Experience telling others?
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nekdoneco123
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
why would you tell anything if it's "just a kink" to you? the potential risks hardly outweight any potential gain if it's something so insignificant to you that you label it "a kink".
i can't imagine a world where having a dick profile picture helps with that at all....
Mallow
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“Kind of a dick towards people” is an understatement thanks for the encouraging words
the odds of them being into it are very very low.
and even if they were they would probably pretend they weren't because THEY don't want to tell anyone, early on at least.
perhaps a way would be to both get pretty drunk and then bring up the topic or something, and just gauge there reaction or something.
and even if they were they would probably pretend they weren't because THEY don't want to tell anyone, early on at least.
perhaps a way would be to both get pretty drunk and then bring up the topic or something, and just gauge there reaction or something.
Eckslov
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Tl;Dr Ive told alot of people recently which is dumb but most of the time they act as if it isn't even a big deal which surprises me
I've actually told around 10 people in the last year or so, some of them I only met the same day. Fair warning don't do this, it's foolish and very risky, but I treat it almost like a game with myself.
Of the 10, 8 have also been zoos and the other 2 have been fine, 1 of those 2 is my best friend while the rest were people I was flirting with or in a relationship or doing something sexual. I usually ask when the topic of kinks comes up and I'll build the ante and say like 'no judgement at all I'm accepting of anything no matter how extreme, but like what's ur worst kink' and ill steer the conversation whatever way or if needs be just confess that I'm one and say I understand why they don't wanna be friends with a taboo weirdo, and yeh most of the time they downplay the severity of being a zoo after I've built it up to be such a huge secret of mine, which always surprises me
To clarify by worst I mean like. Most extreme not as in I think it's a bad kink to have. I love being a zoo
I've actually told around 10 people in the last year or so, some of them I only met the same day. Fair warning don't do this, it's foolish and very risky, but I treat it almost like a game with myself.
Of the 10, 8 have also been zoos and the other 2 have been fine, 1 of those 2 is my best friend while the rest were people I was flirting with or in a relationship or doing something sexual. I usually ask when the topic of kinks comes up and I'll build the ante and say like 'no judgement at all I'm accepting of anything no matter how extreme, but like what's ur worst kink' and ill steer the conversation whatever way or if needs be just confess that I'm one and say I understand why they don't wanna be friends with a taboo weirdo, and yeh most of the time they downplay the severity of being a zoo after I've built it up to be such a huge secret of mine, which always surprises me
To clarify by worst I mean like. Most extreme not as in I think it's a bad kink to have. I love being a zoo