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Does the taboo aspect make it more exciting?

Not here. I find the taboo more a hindrance to living my (sexual) life as I see fit. It's because of the taboo and the social stigma, the real-life consequences if found out, that I have to look over my shoulder all the time. I cannot simply put a tie on the handle of the stable door, and I need more and more often keep my paranoia at bay.

So no. Maybe the taboo makes it more exciting for fetishists and thrill seekers, but I am none of those. I am a zoosexual.
 
It definitely presents some challenges and adds a fair amount of stress for those of us who, for one reason or another, have to share living space with non-zoos, and definitely isn't more exciting because of it (often less so, in fact).

The risk to both myself and my animal companion should our activities be discovered outweighs the mutual pleasure we get from engaging in it, so the only real times we get to, are when the other members of the household aren't here.
 
AppleDash said:
Not here. I find the taboo more a hindrance to living my (sexual) life as I see fit. It's because of the taboo and the social stigma, the real-life consequences if found out, that I have to look over my shoulder all the time. I cannot simply put a tie on the handle of the stable door, and I need more and more often keep my paranoia at bay.

So no. Maybe the taboo makes it more exciting for fetishists and thrill seekers, but I am none of those. I am a zoosexual.
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Good point about the fetishers and thrill seekers.
 
No.
Also, I hate the word "Taboo". It has too much associations with CP.
 
Ehm I don't think so. If someone is a fetishist and have fantasies only, taboo factor may be benefitial because something is forbidden and must be kept on secret. Some people say - forbidden fruit tastes better. But for people who are consent and they wanna fulfill dreams and have true (physical and emotional) relations with animals - taboo is a huuuge problem.

But I can say from my own experience, I treated my own needs as a stigma, something wrong and inaproppriate. But weeks later I was free from negative thinking.
 
For me, I don't think it was more exciting, it was like something natural, I was attracted to those females in heat, being mostly alone I didn't have as many problems, but yes, always having that share of fear of being discovered.
 
Not really. It could be normaized tomorrow and I'd still be as turned on by it forever.
 
enforcer1611 said:
Does the fact that is considered taboo get you even more excited? Share how it makes it even better.
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My first experience and every instance afterwards, I concentrate on the electrifyingly explosive thought that a dog's enthusiastically willing pussy is unbelievably wrapped around my dick and we're both thoroughly enjoying the raw intensity of our taboo gratification where I'm able to satisfy my inner animal by primally copulating with a dog while she excitedly anticipates her instinctive goal of her pussy being generously creampied in hopes of producing offspring.
 
UsagiRaine said:
I pretty much agree with the stance that it's more of a hindrance in that I can't live as sexually free as I would like to. I really don't like living in fear of getting caught or having my life ruined for the way I feel.
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I've always felt that the fear of being caught was an immensely powerful aphrodisiac which makes the act so much more electrifyingly explosive.

However, I always simultaneously realized the ramifications of someone happening upon me in the orgasmic throes of being lost in the moment while oblivious to their presence and suffering the potential legal consequences.
 
Like other people are saying, it being taboo is a pro and a con. Pro because taboo things in general are just hot. Con because I have to hide this part of me.
 
Like anything in our short lives, sex can can be considered taboo if it's with a same sex partner or with multiple partners at the same time, today that has been mostly accepted as a bit above vanilla, add restraining , punishing or subjecting your lover to humiliation a dash of pain perhaps even a splash of water sport then for most it borders on taboo or wrong something to contain in private between yourselves, a little mundane for some who need that extra rush or boost of adrenaline,
Now to submit yourself to the one and perhaps most taboo in the minds of some people not only gives that extra adrenaline rush and the most exhilarating feeling of total submission bringing out what I consider a deep imbedded primitive animal longing to be taken like our primative ancestors knowing full well it is considered not only wrong to give yourself to an Alfa animal but if caught the repercussions would definetly give more than an adrenaline rush.so yes it adds to the excitement and makes the forbid fruit much more delicious.
 
There's a certain thrill to the secrecy and forbidden love aspect of it if I am honest, but on balance it is more of a hindrance, especially now that pearl clutchers are pushing for repressive laws worldwide or even try to make neutering compulsory. It's also annoying to see news articles and online discussions where people describe us as sadists and us being censored as soon as we express a dissenting opinion.
 
I'm not really sure how to answer that, yes the taboo aspect probably adds something but I would love to live in a more open accepting world for everyone with continually based kinks
 
kinkysara said:
Like anything in our short lives, sex can can be considered taboo if it's with a same sex partner or with multiple partners at the same time, today that has been mostly accepted as a bit above vanilla, add restraining , punishing or subjecting your lover to humiliation a dash of pain perhaps even a splash of water sport then for most it borders on taboo or wrong something to contain in private between yourselves, a little mundane for some who need that extra rush or boost of adrenaline,
Now to submit yourself to the one and perhaps most taboo in the minds of some people not only gives that extra adrenaline rush and the most exhilarating feeling of total submission bringing out what I consider a deep imbedded primitive animal longing to be taken like our primative ancestors knowing full well it is considered not only wrong to give yourself to an Alfa animal but if caught the repercussions would definetly give more than an adrenaline rush.so yes it adds to the excitement and makes the forbid fruit much more delicious.
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My sapiosexual lust is badly triggered by this post and your mind, idk what's hotter, dirty talk or intelligent conversation but this has both
 
Taboo in the strict definition, as mentioned by others, is typically part of what makes most people experience sexual stimulation more intensely. This falls pretty squarely in the 'bestiality as a fetish' or kink category. Despite that I want to validate those who acknowledge that the forbidden element has had some influence on increasing sexual pleasure while still remaining part of their sexual identity. It can be one way people cope with being zoo by glorifying the risk factors and the bigotry or fear of rejection. A way to say 'all of who I am is satisfying and makes me proud' even the unjust parts. As those same comments have noted on the whole, for someone sexually attracted to animals, it is something that we can do without and would give up to have our love and attractions accepted by wider society. A good rule of thumb that I noticed puts me apart from fetishists is that my sexual fantasies have always been about sexual and romantic relationships with individuals - even fantasies based on one off encounters the excitement is more from discovering someone new and exploring and navigating sexual pleasure together.

Yes physical traits play a part, finding form and physique sexually alluring but even those more physical fantasies focus on the experience in the moment. Any taboo enhancement would be a fleeting and usually intrusive thought rather than a welcome one that forms a primary or even noticeable secondary part of the desire. If it does feature in my desires it comes more from a place of the romantic side of the relationship. Love in defiance of hate as a way to be proud of who I am. I dont mean to imply you cant be zoo without having a romantic interest in animal partners (never considered it because sex and love are intertwined in to my sexuality so maybe you cant but thats a topic for another conversation) but if you do have that romantic interest that is a helpful signpost as well.

I also think kinkysara is not necessarily wrong either. Perhaps that is what a healthier form of exploring a zoosexual identity looks like. Embracing the taboo as a way to enhance rather than as a threat. Personally I would prefer to be in a place where I really don't care about the taboo and what society thinks because I can be with my partner and lover and live my life without having to worry about it. Which I know from talking to some people is definitely achieveable.

tl;dr don't kink shame but don't confuse sexuality with fetish either
 
CanineRomantic said:
Taboo in the strict definition, as mentioned by others, is typically part of what makes most people experience sexual stimulation more intensely. This falls pretty squarely in the 'bestiality as a fetish' or kink category. Despite that I want to validate those who acknowledge that the forbidden element has had some influence on increasing sexual pleasure while still remaining part of their sexual identity. It can be one way people cope with being zoo by glorifying the risk factors and the bigotry or fear of rejection. A way to say 'all of who I am is satisfying and makes me proud' even the unjust parts. As those same comments have noted on the whole, for someone sexually attracted to animals, it is something that we can do without and would give up to have our love and attractions accepted by wider society. A good rule of thumb that I noticed puts me apart from fetishists is that my sexual fantasies have always been about sexual and romantic relationships with individuals - even fantasies based on one off encounters the excitement is more from discovering someone new and exploring and navigating sexual pleasure together.

Yes physical traits play a part, finding form and physique sexually alluring but even those more physical fantasies focus on the experience in the moment. Any taboo enhancement would be a fleeting and usually intrusive thought rather than a welcome one that forms a primary or even noticeable secondary part of the desire. If it does feature in my desires it comes more from a place of the romantic side of the relationship. Love in defiance of hate as a way to be proud of who I am. I dont mean to imply you cant be zoo without having a romantic interest in animal partners (never considered it because sex and love are intertwined in to my sexuality so maybe you cant but thats a topic for another conversation) but if you do have that romantic interest that is a helpful signpost as well.

I also think kinkysara is not necessarily wrong either. Perhaps that is what a healthier form of exploring a zoosexual identity looks like. Embracing the taboo as a way to enhance rather than as a threat. Personally I would prefer to be in a place where I really don't care about the taboo and what society thinks because I can be with my partner and lover and live my life without having to worry about it. Which I know from talking to some people is definitely achieveable.

tl;dr don't kink shame but don't confuse sexuality with fetish either
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R U trying to turn me on with all those big words or what??
 
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