So I'm really new, and honestly feel like I might be stirring the pot a bit much a bit soon. Yet I've got the need to say this after reading enough threads.
I came here for the freedom to express my desires, to learn more, and to *possibly* have some good rapport/relationships.
Yet from what I've read so far, there seems to be alot of emotional investment in potentially the wrong places. I see alot of folk calling each other pretty bad names for things like 'cheating'(not sure I really get the concept of cheating in regards to beastiality, that's personal ignorance or lack of morals on my part) or liking rough sex, or having a piss fetish.
The reactions are a bit over the top, and obviously emotionally charged responses to such topics. What I hope to foster with this post is a bit of a softer touch, open up a bit more. Now don't twist anything I'm saying here, I do not condone or promote pedophilia or (non-consensual) abuse. Yet what we ought to understand is that some of us may not know alot, many of us will make mistakes or have made mistakes. Instead of saying 'you're disgusting' maybe try "hey that's not cool and here's why"
Just try to be a teeny bit more accepting, try to help a fellow idiot out instead of calling them one. Then when they continue to act like shit- just report it and be done with it, you don't need that investment. Trust me, from experience you'll feel better not chasing someone through a forum who you perceive as a troll. It also makes you look better, don't go chasing turds lest you get shit on your shoe.
I will say something a bit sensitive, so it'll be interesting what the response is...
If you're obsessed with being the moral police here, it's coming from a place of obvious insecurity due to the subject matter as a whole. Don't be so insecure. Let the mods do their glorious work, thank them for it and report the shit you see. Be better. Self improvement is masturbation.
I came here for the freedom to express my desires, to learn more, and to *possibly* have some good rapport/relationships.
Yet from what I've read so far, there seems to be alot of emotional investment in potentially the wrong places. I see alot of folk calling each other pretty bad names for things like 'cheating'(not sure I really get the concept of cheating in regards to beastiality, that's personal ignorance or lack of morals on my part) or liking rough sex, or having a piss fetish.
The reactions are a bit over the top, and obviously emotionally charged responses to such topics. What I hope to foster with this post is a bit of a softer touch, open up a bit more. Now don't twist anything I'm saying here, I do not condone or promote pedophilia or (non-consensual) abuse. Yet what we ought to understand is that some of us may not know alot, many of us will make mistakes or have made mistakes. Instead of saying 'you're disgusting' maybe try "hey that's not cool and here's why"
Just try to be a teeny bit more accepting, try to help a fellow idiot out instead of calling them one. Then when they continue to act like shit- just report it and be done with it, you don't need that investment. Trust me, from experience you'll feel better not chasing someone through a forum who you perceive as a troll. It also makes you look better, don't go chasing turds lest you get shit on your shoe.
I will say something a bit sensitive, so it'll be interesting what the response is...
If you're obsessed with being the moral police here, it's coming from a place of obvious insecurity due to the subject matter as a whole. Don't be so insecure. Let the mods do their glorious work, thank them for it and report the shit you see. Be better. Self improvement is masturbation.
