ameliamutt
Tourist
I feel such a strong urge to find a k9 partner but don't want to rush things. How did you know you were ready to act on these impulses?
Dumb Question - How do I know when I'm ready?
- Thread starter ameliamutt
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First you are not ready if you believe using your face as your profile picture here is a good idea.
Then you are ready once you read all the information you need How To's and Educational and think you want to do it.
Then you are ready once you read all the information you need How To's and Educational and think you want to do it.
ameliamutt
Tourist
I'm making my way through the content and have read a lot elsewhere over the years.
Interesting that y'all don't trust each other here.
Interesting that y'all don't trust each other here.
nekdoneco123
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
is little trust on a public forum about in most places illegal thing really that surprising?
The whole internet has access to this website.
Do you trust a 100% of people on the entire planet?
Cookiecaretaker
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
trust and beeing careless/dumb are different things
ameliamutt
Tourist
Lmao no. It's just interesting to observe. I don't know what else to say considering I felt judged so quickly.The whole internet has access to this website.
Right. Thanks for the input. Good to know how you guys react to things.
Cookiecaretaker
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
its most important to stay safe, better u get some ,,rough,, comments here instead that law enforcement in ur country will do it
to ur question, u are ready when u feel good about getting a dog and care for him/her over many years in good and bad times
to ur question, u are ready when u feel good about getting a dog and care for him/her over many years in good and bad times
ameliamutt
Tourist
For what it's worth I don't find the comments rough to handle. It's their right to judge and speak to me however they want. I'm just interested by the choice.
Thank you for actually answering my question. I'm know what I need to do to be an owner. Focusing on that feel productive
blijftniksover
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
No one can tell you or decide for you when you’re ready love.
That’s completely up to you.
Talk to/with people you feel comfortable with.
Be carefull with sharing personal information but don’t be scared to talk/ask/chat.
Personally I think that’s the most important, and a forum like this can help. Here you can be anonymous and still be yourself.
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That’s completely up to you.
Talk to/with people you feel comfortable with.
Be carefull with sharing personal information but don’t be scared to talk/ask/chat.
Personally I think that’s the most important, and a forum like this can help. Here you can be anonymous and still be yourself.
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AppleDash
Citizen of Zooville
Knowing when you are ready is very subjective. In my case, there was close to a decade between the first zoosexual desires emerging, and me accepting those. It was exactly because of the pariah status in any society that I quickly learned to move forward with caution and be cautious in who to trust. So, between accepting my zoosexual desires and finding friends with the same desires were some more years on top of that decade. There also was about a year between the first chat and the first meet.
In a way, I think a lot comes down to restraint and gut feeling. If you are looking for your own dog, then park the sexual prospects for a moment, think about what sort of dog you would like, and bear in mind that it might be possible the dog will not be interested in that kind of sex. If you are looking for somebody who invites people over for zoosex, take your time chatting. Try to find out how they treat their animal companions. Often, posts here on the forum are an appropriate indication. If you are looking for a human zoosexual partner, again, proceed with caution and try to find out what sort of person this is and whether you have something in common beyond zoosex.
Read up on how to stay safe during meetings. A first meeting - without the sex - is already a good way to find out more about the person. Finally, as with so many things, if it sounds too good to be true, then it probably isn't.
In a way, I think a lot comes down to restraint and gut feeling. If you are looking for your own dog, then park the sexual prospects for a moment, think about what sort of dog you would like, and bear in mind that it might be possible the dog will not be interested in that kind of sex. If you are looking for somebody who invites people over for zoosex, take your time chatting. Try to find out how they treat their animal companions. Often, posts here on the forum are an appropriate indication. If you are looking for a human zoosexual partner, again, proceed with caution and try to find out what sort of person this is and whether you have something in common beyond zoosex.
Read up on how to stay safe during meetings. A first meeting - without the sex - is already a good way to find out more about the person. Finally, as with so many things, if it sounds too good to be true, then it probably isn't.
UR20Z
Dumpster Diver
Some of us have been part of the "scene" that is zoophilia/bestiality for quite a while, and have watched people (and their critters) take beatdowns (sometimes verbal, sometimes physical) for something as minor as saying something that ONLY HINTED that they might be willing to have sex with an animal. Many have gone to prison. Even more have had their lives ruined. And more critters than I care to think about have been sexually mutilated or even put to death because they're "contaminated" by having been sexually involved with a human. There have been cops (Joe Arpiao out of Phoenix AZ being the best-known) that have made it a project to visit sites like this and post offers to supply animals for sex, then bust those who show up. So no, the level of trust for newcomers hovers someplace near zero - at least, among those of us who have "been around the block" more than once.
The idea of using anything identifiable as an avatar on a forum like this should terrify you. You're absolutely BEGGING to get clobbered by doing so, especially these days, when it's a matter of a few seconds to drop an image into bing or google and get back damn near anything you might want to know about someone, right down to their underwear size.
BaileyAffair
Zooville Settler
My advice is to start slow and just try it, you can just get comfortable and get used to it. Getting over the hurdle of just getting physical in any sexual way was all I needed.