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Hi Everyone. I'm brand new to all this. For as long as I can remember I have felt a strong emotional and physical connection to dogs. However I have never acted on it. However, I discovered you guys today and it has given me courage to pursue my dreams. I was impressed how supportive everyone was to each other, and the fact that my feelings towards dogs are not unique. My question is this: how do I get started? UnfortunateIy the building I live in does not allow dogs. I would love some mentorship and to meet people in the community. I live in Illinois and Indiana. I would love to meet someone, guy or woman, who could help me on this new journey. I am excited to chat with some of you awesome people!
 
Start by including some basic personal info about you, no more than that, but you'll want to be talking to people who have similar interests as you, so your sexuality is a good place to start. Male, female, gay, straight, don't know, whatever.

And, if you're serious about it all and the possibility of reaching that goal, be active here, interact with folks, you don't have to post your inner self or anything that drastic, just interact with the community and give folks a taste of you the person. And, above all, try hard not to give the appearance of being super thirsty. Owners do tend to look at that as a GIANT red flag. You already have a decent start, by not nailing every personal ad within two hundred miles of you. Owners DO look at your post history because they want to see who you are and what you're about. And, it's the internet, so whatever you might be saying in a DM might just all be bullshit. But your post history is likely to give a much better picture.

That being said, they might tell people the same thing as what you're saying, and if so, that's only going to help you.

And, you'll have to unlock DMs before you can send them OR receive them, so you'll have to get 10 posts total and they unlock. Posts made in Fun & Games do not count, nor do posts to people's profiles.

Good Luck and Welcome to ZV. Have fun, stay safe.
 
Thanks so much. That is all incredibly wise advice which I will certainly follow. I know you will definitely be seeing more of me on the site. You rock and have an awesome profile name. Note to self-work on mine
 
NewbieforDogs said:
Thanks so much. That is all incredibly wise advice which I will certainly follow. I know you will definitely be seeing more of me on the site. You rock and have an awesome profile name. Note to self-work on mine
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We can read and understand yours, some have trouble with that part.....but, in fairness the one you have your heart set on is taken, you just start throwing stuff together and a bunch of them are taken too. Yours is understandable, so still good, lol.
 
There's a lot to see and read, a lot of stuff you can learn about, some pretty cool people to talk to, and some of the best amateur animal porn you're likely to see, all right here. It can be a fun place.
 
NewbieforDogs said:
My question is this: how do I get started? UnfortunateIy the building I live in does not allow dogs.
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Move or work to be able to move.

You have posted in the "zoo exclusive" section. Someone is said to be "zoo exclusive", if they are only attracted to non-human animals. Sometimes the term is also used a bit broader to include people who have decided to restrict their relationship to non-human animals, although their attraction also includes humans. Anyway, if someone is zoo exclusive and does not plan to practice physical and emotional celibacy, it makes sense that they mold their life in a way that allows them to share it with an own companion.

But maybe it's a misunderstanding? A considerable ratio of threads posted in the zoo exclusive section are not actually from zoo exclusive people. If you're not really sure and ready to share your life with a dog, then getting one just to fulfill an erotic dream would not be a good idea. Mind that even when you have an own dog, you are not guaranteed that the dog is interested in sex with you.

Apparently there are some people who have animals and want to see them engage sexually with others. But note that this is rare. Most people here who hope to be offered an opportunity with someone else's frisky four-legged friend look in vain. Also keep in mind that owners are unlikely to do this out of altruism – they probably want to watch or "help" or even expect more. But I guess there a few really nice guys and I wish you luck and everyone a good experience, in case you choose this way.

Another option is to make friends and be lucky that your friend doesn't bother, if their animals also enjoy some private time among friends. But don't try to go into a friendship with that expectation. You know, you wouldn't expect friends to share their human spouses either, would you? That expectation isn't a basis for a friendship. Yet some people live open relationships or like swinger parties, and some zoos are like that, too. So it is a possibility, though very rare.
 
Thank you for the advice. I did post in the wrong area. I was just so excited to be here. And I really appreciate you taking the time to write such a thoughtful and considered response. I have been considering the issues you address for a long time. If my experience with ZooVille is positive, I am probably moveing out of my building and into one that allows dogs. Thanks again
 
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