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How did it... End ?

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Wachtel

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Hey

I saw a lot of threads and questions about the beginning, people wondering how it start for the other...

But I didn't see if some people make the choice of stopping activities with animals

Did it happens for some of you?

I remember a guy I know who has a gf, he was having sex with his dog but when she passes away, he never take a dog again, saying it was a cool part of his life but since he didn't want to share this secret with this gf he just... Stop
 
For those who explore this part of themselves, and want to stop, they usually stop completely. They cut ties with people they were talking to, they sell their animals sometimes, and they stop posting, they feel like the desires are dirty, or sinful, and they choose to go a different way. That's their right to do, and everyone has their own journey. It's up to us, as a community, and as decent human beings, to respect their decisions and to keep our distance when they make that choice.

I had a wonderful friend who told me over and over, that his conversations with me were the highest point of his day, but that he couldn't risk ever actually acting on his desires for canines, or he would be "ruined" for his future partners. I keep wondering what happened with him, but he was adamant about stopping all contact completely.
 
You raised a very important issue. I guess you have to mentally mature to it, go further, the knot is that it is very spinning, it's like an impulse to orgasm physically and mentally.
I don't know myself, I don't hide that it's a rotten part of my nature. I don't want to offend anyone, I'm just writing this about myself.

If I meet someone for whom it will be worth quitting this lifestyle, it will be true love.

Someday I'll get over it, I'm sure.

Then and only then will I say... Stop
 
nekdoneco123 said:
would be kinda odd to find someone who really stopped around here, wouldn't it?
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Not really, I think we can found someone who's thinking about stopping, who is not sure about himeself, his desires, the lifestyle etc...
Also, I guess that some people make distance with all that but can be here to "keep an eye" or maybe waiting to make a decision

Kusaragi said:
For those who explore this part of themselves, and want to stop, they usually stop completely. They cut ties with people they were talking to, they sell their animals sometimes, and they stop posting, they feel like the desires are dirty, or sinful, and they choose to go a different way. That's their right to do, and everyone has their own journey. It's up to us, as a community, and as decent human beings, to respect their decisions and to keep our distance when they make that choice.

I had a wonderful friend who told me over and over, that his conversations with me were the highest point of his day, but that he couldn't risk ever actually acting on his desires for canines, or he would be "ruined" for his future partners. I keep wondering what happened with him, but he was adamant about stopping all contact completely.
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Trully interessting, thanks for your answer
 
Kusaragi said:
For those who explore this part of themselves, and want to stop, they usually stop completely. They cut ties with people they were talking to, they sell their animals sometimes, and they stop posting, they feel like the desires are dirty, or sinful, and they choose to go a different way. That's their right to do, and everyone has their own journey. It's up to us, as a community, and as decent human beings, to respect their decisions and to keep our distance when they make that choice.

I had a wonderful friend who told me over and over, that his conversations with me were the highest point of his day, but that he couldn't risk ever actually acting on his desires for canines, or he would be "ruined" for his future partners. I keep wondering what happened with him, but he was adamant about stopping all contact completely.
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It’s me
 
nekdoneco123 said:
would be kinda odd to find someone who really stopped around here, wouldn't it?
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Guess I'm kinda odd, then.

But it's only been over 30 years, so maybe not really stopped (ask me again after I'm dead).

I didn't make the choice to stop, I just lost the opportunity to continue. I gained the opportunity to reflect on my experiences and what my partners had shared with me in order to grow.

I am thankful for the past but do not need to repeat it.
 
beast2732 said:
It will end when I'm dead.
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My sentiments exactly. Zero desire to stop being who i am, if it were even possible to itd be rather lonely considering im exclusive. That is someone who is only attracted to dogs romantically/sexually will be until im six foot under
 
The only person that immediately springs to mind that just plain dropped out of the zoo sphere never to be seen again was someone I knew on Skype many many years ago. I've told this story before, but...

He and his zoo wife/gf/partner/etc. (I think it was wife, but it's been years) had a nasty separation/divorce. She decided to out him on FaceBook as a zoophile. While he could have done the very same to her, he didn't. But during their separation she took the dogs with her and denied him seeing them again. He eventually got his life back on track for the most part, and he decided to get a female husky. But as it turned out, the breeder that sold her to him lied, and she was actually spayed. It was shortly after finding that out that he messaged our friend group, basically told us "I'm no longer a zoophile." and cut contact with everyone, and was basically never heard from again. It was kind of a shitty situation all around.
 
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