Thanks I don’t want to be to obvious but I still want to give them signals I want to try you know.Spend years getting to know someone AS A PERSON, and if and when THEY feel comfortable, THEY can OFFER to let you near their animal.
I wouldn't give signals to any random owner unless you know a 100% sure they feel the same. Trust me, i've had so many people tell me they're open-minded and they wanna know my deepest fantasies and they don't have any limits and nothing can scare them away, just block me instantly when i mentioned anything zoo related. Never doing that again no matter how good the click is we're having..Thanks I don’t want to be to obvious but I still want to give them signals I want to try you know.
Understood. Thank you ?Here’s some advice that has worked for me, when approaching a potential owner (like me), ask a lot of questions and be prepared to answer quite a bit.
And the questions should not be “how big is your dog’s dick”
Make sense. Thanks for the commentI would recommend a mindset shift. I totally understand the intense desire to have a real experience, but you would probably be best served to view this as a long-term goal rather than a short-term one. While I couldn’t say it never happens, it is virtually never the case that an owner is out here looking for someone who wants to satisfy their curiosity. That is due to what could be fairly argued good judgment. Shifting your mindset will help you have more realistic expectations and avoid frustration. It would benefit you to understand that for an owner, a seeker is like a weed; they just keep popping up everywhere you look. If you’re not interested in the work and commitment of making your own dream a reality by becoming an owner for yourself, just know you are in a difficult position to get the experience you want. It’s not like it can’t happen, but it’s also not necessarily likely either. Many seekers on here have been wanting for many years. Like others said, focus on getting to know the community, connecting with the people. If an opportunity follows from that then great, but it won’t get you any closer to your goal to make it a focus of your interactions with people here.
As an owner, I'd have to trust the person seeking with my life because that's what's at stake. I'd need to care about them so much and want to give them that experience myself so badly that I want to take that risk. It would be even harder because without animals how do I tell if someone is legitimate and if their thoughts and treatment of animals is as good as mine? I'm also not looking to meet zoo friends because long term my zoo friendships look the same as regular friendships. The zoo part rarely gets discussed. There's a point early on where they know my animals, what I do with them, and it just gets repetitive. So might as well befriend non-zoos.I
never thought about it like that but make sense but still I wish to find a nice owner who can trust meAs an owner, I'd have to trust the person seeking with my life because that's what's at stake. I'd need to care about them so much and want to give them that experience myself so badly that I want to take that risk. It would be even harder because without animals how do I tell if someone is legitimate and if their thoughts and treatment of animals is as good as mine? I'm also not looking to meet zoo friends because long term my zoo friendships look the same as regular friendships. The zoo part rarely gets discussed. There's a point early on where they know my animals, what I do with them, and it just gets repetitive. So might as well befriend non-zoos.