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How did you do it? You and your S/O

Turbosnaail

Turbosnaail

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How did you meet your significant other and how did you introduce them to your zoo life? Since loosing mine ive always wondered if a normal relationship would work or not or how to even bring the subject up. Much love?
 
Introducing a human who is non zoo to the fact that you are zoo almost never works out. If you're lucky you don't get brought up on charges. Often separation, often with hurt feelings. Human relationships are extremely difficult as is and when you add this to that it is just a mine field. Even two zoos together can struggle, even just as friends living together sometimes. Most that are in human relationships where one is not zoo and "make it work" do so by not saying anything. Which often involves lying also.
Best recommendation is to find out how the other person feels about it in an indirect way first and go from there. But still not an easy task to balance everything and it takes an uncommon individual to be okay and secure with such things.
 
It seems hard to balance the real friend from my actual *fur* family like sure i want to live a normal life but i want actual accepting friends or significant other
 
And thus the burden of being a part of a group that is persecuted and has to hide to protect themselves and those they love. However what you can do is decide to let people care about you how they are able. If someone can not handle that part of you but loves the rest of you. Then be their friend and don't burden them with that choice. Who and how you love is important to you and your lover or lovers. The rest don't need to know to be your friend and more importantly for you to be theirs.
As far as the significance other if they are human. That is a much more complicated issue and no one single solution exists.
 
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