I dont have the need to let people know my fantasies, but I have casually brought it in convo in light hearted ways. My guy friends know I have watched that porn-they are hornballs like me but that aint their thing. I did tell the last 3 women I was involved with. This after becoming very close. 1 had prev experience and would have played if we had a willing pet. 2 was not into it but could have tried if conditions were right. 3 -not her thing, wont even watch porn.
None were offended/disgusted with me. But thats me and I keep small tight circles. I do not randomly tell acquaintances and I dont ever exoect /assume anyone would also find this arousing.
hat being said 99.99% of people I know/met have no idea..and I have not told to friends who have pets-for obvious reasons.
That being said, having a discreet convo and learning that the other person is also a zoo or curious is a great find!
I would say develop a filter/system as to who you will want to hint to and find funny/casual ways to bring it up in convo and gauge reactions. IN a social setting some may say :gross"..others will giggle, and yet others will tell a story they heard. So there you get an initial idea. Its how I hinted to my women. I had one lover who was total animal person-freak enough to just want to lick my asshole on her own-but upon hinting zoo she replied"..thats so wrong and disgusting". SO thats one lover who never knew.
Looking back (as this comes up alot in zoo blogs) I was actually surprised at the # of women who were open/not appalled when I told them about my zoo interest/experiences. ex wife, 3 gf and a handful of lovers. This is alot more than I thought I could tell when I had my first experience as a late teen!!
For me now who I choose and how I approach it, is automatic. But I always err on the side of caution.
And dont presume that someone who is into other alternate things-will automatically be open to zoo.
I had a Jamaican chick on my team at work. She transferred out but we stayed friends. Since she was no longer working for me, she felt easier lettings me know her feels; and without warning my IG DM was lit up with nudes in early AM. She said she always wanted to just send me nudes and we started exchanging nudes. She sent video too. She was very sexually open (anal, 3 some, strip club..eve Amsterdam sex shows she hit up) and had a pit bull. I hinted zoo...totally not an interest..never came back up.
YOu just never know, so just be good at feeling out without playing your hand
