Hey everyone! So glad I found this community of people into the same thing as I am. Been looking for a place like this for over 15years! I’m 35 years old and have been into watching Females being mounted and knotted since I was 15yo. I’ve always fantasized about watching in person but have never had the chance. I’ve been happily married to my wife of 16years, and we have always been open about trying new things in the bedroom. Our intimate bedroom life has never dwindled. Over the last week, I mustered up the courage after 15years to tell my wife about this fantasy. She was very great full that I was able to trust her enough to tell her something so private and personal. I have always trusted my wife, but it’s not something you just tell someone when you meet them or your buddies. So after I had told her this, she is still supportive of what I’m into but she has told me that it’s a no from her as far as trying. This really bummed me out, because she’s always been pretty open to things in the bedroom, and I plan on spending the rest of my life with her and knowing I will never be able to experience this really kind of breaks my heart. Has anyone ever been in a similar situation before? I’m wondering if there may be a way to convince her. Maybe watching some videos that aren’t to crazy to maybe get her turned on to the idea. Honestly I believe she may be afraid that she’s going to like it, but I may be speculating. Is it easier to be a man and convince or tell a wife/girlfriend or easier to be a woman and convince or tell a husband/boyfriend? Any advise or tips would be much appreciated, sorry this introduction was so long. Thanks for being here!
Hey All! thedman aka “Jay” from north Seattle wa
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Wander around the place for a while, and you'll trip over about 8.6 metric buttloads of "I wanna watch/How do I convince my <wife, girlfriend, husband, boyfriend, FWB, booty-call-buddy, etc> to fuck a <insert critter here>?" threads. And in all of them, you'll find that the straightest possible answer is "YOU DON'T - Not if you want to keep them as <wife, girlfriend, husband, boyfriend, FWB, booty-call-buddy, etc>"
You accept their "Nope, not interested, and you move on from there.
Try to keep in mind the reality that for the overwhelming majority, the idea of sex with an animal is something that's right up there with strangling puppies, poisoning grandma, raping 4 year olds, <insert your favorite metaphor describing "too disgusting to even think about, let alone speak of, or god forbid, actually DO here> all rolled into a single, ultra-disgusting package.
Put another way, she isn't the freak for not wanting to - *YOU* are the freak for wanting her to, and damn near all of society is going to agree with her stance. Trying to "talk her into it" is a damned fine way to find out you're talking to your EX-WIFE.
Wander around the place for a while, and you'll trip over about 8.6 metric buttloads of "I wanna watch/How do I convince my <wife, girlfriend, husband, boyfriend, FWB, booty-call-buddy, etc> to fuck a <insert critter here>?" threads. And in all of them, you'll find that the straightest possible answer is "YOU DON'T - Not if you want to keep them as <wife, girlfriend, husband, boyfriend, FWB, booty-call-buddy, etc>"
You accept their "Nope, not interested, and you move on from there.
Try to keep in mind the reality that for the overwhelming majority, the idea of sex with an animal is something that's right up there with strangling puppies, poisoning grandma, raping 4 year olds, <insert your favorite metaphor describing "too disgusting to even think about, let alone speak of, or god forbid, actually DO here> all rolled into a single, ultra-disgusting package.
Put another way, she isn't the freak for not wanting to - *YOU* are the freak for wanting her to, and damn near all of society is going to agree with her stance. Trying to "talk her into it" is a damned fine way to find out you're talking to your EX-WIFE.
Tha
Thanks for your advice and input! I appreciate it.
YanchaOkami
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
Yeah, no way to change the mindset of a person, neither the persons themself.
If they change, then out of their own interest and that interest resembles exactly which is missing here: interest in sexual activities with animals.
As such there's not much more than accepting it or searching for a partner which is into it as well (a task which is harder than accepting those small differences in interests, if all else runs well). If she's fine with porn consumption on your side, that's already a lot more than most partnerships could sustain. ?
Still a good thing that you both seem to be able to talk open about it without personal emotional conflicts appearing out of it.
If they change, then out of their own interest and that interest resembles exactly which is missing here: interest in sexual activities with animals.
As such there's not much more than accepting it or searching for a partner which is into it as well (a task which is harder than accepting those small differences in interests, if all else runs well). If she's fine with porn consumption on your side, that's already a lot more than most partnerships could sustain. ?
Still a good thing that you both seem to be able to talk open about it without personal emotional conflicts appearing out of it.