I started the conversation with my exwife (not why we divorced) but she said it is disgusting and that was that. I used a current event of another couple in my area getting caught trying to meet an owner as the way to start the conversation. Maybe not the best ice breaker.
For couples...Do you share your interest in the lifestyle with your mate and if so how and which opened the conversation to share it together?
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iwanttobeabottom
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
A girl I used to date knew about me liking it, but she didn't approve, so it never came up again. She was never comfortable with me being bi either though.
Thats awesome, I envy you. Id like to meet couples somehow to just sit and openly in person chat but its not likely, no need for a third wheel, as a couple they are all set.
It just sounds great to be open and free to talk and actually experience it with your mate. I was in a swinging relationship for 8 years, that was nice, not the same but still it was exciting to see her sexually interacti g with another and no jealousy.
It just sounds great to be open and free to talk and actually experience it with your mate. I was in a swinging relationship for 8 years, that was nice, not the same but still it was exciting to see her sexually interacti g with another and no jealousy.
FamilyPupTrainer
Tourist
I think that, as with many other out of the main stream lifestyles, this is a conversation that MUST happen but needs to be carefully approached. If, like me, this is a part of your life then you cannot have a successful relationship without it.
Like Palenor says above, it's "great to be open and free to talk and actually experience this with your mate." I promise you that we are out there, your person is out there that will love and cherish this side of who you are
Like Palenor says above, it's "great to be open and free to talk and actually experience this with your mate." I promise you that we are out there, your person is out there that will love and cherish this side of who you are
gargoyle
Citizen of Zooville
Is your friend into zoo too?
beralea
Zooville Settler
Honestly I'm not 100% certain if he is into it himself or is just into others being into it (if that made sense). He found this forum for me ?
gargoyle
Citizen of Zooville
Well it makes sense, for example it's gets me very excited seeing a girl doing it but I'm not attracted to animals! You can ask him if you have no problem talking about it with him!
quiet_tiger
Lurker
I've admitted to my wife that I like it. She's accepting but it's not her thing. I don't bring it up with her because it's a little embarrassing to discuss while knowing she's not into it.