Have you hosted for someone outside the household, or vice-versa?

[aggresive]

I'm curious on whether there are dog owners who have allowed their dogs to fool around with a visitor. Reading from the forum threads it seems to be frowned upon for behavioral purposes but has that dissuaded people here from doing the same?

Not necessarily have to be penetrative, perhaps petplay with a dog in order to present that person as a potential playmate for the dog. Curious about the experiences of that, and thoughts about it.

EDIT: Would like to clarify that this is not an inquiry for anyone hosting. I'm just asking what the experience is like if it's ever occurred before.

 

[pes]

I have only ever let a small number of trusted zoo friends to "play" with my dog.
Pimping your dog out as a sex toy to anyone because you want to watch a woman fuck a dog and then marry her, which is what some people try to do here is frowned upon because animals are not sex toys.

 

[aggresive]

I have only ever let a small number of trusted zoo friends to "play" with my dog.
Pimping your dog out as a sex toy to anyone because you want to watch a woman fuck a dog and then marry her, which is what some people try to do here is frowned upon because animals are not sex toys.

I don't have any zoo friends so I am curious as to what level of comfort would one get before they would even entertain the idea. Dogs do have the capacity to remember strangers at least from my experience petsitting but I do not know if this transfers to anything sexual, and even then if given the choice I would not let the libido of people override the care necessary for my pet.

 

[egoldstein]

We've had zoo friends over and largely if I trust them enough to be in my home I trust them enough to treat the dogs with respect and repect their agency. If both canine and human are interested, I typically don't have an issue with it. It's not a common occurance though as most of us have our own partners already, but it does happen on occasion.
My job is to protect the dogs from harm not limit their experiences, so I retain veto for health/safety but otherwise let the dog decide.

 

[pes]

curious as to what level of comfort would one get before they would even entertain the idea

You need to be sure you can trust the person with your identity and that they know how to treat a dog nicely.
Various people have various requirements. It took me at least a year of frequent contact to get to know each other well enough to even meet without a dog.