for me to perfect my approach. With confidence mixed with a sprinkle of humility (to not seem arrogant) this will be a very successful and rewarding lifestyle.
 
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Jdoggy said:
This should be in a sticky and not leave the tip of the board.

It is hard explaining this to someone who is newly into it or young because it has taken 2+ decades for me to perfect my approach. With confidence mixed with a sprinkle of humility (to not seem arrogant) this will be a very successful and rewarding lifestyle.
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Exactly people need to get out of their fantasy and take a risk and be real with who they are and what they want. If you start off out of greed it's going to end badly. Women are not objects they deserve love and a good man to help them be who they want to be and be a safe person for them to play and experiment. To get what I wanted I had to be open to her desires also now I have a wicked cuckolding kink ? haha but you know what I tried it I liked it and I'm happy I was open to her suggestions and her wants just like she was mine. We are no longer together but we are both better after the fact because of being open minded people.
 
In my experience, it's been my best approach to let dogsluts find me, and the best possible tool for doing that is a very visually appealing walking advertisement for dog cock.
 
Me, personally? I walk the dog. A LOT. All the time, everywhere, as often as possible. I travel for work, so I have to walk the dog anyway right? So, kill 2 birds with one stone. Get him his exercise AND allow whatever dogsluts are out and about see the dog.

Your dog is your best statement. In fact, depending on who YOU are, it might be best if the dog does ALL the talking, lol. Some people just can't talk to the opposite sex, some can barely talk to anyone, and that's more and more common these days, so, for some, it's best you just shut the fuck up and let the dog do the work and you reap the rewards.

For others, the dog is STILL a powerful conversation piece.

For instance, a plain dude, even a less visually appealing dude without a dog is by himself most of the time. That same dude holding a dog leash is talking to females, randomly, sometimes NOT so randomly......it's known and proven over and over and over again. Use it to your benefit.
 
No. And not what I implied. Also not rocket science or some arcane magic. It's more or less the same way you pick up females attracted to motorcycles or guys that ride them. Get a motorcycle and ride the fucking thing. There are differences in the details, but the fundamentals are the same in basic.
 
Dogdaddy69 said:
No. And not what I implied. Also not rocket science or some arcane magic. It's more or less the same way you pick up females attracted to motorcycles or guys that ride them. Get a motorcycle and ride the fucking thing. There are differences in the details, but the fundamentals are the same in basic.
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It's the darnedest thing, but I can't seem to get my dog over about 30mph, or out of first gear.
 
HammerTongs said:
It's the darnedest thing, but I can't seem to get my dog over about 30mph, or out of first gear.
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Mine is stuck in second with a loose rear ??

Dogdaddy69 said:
Me, personally? I walk the dog. A LOT. All the time, everywhere, as often as possible. I travel for work, so I have to walk the dog anyway right? So, kill 2 birds with one stone. Get him his exercise AND allow whatever dogsluts are out and about see the dog.

Your dog is your best statement. In fact, depending on who YOU are, it might be best if the dog does ALL the talking, lol. Some people just can't talk to the opposite sex, some can barely talk to anyone, and that's more and more common these days, so, for some, it's best you just shut the fuck up and let the dog do the work and you reap the rewards.

For others, the dog is STILL a powerful conversation piece.

For instance, a plain dude, even a less visually appealing dude without a dog is by himself most of the time. That same dude holding a dog leash is talking to females, randomly, sometimes NOT so randomly......it's known and proven over and over and over again. Use it to your benefit.
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THIS THIS!! I take my doberman pinchers to tractor supply and the attention is unreal. 99.9% chance none of them are zoo but they are on him like wet on pussy.

My advice is that this simply involves the easiest conversation imaginable, "THE DOG".. He is your creature and all you have to do is answer their 5 or 6 canned questions about HIM.. Dont be nervous and focus on what they're saying so you can answer accordingly, then suddenly, they realize you're paying them attention. That is rare but an attractant for every human being. Let them lead because you are not there, it's the pooch NOT YOU. If they ease around with you in casual conversation then your hook may be set. Patients though because they won't be jacking off Fido yet! That takes things called dates and feeling out the MyStErIoUs other sex.

Society has been disconnected for nearly 20 years now so not speaking much is not uncommon but rather common. A quick chat with confident body posture goes miles! Trust me when I say, thinking about things will kill it so don't.

BeastOmatix said:
And they just say nice dog I wanna fuck it? Lol
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Straight up asking is desperate and seemingly weak because children ask for things. There IS NO book that can guide you. Even if they fuck 2 GSDs every night and actively have dog spunk running down their thigh they will reject that because it has 'honeypot' and 'please please please' written all over it! Women (not speaking for all) seem to be connected to the primitive side of being used and fucked by an animal unable to show empathy. The love and emotions for her come along with that but I said what I said.

Now let's see if they bash me??. Some women will read this, agree and move on without comment then some disagree and call me a loonie. Guess what, each and everyone of them are right because NOONE is the same ?‍♂️
 
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Jdoggy said:
Mine is stuck in second with a loose rear ??



THIS THIS!! I take my doberman pinchers to tractor supply and the attention is unreal. 99.9% chance none of them are zoo but they are on him like wet on pussy.

My advice is that this simply involves the easiest conversation imaginable, "THE DOG".. He is your creature and all you have to do is answer their 5 or 6 canned questions about HIM.. Dont be nervous and focus on what they're saying so you can answer accordingly, then suddenly, they realize you're paying them attention. That is rare but an attractant for every human being. Let them lead because you are not there, it's the pooch NOT YOU. If they ease around with you in casual conversation then your hook may be set. Patients though because they won't be jacking off Fido yet! That takes things called dates and feeling out the MyStErIoUs other sex.

Society has been disconnected for nearly 20 years now so not speaking much is not uncommon but rather common. A quick chat with confident body posture goes miles! Trust me when I say, thinking about things will kill it so don't.



Straight up asking is desperate and seemingly weak because children ask for things. There IS NO book that can guide you. Even if they fuck 2 GSDs every night and actively have dog spunk running down their thigh they will reject that because it has 'honeypot' and 'please please please' written all over it! Women (not speaking for all) seem to be connected to the primitive side of being used and fucked by an animal unable to show empathy. The love and emotions for her come along with that but I said what I said.

Now let's see if they bash me??. Some women will read this, agree and move on without comment then some disagree and call me a loonie. Guess what, each and everyone of them are right because NOONE is the same ?‍♂️
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Spot on. And, it IS a hard question to answer in specifics because people, every individual, are different, so no 2 situations are ever the same. The best answer, by definition, is going to be very, very general and very basic because the details, like the people, are always going to be different.

BUT, they way you answered, and did so, in different ways, from different directions is as spot on as any answer to this question can be.

Particularly the part where you point out that straight out asking is simply NOT happening. And if it does, it's because it's right for THAT situation and no other. I HAVE had a situation or 2 that way, but not before a LOT of other things had taken place that make it possible. And, in any other kind of scenario where those kinds of things have taken place, you're right, she could be dripping dog cum down her leg at the time you say it and it's getting shot down because that's a level of familiarity that YOU (me, the guy) are NOT entitled to participate in with her. That has to be earned, one way or the other, it has to be earned. And how that happens varies by individuals.

The problem with even attempting to answer this kind of question is that there ARE no answers really, and at the same time, there are a million different answers.
 
Dogdaddy69 said:
Spot on. And, it IS a hard question to answer in specifics because people, every individual, are different, so no 2 situations are ever the same. The best answer, by definition, is going to be very, very general and very basic because the details, like the people, are always going to be different.

BUT, they way you answered, and did so, in different ways, from different directions is as spot on as any answer to this question can be.

Particularly the part where you point out that straight out asking is simply NOT happening. And if it does, it's because it's right for THAT situation and no other. I HAVE had a situation or 2 that way, but not before a LOT of other things had taken place that make it possible. And, in any other kind of scenario where those kinds of things have taken place, you're right, she could be dripping dog cum down her leg at the time you say it and it's getting shot down because that's a level of familiarity that YOU (me, the guy) are NOT entitled to participate in with her. That has to be earned, one way or the other, it has to be earned. And how that happens varies by individuals.

The problem with even attempting to answer this kind of question is that there ARE no answers really, and at the same time, there are a million different answers.
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As crappy as it seems on the surface, the pickup community has techniques that literally work on *anyone*. If you're not incompetent at applying them.
 
I still need to figure out how to get my dog up to at least 45.

I hear these guys talking about their cows and their hogs, I know a dog can outrun a cow...
 
(For the non biker folk, a cow is a Kawasaki, a hog is a Harley. Husqvarna makes bikes, and they are occasionally called Huskies)
 
Really I think finding someone in real life is probably easier than online. Not that you necessarily meant online, but that is what most people think of when it comes to meeting taboo people as it seems easier due to how many people you can find in one place and from locations not in your immediate local area. Many kinky and taboo people aren't on these sites or other fetish sites, especially women who tend to be much more reserved about their sexuality compared to men who are happy to just throw it all out there. Obviously not all women, but just a general rule.

The places to meet kinky people online have way more men because of this, and the small number of women are usually getting gangbanged with PMs and comments, etc, from guys, or even harassment, sometimes to the point that they just completely ignore messages or stop getting online. Standing out among all the other guys online is really hard, sometimes it isn't even possible to get the chance to show if you are different or interesting. In real life you are in person, you see each other exactly how you look, you hear each other, and communicating is much easier and meaningful. There is a lot that is missed with text based communication. Not only that but being in person leads people to engage more. You may be a person who would be completely ignored online, but in person are very intriguing.

This is not to say it is impossible to find a woman online that is perfect for you and has all your kinks, as I know people who have found that, but that it is a lot harder than it sounds, and likewise finding someone in person is probably easier than it sounds. One of the kinkiest chicks I have known (still not sure if she is into zoo or anything like that, but we have talked about bad dragon toys and me wanting some, but not specifically the animal ones) I met in person. We hit it off well and kinda drifted into talking about sex overtime and when we were actually dating we talked about it a lot and I would just push a little more each time to be a bit kinkier in what I said I liked. It was truly one of the best experiences I've had with someone and is probably a factor in why I am still crazy about her (many more reasons, but that's all a long and unrelated story). The second kinkiest chick I have known who was also into zoo and more I sorta met online, more like she went to the same school as me and I knew of her and friended her on Myspace (pretty sure it was myspace, it was quite a while back) and saw she was a bit open about sexuality so I messaged her and started talking (didn't work out for a number of reasons). Probably the most kinky one I have known in the real world was also sorta online, but she found me and started talking to me, so it wasn't me pursuing her. That also didn't work out for a few different reasons...which you may have caught onto a pattern here: just because you do find a perfect sexual match it doesn't mean that it will be a sustainable or worthwhile relationship. If all you are looking for is sex, then it may be easier, but you are likely not to find that very satisfying as usually when people are just looking for sex they aren't looking to make friends or to be long term sex partners, they are looking for excitement and experiences.
 
upgrayeddd said:
Really I think finding someone in real life is probably easier than online. Not that you necessarily meant online, but that is what most people think of when it comes to meeting taboo people as it seems easier due to how many people you can find in one place and from locations not in your immediate local area. Many kinky and taboo people aren't on these sites or other fetish sites, especially women who tend to be much more reserved about their sexuality compared to men who are happy to just throw it all out there. Obviously not all women, but just a general rule.

The places to meet kinky people online have way more men because of this, and the small number of women are usually getting gangbanged with PMs and comments, etc, from guys, or even harassment, sometimes to the point that they just completely ignore messages or stop getting online. Standing out among all the other guys online is really hard, sometimes it isn't even possible to get the chance to show if you are different or interesting. In real life you are in person, you see each other exactly how you look, you hear each other, and communicating is much easier and meaningful. There is a lot that is missed with text based communication. Not only that but being in person leads people to engage more. You may be a person who would be completely ignored online, but in person are very intriguing.

This is not to say it is impossible to find a woman online that is perfect for you and has all your kinks, as I know people who have found that, but that it is a lot harder than it sounds, and likewise finding someone in person is probably easier than it sounds. One of the kinkiest chicks I have known (still not sure if she is into zoo or anything like that, but we have talked about bad dragon toys and me wanting some, but not specifically the animal ones) I met in person. We hit it off well and kinda drifted into talking about sex overtime and when we were actually dating we talked about it a lot and I would just push a little more each time to be a bit kinkier in what I said I liked. It was truly one of the best experiences I've had with someone and is probably a factor in why I am still crazy about her (many more reasons, but that's all a long and unrelated story). The second kinkiest chick I have known who was also into zoo and more I sorta met online, more like she went to the same school as me and I knew of her and friended her on Myspace (pretty sure it was myspace, it was quite a while back) and saw she was a bit open about sexuality so I messaged her and started talking (didn't work out for a number of reasons). Probably the most kinky one I have known in the real world was also sorta online, but she found me and started talking to me, so it wasn't me pursuing her. That also didn't work out for a few different reasons...which you may have caught onto a pattern here: just because you do find a perfect sexual match it doesn't mean that it will be a sustainable or worthwhile relationship. If all you are looking for is sex, then it may be easier, but you are likely not to find that very satisfying as usually when people are just looking for sex they aren't looking to make friends or to be long term sex partners, they are looking for excitement and experiences.
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Well said. And, pretty spot on. I may just be old, and as a result, *old school*....but because there was no "online" when I first started talking to females and flirting with, etc that all had to be done face to face and I'm at my most comfortable IN that setting to be honest, because it's familiar to me, and for all the reasons you listed too. I DO think it's easier to meet females in person, because of all the things you listed.

Online, to me, has ONE main advantage over face to face....I'm anonymous online, and not so much face to face. And, to be fairly honest about it, that's *almost* as big a negative as a positive in a lot of ways. Because I might also be this nameless, faceless killer too. I get that, and god knows there have been enough instances to make that idea fairly prevalent over the years. I think over all, the anonymous aspect just allows people to get to the extremes faster for LACK of fear about exposure as some deviant. I don't think it makes things better, just maybe faster to the deviance, lol.

But, you are totally spot on in regards to how big a factor an interest in K9 is to the BIG picture. You want to get laid in the manner you want? Then none of that other shit really matters, it's all about getting off. But, when it comes to anything that might last, this isn't a key point in the relationship, is it? If that person does this ONE thing, but you can't stand anything else about them, what have you got? Nothing but this one thing. You going to give up ALL the other stuff for this one thing? You might, but I doubt that makes you very happy.
 
dirtbikeguy said:
Hello,
I’m new here and maybe there has been some discussion in the past so I apologize if I missed something.
My question is this:
How do I meet woman in my area that are interested in this and want to connect?

I have been fascinated by this lifestyle for many years and I want to meet some women that share my enthusiasm. My long time girlfriend was willing to try but changed her mind and now I’m even more desperate to experience this. I would love to talk to some women and make some connections. I wish there was something like Tinder for people like us.
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hey im F into this!!
 
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