hisnastybitch
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hey I am a male 25, and I cum on average of 2 times a day. I am hyper-active to sex,, And I know its not good to my health. pls help me if anyone can help me to stop this .. thank you...
Help me,, Pls
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Hey bro, there isn't anything wrong with you. You are just young, dumb & full of cum! Don't worry, you're going to miss these days sooner than you think. There's nothing wrong with you unless it's affecting your daily life & if that's the case you probably need to talk with a psychologist.
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Kristy
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If it's nothing more than cumming twice a day, that, in and of itself, is not bad for your health. But, there's more to this you haven't mentioned. "Hyper-active to sex" is a subjective term. Please give me YOUR definition of it. Are you neglecting life responsibilities in favor of sex of some kind, porn, etc? That would be the more exact term of "sex addiction."
So please, tell more about the problem so you can be helped.
So please, tell more about the problem so you can be helped.
Why do you think it is not good for your health?
hisnastybitch
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just after cumming I have no problem .. but after like 2-3 hours my sex side start again... almost any, except gay... I love lesbian, beds,femdom, domination- to girls , bestiality , and many triggers me.. so I spend my day on them,, watching porn and finally coming again.
hisnastybitch
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I guess that is an average across all ages. I used to cum 4 times a day with absolutely no ill efects over long periods of time. Unless you feel physically ill or in pain I do not think there is anything wrong on jerking off two times a day.
Kristy
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"You spend your day on them." Is this every day without fail? Do you have family to attend to, job, schooling, home responsibilities, etc, you are neglecting during this time?
When I was your age 14 times a week wasn't a big deal so unless you are addicted to porn or if it's affecting your way of life or how you interact with other people, I wouldn't worry about it. That being said, I do believe you have some underlying factors might not be willing to discuss and that's when you might want to seek some help from a professional.
I uses to be like that. It will go away over time as you begin to have other interests like a job or a dog.
hisnastybitch
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Research porn addiction on the net. If you feel it is negatively affecting your life. Otherwise I would not put too much trust into youtube and random articles. At least find a proper scientific study.
hisnastybitch
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even I really want to stop this ?..
Degriz
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I was about to say "that's lockdown for you!" but maybe not. It may be that you are hypersexual, but as you get older it does slow down. As mentioned above if you are working and focused on something that is all-absorbing it's probably not going to dominate your mind as it does. I feel for you though. I have had similar thoughts of myself during this lockdown isolation period.
hisnastybitch
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really.. hope this flaterns .. I don't want to stop totally but controlled...
Kristy
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My question above was do you have family to attend to, job, schooling, home responsibilities, etc, you are neglecting during this time?
If so, that is the definition of porn addiction.
Also, wanting to stop and not being able to, is also porn addiction.
You're spending a lot of time on sex/porn related activity between orgasms. If you want to stop and find you cannot, and/or it is disrupting other areas of your life, there is help for this. People get helped for it all the time through one on one with a professional, or in a discussion group or group meetings.
Degriz
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Yes I can relate.
What negative effects does it have for you? It is also going to be entirely a fight agains your own mind and you can only win this by having a strong will. There is no "stop fap" pill.
hisnastybitch
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What does it mean?
hisnastybitch
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Go get professional help then if you are not able to stop it yourself. As I said research porn addiction.
hisnastybitch
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Or you can start making cumshot videos in the human cumshot thread and make yourself a career out of that on here.
And effectively keep your horniness as low as possible all the time. Flying Dutchman
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Tailo
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If you want it to stop, I'd suggest just toning it down a little. For example, go down from two times a day to once a day with maybe one or two exceptions "permitted" per week. Don't think of the fapping as bad—it is not bad for your health—but make staying below ten times a week a positive challenge to master for you.
Think in advance of something nice you can do instead of fapping in case you feel the urge and have already reached your limit, jogging for example.
Maybe change your avatar to something less kinky as a good start, too.
(Note: I have zero qualifications for giving advice on this topic. ?)
Think in advance of something nice you can do instead of fapping in case you feel the urge and have already reached your limit, jogging for example.
Maybe change your avatar to something less kinky as a good start, too.
(Note: I have zero qualifications for giving advice on this topic. ?)
hisnastybitch
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Yah I will try thank you all... love u people
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YW, my fellow zoo! ???Yah I will try thank you all... love u people
I've struggled with this too. And this helps for me a lot. Change your focus. Wouldn't it be much nicer if you could share your feelings with a partner? Try to focus more on the real deal. Save your sexual energy for real girls. If you are not a girl magnet like me then try to figure out how to get girls attracted to you. Take care of yourself, try to work on your self confidence and keep an eye out for the small hints girls give.
I've taken it a step further now and I'm completely withholding orgasms. last time I cummed was somewhere begin this month. I still look if there are some new interesting porn videos a few times a week. But I don't cum to them anymore. I don't feel trapped anymore in porn and masturbation. Hope this helps a little
I've taken it a step further now and I'm completely withholding orgasms. last time I cummed was somewhere begin this month. I still look if there are some new interesting porn videos a few times a week. But I don't cum to them anymore. I don't feel trapped anymore in porn and masturbation. Hope this helps a little
hisnastybitch
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Thankuuu ill try it ...think this might help me... thnks a lot..