Zetazimboom
Tourist
I was curious how many of you all had met up with other zoos in real life through this or a related forum/chatroom. If you have, what’s it like? Do you chat extensively beforehand? Do you just meet up casually at first?
Have you ever met up with anybody on here?
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This has been asked a few times before. Just recently there was a thread about someone going to court over his "friends" not really being friends. I have met a few other zoos and I do regret meeting some of them. Anyway it is a very good idea to chat extensively and for years before you let a stranger into your life.
Especially if you or the other person have a dog or any animal that you can loose if the law gets involved it is a good idea to know the other person very well.
Especially if you or the other person have a dog or any animal that you can loose if the law gets involved it is a good idea to know the other person very well.
Bloit
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
Not through this forum, but way back when BF still existed...
I've been invited by 2 different users back then. Both were people I've been chatting with on and off for a few years before they invited me over. This resulted in us having a pretty good idea of each other's personality beforehand, and made for a pleasant first contact irl.
I can't stress enough how important patience is. Don't expect to come over and get laid immediately. Quick contacts like that are often more trouble than they're worth.
One of the 2 came over to my place for first contact, with his dane. We met at a public place relatively close to my home, took the dog for a walk in the woods, had a nice chat, which allowed that dane to get used to me. This gives both parties the option to get comfortable with each other.
I've been invited by 2 different users back then. Both were people I've been chatting with on and off for a few years before they invited me over. This resulted in us having a pretty good idea of each other's personality beforehand, and made for a pleasant first contact irl.
I can't stress enough how important patience is. Don't expect to come over and get laid immediately. Quick contacts like that are often more trouble than they're worth.
One of the 2 came over to my place for first contact, with his dane. We met at a public place relatively close to my home, took the dog for a walk in the woods, had a nice chat, which allowed that dane to get used to me. This gives both parties the option to get comfortable with each other.
T
Tailo
Guest
I've met up with zoos in real life. Some had talked with me for months before, but I've also met someone on the same day I talked to him for the first time and we had only chatted for a few minutes. First meetings were almost always in a public place ... Hey, now that I think about it: I've also met zoos I had never talked to before. This happens when you meet with more than one person at the same time and haven't talked with everyone before. I met three of my zooey friends in person before having talked to them online.
What is it like? Different every time. People are different. Some meetings were okay, some were very nice. According to my experience, talking for a long time before meeting is no guarantee that you will be in tune in real life. But talking a little beforehand is probably advisable anyway. I don't regret any first meeting I had.
The very rare negative experience with zoos was with someone I had already met before and talked a lot with. But the negativity doesn't really have to do anything with our relationships with animals. People sometimes happen to misunderstand and consequently disappoint each other, no matter what their orientation is. It hurts more if it is someone you know well rather than someone you've just met and don't really care about yet.
I have never met with a zoo to have sex though and I guess that my experiences are not representative for people who meet up to have sex. Also note that sex with animals is legal were I live, so I didn't need to worry about law enforcement.
What is it like? Different every time. People are different. Some meetings were okay, some were very nice. According to my experience, talking for a long time before meeting is no guarantee that you will be in tune in real life. But talking a little beforehand is probably advisable anyway. I don't regret any first meeting I had.
The very rare negative experience with zoos was with someone I had already met before and talked a lot with. But the negativity doesn't really have to do anything with our relationships with animals. People sometimes happen to misunderstand and consequently disappoint each other, no matter what their orientation is. It hurts more if it is someone you know well rather than someone you've just met and don't really care about yet.
I have never met with a zoo to have sex though and I guess that my experiences are not representative for people who meet up to have sex. Also note that sex with animals is legal were I live, so I didn't need to worry about law enforcement.
A
Alpha Cat
Guest
When I was on BF I met a few people who really wanted to chat. It seemed to me that ten years ago most of the more level-headed people kept to themselves. The few people who I met online just wanted to talk. Both of those guys seemed slightly off in the membrane. I can't remember their names. One guy was claiming to have connections to underground zoo parties and the other guy just wanted to get me to read all 2876 of his stories. I can honestly say that my time on Zooville has been very different and I have met some really awesome people online. Maybe, one day, we will meet in real life.
Panda Chen
Zooville Settler
I have met a few from online. I knew all of them for quiet some time the shortest being a few months and we chatted every day for most of that then talked on the phone. He was also already met with by another zoo I knew. I have met some offline through others. Which made me feel uncomfortable for the most part. For those living where this is not acceptable meeting should be taken seriously. You are putting your life and the lives of those you care about in this other persons hands. Only meet when you a sure and comfortable. All it takes is one bad to ruin your life. That being said knowing someone who you can be open about this is a very pleasant thing to have in life.