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Got me thinking, how do you ask someone if they are into bestiality?

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I am wondering if I should ask someone about the topic or would it be easier to find a woman through sites like this?
 
Ive usually just blurted it out on one of the first few dates and ive been lucky i guess because no ones hated me for it
 
One way I open that dialog with potential play partners is when I set up the Consent Agreement. I have a checklist of fetishes which include almost everything. If they mark off hard limit, there's no conversation to have. If they mark anything else I know I can eventually open that dialog. That's how my ex and I began watching and exploring the possibilities. Recently, my last two play partners, one was a hard limit, the other was curious but very much not ready to have a discussion. I don't know if there are Consent Agreements in this corner of the fetish universe, and if you're not in the BDSM lifestyle using them, well IDK.
 
I’ve found to start off talking about bad dragon toys and all the different animals and monsters they talk about . Lots of them seem to be attracted to those and the knot on the dog cock seems to peek their interest a lot as well. So we just start there and build up their curiosity and then we slowly start talking about actual dogs. It also helped that they were into pet play
 
If I was talking with someone outside of a beast website, I would gauge their interest by their reaction to a story. Once sex has been introduced to the talk I ask what is their wildest done or seen. Not immediately tho but sometime in the conversation where it flows I’ll ask. Once they tell me their wildest, I tell them my wildest seen.
I will tell them that I was at a sex party and heard noises coming from a back room. I went to check it. Thinking it was 2 girls or a couple putting on a show. Open the door and people were watching a dog fuck a woman.
If the reaction is one of disgust, I’ll drop it and move on. If the reaction is one of curiosity, I’ll continue. Answer questions. Then I’ll tell them about my dog and his adventures. It worked. Have met some outside of a beast setting and introduced them to a wonderful new world.
 
The main way I try to get to the topic of zoophilia with others is through humour. If the person I'm with like dark or sex jokes, I'll start off with those sort of jokes or have a laugh around those sort of topics, slowly involving animals into the general topic before getting closer to talking and joking about bestiality. Then when the topic is practically joking about beastiality I might try and get a little more serious to see their reaction. Managed to do it with a colleague once, but they're against beastiality, they'd report me if they ever seriously found me doing it ?
 
Knutshack said:
The main way I try to get to the topic of zoophilia with others is through humour. If the person I'm with like dark or sex jokes, I'll start off with those sort of jokes or have a laugh around those sort of topics, slowly involving animals into the general topic before getting closer to talking and joking about bestiality. Then when the topic is practically joking about beastiality I might try and get a little more serious to see their reaction. Managed to do it with a colleague once, but they're against beastiality, they'd report me if they ever seriously found me doing it ?
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Also, I knew this person well, or well enough to joke about it and get to the topic. I probably personally wouldn't do it with a stranger unless I could tell for sure they were I to dark and sex humour and looked like they could be approached
 
Doggo513 said:
I’ve found to start off talking about bad dragon toys and all the different animals and monsters they talk about . Lots of them seem to be attracted to those and the knot on the dog cock seems to peek their interest a lot as well. So we just start there and build up their curiosity and then we slowly start talking about actual dogs. It also helped that they were into pet play
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this is the way
 
Doggo513 said:
I’ve found to start off talking about bad dragon toys and all the different animals and monsters they talk about . Lots of them seem to be attracted to those and the knot on the dog cock seems to peek their interest a lot as well. So we just start there and build up their curiosity and then we slowly start talking about actual dogs. It also helped that they were into pet play
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This is how I have approached it with my current partner. She eventually got excited seeing some real videos or photos I sent. She isn't sure about sucking dogs off but said she would get knotted by one for now.
 
Vexed said:
One way I open that dialog with potential play partners is when I set up the Consent Agreement. I have a checklist of fetishes which include almost everything. If they mark off hard limit, there's no conversation to have. If they mark anything else I know I can eventually open that dialog. That's how my ex and I began watching and exploring the possibilities. Recently, my last two play partners, one was a hard limit, the other was curious but very much not ready to have a discussion. I don't know if there are Consent Agreements in this corner of the fetish universe, and if you're not in the BDSM lifestyle using them, well IDK.
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Genius approach. Will borrow this idea.
 
AspiringEngagement23 said:
Genius approach. Will borrow this idea.
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The first time, with the longterm relationship I was in a few years back, it was just simply by watching porn together, we found it. I didn't think to add it to my Consent Agreement until after we broke up and it became part of my interest. I wish I had thought if it way back, I might be in a different place today.
 
Vexed said:
The first time, with the longterm relationship I was in a few years back, it was just simply by watching porn together, we found it. I didn't think to add it to my Consent Agreement until after we broke up and it became part of my interest. I wish I had thought if it way back, I might be in a different place today.
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No regrets. This a fantastic idea. And its an easy way to find that immediate disgust a person might have seeing that on a list, or a hmmm response. Ya never know, but this is a really clean approach to ultra sensitive topic.
 
Bad dragon fantasy topics, mentioning I used to work in a dog sled camp and talking about how hot I find the characters in animated animal films all seem to be good directions, but I've yet to be met by anyone on that front yet.

My partner doesn't really know/care, as long as I'm being safe when we play separately.
 
Just ask them bunch random questions like making them think it's test and ask do you ever though have something with animal if you make other questions weird enough person would not think anything about why exactly this question
 
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