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Hiding zoo from partner.

Lickmypussy

Lickmypussy

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I'm just wondering if there are people who hide their desires from their spouse? How do you find time for your desires? My dog has been begging to eat me out. But my spouse is always around. He doesn't know about this. I'm afraid if he found out he would out me to everyone I know. So I want to keep it secret. But I also want my boy to get what he wants.
 
Lickmypussy said:
Im careful. I have debating just breaking up with him
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I sometimes wish I could go back in time and focus on finding someone I could share this life with. The truth is, you will feel alone in any relationship if you keep secrets. However, after seeing how many (most?) of the men act on here, you may have difficulty finding a decent partner here and I have no idea where else you could go.

The important thing is that this lifestyle exposes you to extreme risk. Just imagine every one you know and love knowing. Add being in jail or public court proceedings. I don't want to scare you off the idea of sharing your secret, but be very careful.
 
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Dirtyfarmer807 said:
I sometimes wish I could go back in time and focus on finding someone I could share this life with. The truth is, you will feel alone in any relationship if you keep secrets. However, after seeing how many (most?) of the men act on here, you may have difficulty finding a decent partner here and I have no idea where else you could go.

The important thing is that this lifestyle exposes you to extreme risk. Just imagine every one you know and love knowing. Add being in jail or public court proceedings. I don't want to scare you off the idea of sharing your secret, but be very careful.
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Not sharing this with him at all. I dont trust him nearly enough. I wish I coukd find someone into this. It would make me life so much easier.
 
I have been hiding my activities from my wife. I was sort of going through a quiet time in my zoo life as I had no real safe space with my animals to play. I was busy with work and life. It wasn't till my marriage got bad and having private yard with the horses I got back into things. I started at about 13.

I do wish I met someone I could of shared my secret with or even shared in the practice of it.

If you don't love him or trust him enough and you want someone more suitable don't start a new relationship from inside an old relationship.
 
Im sure it's already eating you up inside, and you say you can't trust him.
Relationships are meant to be built on trust.
Both of my long term relationships in life, including my past marriage were open honest and zoo. It feels great being able to be yourself and speak your mind on such subjects.
It's also very nice to share the experiences with someone you love and trust.
 
Lickmypussy said:
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Not sharing this with him at all. I dont trust him nearly enough. I wish I coukd find someone into this. It would make me life so much easier.
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Don't really have any real advice to give, just saying that sounds like a really ruff sport to be in life, and I hop you find a situation where you can be you're self.
 
MasterWhipYoAss said:
Im sure it's already eating you up inside, and you say you can't trust him.
Relationships are meant to be built on trust.
Both of my long term relationships in life, including my past marriage were open honest and zoo. It feels great being able to be yourself and speak your mind on such subjects.
It's also very nice to share the experiences with someone you love and trust.
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That's what I want. To share and not hide.
 
Lickmypussy said:
I'm just wondering if there are people who hide their desires from their spouse? How do you find time for your desires? My dog has been begging to eat me out. But my spouse is always around. He doesn't know about this. I'm afraid if he found out he would out me to everyone I know. So I want to keep it secret. But I also want my boy to get what he wants.
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Same, I know your pain. I have to keep it hidden from my partner. I tried bringing it up and even have animal themed toys, but it’s just a no-go.
She’s not a fan of pets either so I can’t exactly get a nice doggy and fulfil my desires alone.
As a whole, the partner is very kinky, just not in this way…So it’s very frustrating.

I’d say if you think that the partner will accept, then maybe bring up beast in conversation and see what the reaction is.
If not, you’ve always got like-minded people here. ☺️
 
Dark-Seducer said:
Same, I know your pain. I have to keep it hidden from my partner. I tried bringing it up and even have animal themed toys, but it’s just a no-go.
She’s not a fan of pets either so I can’t exactly get a nice doggy and fulfil my desires alone.
As a whole, the partner is very kinky, just not in this way…So it’s very frustrating.

I’d say if you think that the partner will accept, then maybe bring up beast in conversation and see what the reaction is.
If not, you’ve always got like-minded people here. ☺️
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He wouldn't understand he is too vanilla. I settled i think and I shouldn't have
 
Lickmypussy said:
He wouldn't understand he is too vanilla. I settled i think and I shouldn't have
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I hung out a while trying to find someone in to this… but people always come a long when you’re not looking (typical).

I guess there’s always the option of finding someone on the side who is into it… who has just as much to lose, so it stays purely kink without getting too emotional.

No partner is ever going to fulfil every kink or desire.. you settled with him for a reason, so maybe keep that going.

Just have a play with your dog maybe and then see how you feel.
 
Dark-Seducer said:
I hung out a while trying to find someone in to this… but people always come a long when you’re not looking (typical).

I guess there’s always the option of finding someone on the side who is into it… who has just as much to lose, so it stays purely kink without getting too emotional.

No partner is ever going to fulfil every kink or desire.. you settled with him for a reason, so maybe keep that going.

Just have a play with your dog maybe and then see how you feel.
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Every without the dog in play sexually he doesn't please me. But he was a safe option. I enjoy his company but at this point it's like roommate level
 
Lickmypussy said:
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Not sharing this with him at all. I dont trust him nearly enough. I wish I coukd find someone into this. It would make me life so much easier.
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If you don’t even consider the possibility of maybe trusting him you really need to reevaluate your relationship, relationships should be built on trust and love, not”how do I fuck the dog without him knowing”
 
Lickmypussy said:
Every without the dog in play sexually he doesn't please me. But he was a safe option. I enjoy his company but at this point it's like roommate level
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Ahh ok I get you, my ex was like that… eventually I ended it. We were even in separate rooms for months before I called time. If you aren’t even fulfilled normally, you’re gonna be miserable.

Just be cautious about who you open up to, but let your inner desires out. If I was you I’d be constantly at it with the dog.
 
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