Dom/sub

[Intriguedbyu]

Where do you guys find these sub woman and other than them being afraid to talk to you, your error what’s the interest? I have never been attracted to a woman without a brain and a will.

 

[nekdoneco123]

my guess it's a domination thing. some folk get off to be in charge of someone else. men who just look for a "zoo woman" to perform for them without being attracted to animals themselves fall under this too.
you find them probably on a dedicated site/forum for this sort of thing. fetlife i think it's called?

 

[Intriguedbyu]

Im submissive but not afraid to talk to ppl.

Never been attracted to a submissive woman, I’d rather they speak their mind in or out of intimate desires. I have no need to be in charge I’ve learned that a mutual respect and not just hearing but listening makes everything a whole lot better!

 

[amorousdog5]

Dom and Sub isn't about who has more respect. Both are respected equally (or should be ideally). It's just about who prefers to take the lead. Some people like it when their partner guides the experience, and others prefer to take charge themselves. It should also be noted that being a sub does NOT mean you have no say. There is still communication during the relationship; a good dom learns what their sub likes and will tailor the sexual experiences with that in mind.

Of course there are extremes that ARE about who has more respect, like humiliation play, but that's more of an actual fetish than normal dom/sub behavior.

 

[K9Evangelist]

Just because a woman has a brain and a will doesn't mean she's not submissive with the right person or right situation. It just depends on the dynamics between her and her partner. I've known women who were very assertive out of the bedroom.

People confuse a woman being submissive with a woman being a doormat. There's a big difference.